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Does a girl always fall in love with the guy she loses her virginity to?
Q. is it true that when a girl loses her virginity that the boy/man she loses it to she kind of falls in love with him?...
A. 23 November 2010: Definitely not true, loosing your virginity to someone doesnt have to mean anything, and to most men, it certainly doesnt, but to us women it usually does, so make sure you Know you love him before you do anything. ... (read in full...)
I am not thrilled about the wild boy's night out before out wedding!
Q. Heyy guys I have a big problem on my hands that i really need some advice on. Me and my other half who have been together for quite a while have decided to get married, the wedding isnt until 2012 but its already being planned however all of h...
A. 30 October 2010: For everyones information, the stag/hen does arent happening until 2012 either its just that his friends are already talking about it. I do trust my fiance, more than anything or anyone i have ever trusted and it is, his friends i do not trust wh... (read in full...)
Why does he ignore me and stare at other girls? I cant take much more of this but he keeps begging for a second chance....
Q. Why would my boyfriend do that? am really hurt:(? my boyfriend claims he loves me very much but i dont feel his love..he doesn't make me feel special, he doesn't give me the attention i need.. me on the other hand gives him all the love and a...
A. 29 October 2010: I think this guy is just messing you around hunny, you could do so much better you really seem like your the only one making an effort with your relationship and if he is not willing to give you the love and affection that you need then you need to ... (read in full...)
How do I cope with losing my job and friends?
Q. So the summer started, I graduated High School a week ago, and now my probably best summer in my life is ruined. I lost my job 2 days ago, I can't pay for gas/insurance starting next month. But wait, thats not it. I lost all of my good friends. ...
A. 19 June 2010: well I know it's not easy to find a new job right away, but you could always go to the job centre and sign on for jobseekers allowance until you do find yourself a job, and over the summer there is usually loads of work going.
As for your frie... (read in full...)
How can I deal with his father's misunderstanding?
Q. hey am havin ah lil issue and i don't know how to deal with it.. ok here it goes on thurdays, fridays and saturdays i work from 5pm to 5am. well i had this mornin when my bf picked me up 5am, i went home for clothes and to tell my mom i would be at ...
A. 16 June 2010: Well Hunni, your quite old enough to be staying round your boyfriends house, no matter how his dad feels about it.
And just explain to your boyfriends dad about you being at work, ask your mum to let him know that you had been home that very morn... (read in full...)
What helps a person more to get over self-consciousness?
Q. What helps a person more to get over self-consciousness? Getting literally or figuratively beat out of it, or being treated with a gentler kind of love?...
A. 11 February 2010: Being very self-concious myself, I think the only way you can get over it is to just believe in yourself, Build up your courage. :) Get comfortable with yourself and being on your own as well is a big part of it as well :)
Hope you find the way ... (read in full...)
What helps a person more to get over self-consciousness?
Q. What helps a person more to get over self-consciousness? Getting literally or figuratively beat out of it, or being treated with a gentler kind of love?...
A. 11 February 2010: Being very self-concious myself, I think the only way you can get over it is to just believe in yourself, Build up your courage. :) Get comfortable with yourself and being on your own as well is a big ... (read in full...)
Would going out with someone as young as 14 be wrong? And how would I approach him?
Q. Here is my Dilemma. I am in my first year of sixth form at the moment, and we still mix quite a lot with the lower school kids. About a few months ago I started noticing this boy, first i thought ' hmmm hes nice' and now im thinking ' omg hes gorg...
A. 11 February 2010: Thank you for your advice. I finally got the courage to speak to him today. One day before half term, But i knew if i left it any longer i may explode. I'll give you another up-date on how things go. ... (read in full...)
I've only been dating him a few weeks but now I have started having feelings for his friend!
Q. Ok so, I've been with this guy for seven weeks and we dated a few months before. However recently I've been having feelings for his friend. What should I do?...
