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*hevygirl123
writes:hi me and my boyfriend are in a serious relationship and we are thinking about having sex but i'm kinda worried because i'm a virgin and he's not what if he breaks up with me because i can't full feel his needs? Reply to this Question
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reader, maelstrom  +, writes (26 September 2008):
I'm a guy and would actually find it more of a turn on and that you have obviously waited for who you think is the right guy. so yeah i reckon it would be flattering
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): What you may have heard before really is true...if he's not willing to accept you as you are, and even value the fact that you're a virgin, then he truly is not worth it. If he cares about you, and you both want to take your relationship a step further, then he will gladly show you just how special you are by guiding you through step by step, loving you for exactly what you are. Just be proud of who you are and the fact that you've managed to be a virgin this long...that is an accomplishment! Any guy worth you should be proud of you for this too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): I'm in the same situation! I really don't know what to do... he's had 4 one night stands and now he's finally settling down, with me of course.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2007): You should only make love if it is what you want to do. If this is something you really want then discuss it with your boyfriend and explain that he must think about your needs, above all it must be safe sex. As you are a virgin and he may also be inexperienced it is not necessary to immediately have full penetration if you wish to go ahead.
Start by exploring each others bodies in a relaxed, not necessarily naked, way and move to lovemaking gradually.
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 Ah honey I know how you feel I remembr being in that situation once and I can tell ya I was bricking it, but he knew I was a virgin and I told him how I was feeling, he was so gentle and led the way, I have never looked back since so if he is caring babes he will understand and lead the way just relax I promise it will be fine....
Hope this helps to put your mind at rest....
Let me know how you got on......
Donna x
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (12 June 2007):
 Hey :)
Talk to your boyfriend about your worries. You wont be perfect at it your first time but you are never as bad as you think you are. Talk through with him about what he likes and what you think you like. If he's decent he will not dump you because the first time didn't send him shooting up to the stars. Have a second go and you may find you get in to the swing of things.
If your boyfriend knows about your concerns or fears he may be able to help you put the fears to rest.
Hope I helped xxxxxx
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