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writes:My girlfriend and I are in our first proper relationship we've been going out for 4 months now and things were going really well but within the space of week everything's gone pear shaped. she said that it was all due to exams and she's stressed out etc she doesn't know what's going to happen with us, and i'm really scared, i don't want to lose her i love her to bits. i mean, we're great together and i think i've found the 'one'. i can trust her when she goes and stuff like that but this is driving me crazy, i mean i keep punching stuff because i'm pissed off. i can't eat, enjoy myself or anything. i don't want time apart from her either because i think that would be the end of it to be honest. i get this feeling in my stomach and i keep thinking of her and what shes thinking, what shes going to do next what would happen if she went off with someone else and i feel physically sick. i don't know what to do. any suggestions welcome. Reply to this Question
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 First love rules doesn't it.
She may be the "one" but only time will tell. I remember taking my exams, and they were very stressful. All you can do is be there for her, maybe help her revise or text her Good Luck before exams to let her know you are thinking of her.
I'm not going to do the your too young to be in love blah blah stuff as I remember feeling like I was in love and being told I was too young etc didn't help.
If you two are really destined to be together you will work through this and come out stronger. There is a panice when you leave school/college over where you will be going next and stuff. Don't panic about it, and don't put your life on pause for this relationship.
I messed up big time in my last couple of years at school for my first love, and at the time it was worth it. We didn't work out and I had to get over it and move on with my life.
When her exams are finished arrange to meet up and have a chat about what you both want to do with your lives and see if they match up. Don't torture yourself with the what-ifs as you'll drive yourself crazy.
I can't really suggest much else. I hope my answer helped :)
xxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): You should just tough it out and see how it goes. If theres something like exams in the way, just wait till there over and see what happens then. Almost everyone thinks they have found the 'one' on their first unless its horrible. Just talk it over and see how you both feel. best of luck
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reader, trizzac  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 she wont leave you exams are stressful im doin mine now...it sounds to me like she is de 'one' nd she loves you to bits too so once de exams are ova nxt week or de week afta make up for lost time and take her to de cinema or somewhere specail jus to blow de stem of de exams off....
gud luk and let me no if i helped xxx
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