A. 3 February 2010: It depends how strongly you feel towards your boyfriend. If you don't love him and your feelings for his friend seem right just make sure his friend feels the same way as you do. If you do decide to go for his friend just remember that he may not ... (read in full...)
Which should I choose; my unfulfilling life with my boyfriend or my old friends and family back home?
Q. I am living with my boyfriend 24hrs drive away from my friends and family and a 3.5 hr expensive flight. I have been here living for over a year. We have plans to marry. I am having a hard time meeting friends here and having a hard time being ...
A. 3 February 2010: I think you should try and negotiate with him a bit more about moving a bit closer to home at least. You are obviously a very serious couple as you are planning to get married but if he cannot compromise with you so you can be even just that little ... (read in full...)
How can I make sure something happens between us but I don't end up feeling used?
Q. I'm 17, and I've been in love with the same guy for about 9 months. We dated, which only lasted a month because I was very ill, and he couldn't handle it. We've been broke up for about 2 months now, still talk a lot, he still tells me everything. ...
A. 3 February 2010: My advice to you would be to just move on. If he says he has no feelings for you then he most probably doesn't and the kissing probably doesn't mean more than just a kiss to him. You cannot make sure anything happens unless he wants it to really ... (read in full...)
Is the babies father able to accompany me to the Doctors?
Q. Im 17 yrs old and pregnant with a 19 yr old guy i've been dating for almost 2yrs. Hes very active in both mine and the babys life and wanted to keep it as soon as he found out. because he is so active though, he wants to be involved in all the ...
A. 3 February 2010: I'm sure that he has a right to be there if he is the babies biological father. The doctors aren't there to make judgements on how old you both are, their there to take care of you and your baby and make sure you are comfortable. If you are that ... (read in full...)
Please help! My best friend broke up with his girlfriend and I'm falling for her, but he's still not over it yet!
Q. help!! please my best friend broke up with my other best friend,who is a girl and now i feel i am falling in love with her but she is fine with it but my other best friend still has feelings for her so i dont want to tell this girl that i like her ...
A. 3 February 2010: It depends how much you value both friendships. This could go any direction. 1.You could tell her you love her , he doesn't forgive and she isn't interested so you stop being friends because it's awkward. 2. you tell her, she tells you she feels the ... (read in full...)
He flirts with me, but he flirts with other girls too. Does he like me?
Q. [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into 1 question] hi my name is ally and i started going 2 a youth group almost 2 mon. ago. i met this guy named, mitch. ive been friends with him 4 almost the whole time ive been...
A. 3 February 2010: If he's flirting with other girls then it's clearly not just you he's interested in, maybe catch his attention more or ask him to hang out with you sometime outside of the youth group and ask him about it maybe but he sounds like hes just a ... (read in full...)
Should we risk it?
Q. I have decided not to go out with one guy that was willing to break up with his gf for me but i still have feelings for this older guy. i suppose we could be together but im not risking any thing. so should we keep having this "secret fling" until i ...
A. 3 February 2010: Don't go for the guy who's willing to break up his girlfriend for you, honestly thats not a good idea, as he will probably end up regretting it and leaving you to get back with her plus. he is older, he may want different things than you do and he ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my boyfriend who has just left me for his ex?
Q. my bf of 4 months just broke off with me he said he has reconciled with his ex please help can't get over him....
A. 3 February 2010: 4 months is nothing, and the guy is stupid for going back to his ex after splitting up with her and then getting with you. Go out with your girlfriends or have a few girly sleepovers.. make sure you keep yourself busy a lot and your bound to get ... (read in full...)
Lack of trust/insecurities caused breakup, how do I get her back?
Q. Dear Cupid.... My fiance has recently broken up with me because of my insecurities and lack of trust. Thing were going fine, marrage was only 6 months away but she relocated and we were having a long distance relationship for 6 months...
