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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Ive been single for two months now and have felt kinda lost without my ex. Im normally a really good girl that doesnt do anything wrong, thinks things through, and never makes mistakes. But lately Ive been drinking a lot with my frinds and making bad decisions. I've had two one night stands and I feel horrible now. I've been whoring it up so bad and now I'm getting a reputation and my friends all hate me now. The shit is definatly hitting the fan right now. I just feel like im losing control and I dont have a safe place to land. I feel so bad about myself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): Forgive yourself and stop. You will be fine, but if they are really your friends they will forgive you too when you return to normal.
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female
reader, YummyMummy +, writes (12 June 2007):
There's no point in feeling bad about stuff that has been done. Just close the door on the one night stands and dont go there again of you feel so bad about doing it.
The reputation will take some time to shake off. Just keep your head high and show you arent a whore or whatever. You just made a couple of mistakes, which just proves you are human :)
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (12 June 2007):
Don't feel bad about yourself. Everyone has lost control sometime. Just get back on your feet and stop doing things which you recognize as bad for you. The pain will eventually go away, and you don't need to destroy yourself in the process.Now, don't make the mistake of saying you never make mistakes.
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