Should I stop before it gets out of hand?
Q. I am 19 and have met a guy (45) who is really nice and i am friends with but latley we have started to kiss and touch each other. Is this ok or should i stop before it gets out of hand??...
A. 6 November 2007: Hon, if you felt comfortable with the situation, you wouldn't be asking. What would your father say? Or your mother? Make him stay away before you get hurt. Take care and God Bless.... (read in full...)
My husband lies.....
Q. I have only been married for 7 months. I have been with my husband for 6 years but these past few weeks have been hell. Here is my story. I saw a charge in our checking account for over 300.00 and I did not know where it came from. I called him he s...
A. 6 November 2007: Counseling is a big beginning of healing. Remember that it takes two to make it or break it. I would suggest that you talk about the use of drugs your husband did ...in the past? With the ammount of money he is spending at the strip clubs, are you ... (read in full...)
We've just started dating, but we can't find anything to do together that doesn't cost a lot, help us!
Q. I've started a new relationship with a guy a month ago; this is my first romantic relationship with anyone. Over the past few weeks, my boyfriend and I have made time to see each other once a week. The problem is, we've been having so much trouble ...
A. 6 November 2007: I agree with Kenny and RNC.
You don't need money. Spending time together should be enough. Fix a dinner at home, light some candles? Pop corn and a movie on tv...watch the sunrise or set..walk around at a nearby park, or through town window shop... (read in full...)
What to do to make him feel loved and cared for?
Q. Both me and my fiance are currently deployed overseas. What can I do to let him know that he feels loved and cared for?...
A. 6 November 2007: My husband and I were separated due to his working over seas for several months, so I know what it is your asking. If you and your husband have internet, get yourselves a web cam and talk over the web. You will be able to see and hear eachother. ... (read in full...)
My wife said she'd be willing to do the "work" for the company; this could lead her to spend the night with the clients. Should I agree?
Q. Hi My job with the company I work for involves looking after overseas clients. They general spend 4-5 days here then go home. Most are married men in their late 40-50s and like to have female company when we go to dinner. So I generally hire a...
A. 6 November 2007: Are you sure your wife is willing to sleep with these men, or just have flirty conversation over dinner? Do you love your wife? If she willing to sleep with them....does she love you? You need to discuss things with your wife and you both decide ... (read in full...)
She tells me she loves me and no one else, then hasn't called me in a month.
Q. I was truly in love with my ex and it took me most of the summer to decide that I was ready to get back into a relationship (I just got out of a rather bad several year relationship). She pressured me all summer to go out with her and was sexually ...
A. 6 November 2007: Let her go...No body does or doesn't do anything that they don't want to do. Actions speak louder than words. Find your self someone who will show you they care...her actions show she doesn't...move on to someone who is worth your time and ... (read in full...)
I like him he like's me, he's married, is this why he won't reply to my messages now?
Q. ok this is driving me mad, this guy i like is married so i dont really see him that often,anyway ive been told he likes me, but i sent a text message to him today its not much just asking if i could meet up with him, hes still not written anything ...
A. 6 November 2007: The word is, "Married". This man is off limits. Do you want to ruin his marriage? He apparently wants to stay married, or he would be answering your e-mail. Respect him as well as your self. Find someone that is single. Leave this man alone. ... (read in full...)
We only had a brief fling, now my neighbour won't talk to me
Q. Is this normal behaviour from a 54 year old man? He(R) lives across the road from me. 6 years ago when I moved in we got to know each other and I fell for him quickly and hard. When we tried to make love, he was unable to sustain his erection. ...
A. 6 November 2007: He may feel that it is wrong to have any contact with you because you have gone back to your husband. You are married, and he most likely does not want to get in the middle of your marriage. He may feel uncomfortable about talking to you now. Maybe ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling lonely and friendless and it's hurting my marriage, what can I do?
Q. In explaining myself prior to asking my question, I will probably seem pathetic one moment and arrogant the next, but I'm neither. I'm just being completely honest about my personality and tendancies to give you an idea of how different things are ...
A. 6 November 2007: Why not spend time with your husband? Suggest that the two of you go out together as a couple to meet and mingle with others? You will both benifit. It will not only bring the two of you closer together, but will alow you both to obtain new friends.... (read in full...)
He's on porn sites 5-6 times a week yet we make love on 2 or three... what's going on?
Q. My husband is on porn sights 5-6 days per week, but we only make love 2-3 times per week. Is this something I should be worried about?...
A. 6 November 2007: Thank you for your answers. I don't mind him looking at porn now and then. I really think what bothers me most is the amount of time he spends with it, and the fact he denies doing it. Maybe it is time to spice things up a bit concerning our sex ... (read in full...)
How can I please him?
Q. I've started seeing this guy and he's amazing i like him so so so much!! But we got onto the topic of sex the other night, just jokingly and he was saying about how he hates it when girls just "lay there and take it" and he's really experie...
A. 4 November 2007: First of all, relax. The worry you are having may cause you more problems. If and when it happens,just relax and let your emotions guide you. Little touches with your fingers, small kisses on his body, relax and let things happen. The more worried ... (read in full...)
My husband wants a threesome but says will respect my decision. Is he going to be satifsfied with just me?
Q. My husband of 9 months has suggested the idea of wanting to watch me have sex with another man, or having a mfm threesome. My husband and his x-wife had this kind of sexual relationship and he said it brought them closer together sexually. Fant...
A. 1 November 2007: Update! Thanks to all who posted their answers to my question. I have decided to stick to my guns and not do something against my nature. Old fashioned? YEPPER! Proud of it too. Just needed other's oppinions to put my worries at rest. THANK YOU... (read in full...)
Sexually assaulted and still a virgin at 25! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, I am a 25 year old Australian guy who is still a virgin. I am wondering if this is normal. I consider myself to be good looking, intelligant ( I doing my doctorate in clinical psychology) and socially active. I was sexualy assaulted ...
A. 1 November 2007: Try asking a woman out for coffee or lunch? Begin at becoming friends with the opposite sex. Friendship can develope into a more rewarding relationship.... (read in full...)
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