A. 6 July 2009: You need to show her that you do want her. and you did not mean what you said. Yes she may deserve better, or not. but If you loved eachother enough to get engaged then theres no reason for her to want any better. You need to show her how much you ... (read in full...)
I'll be a complete outcast with his family
Q. (I'm 16, just to stop any confusion) I have this little problem that I'm over thinking. My boyfriend has gotten a once in a life time opportunity ahead of him and me and his daughter who I love are going with him. Yesterday my boyfriend text...
A. 6 July 2009: Believe me when i say i know exactly how you feel on this one.. i have an ex who is 4 years older than me. and i'm only 16 myself. His family absolutley hated me. His grandmother dispised me and if he ever was going to visit her, i wasn't to go. ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should meet up with him or is he just using me?
Q. Earlier this year i got in a relationship with this boy i really like, just like most relationships things went wrong which resulted in us going out separate ways. Left me devastated, i ending up making myself ill. Silly thing to do... But recently ...
A. 6 July 2009: It sounds to me like he does just honestly have feelings for you. As long as you just keep things casual when you meet up with him. then there is no reason for you to think that he may be using you in any way. I think you should meet up with him as ... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me get over my fear of being close to him?
Q. I need help approaching a boy. I recently asked help for why he wasn't touching me and was told that i was giving mixed signals but im not sure how to act around him to tell him im interested without pushing anything or bothering him. Im scared t...
A. 6 July 2008: Just be yourself around him. do whatever you feel he wants. dont be too forward as this may push him away but just give little hints of what you want from him. maybe go out with him for a dinner or a movie and talk about things. im not realy an ... (read in full...)
I get very emotional reading questions and answers here. I feel I'll never be in love.
Q. hey i am a 14 year old girl. i ahve noticed that lately i have been really emotional, like jsut a sec ago i was reading a question that ssays "what is love?" and i was reading the answers and i felt like "ill never be in love! ill never find a guy ...
A. 6 July 2008: Hunni your only 14. i know it seems that everyone is coupled up and happy together but some people dont even find love until their say... 40. you have your whole life ahead of you and dont try and be stuck on love the whole way through. Go out by ... (read in full...)
How do I spend more time with her, I like her a lot, but don't want to flirt around friends, help?
Q. hi. i like this one girl a lot, and i feel like i have to spend more time with her to get her to like me, but whenever im with her and other friends, i dont really like to flirt with her or anything because everyone knows i like her and they always ...
A. 6 July 2008: Maybe you should first remember that if you really like her you wouldnt care what they said but i know how you feel. maybe you could ask her out for lunch or to the movies that would be a great way to be alone with her and maybe talk 2 her alot ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is travelling the world, and I kissed another man. Should I just put that moment of weakness behind me?
Q. My boyfriend has been away travelling the world for three months now. We've been together for 18 months and thought we would be strong enough to get through the seperation. I love him very much but it has of course put a strain on the relationship. ...
A. 5 July 2008: Yes i think you should put this behind you. it was a drunken kiss and you obviously miss being held and kissed by your own boyfriend it's very understandable that this might happen but i think maybe you should consider telling your boyfriend. if he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is lying and hiding something from me. Do I confront him?
Q. My boyfriend and I will be together for 4 years this August, and we have been living together for 2. Prior to dating we had been close friends for almost four years. I thought I knew him pretty well. Recently I went into his phone to text my...
A. 5 July 2008: Yes i deffinetley think that you should confront him about this he has obviously broken the trust that you had between you by sending these messages to another women. My ex boyfriend had done the same to me and i did not leave but i wish i had at ... (read in full...)
Is he on the rebound? Does he love her?
Q. me and my boyfriend of 1 1/2 years have just split up..naturally i am crushed as he has left me for another girl. but what i do not understand is that we live on an island and he is going out with someone who lives on the mainland even though he ...
A. 5 July 2008: Hi thanks 4 everything. and you were right. it was a rebound they split up after only a month of being together and now he wants me back. just thought i'd let you all know... (read in full...)
An on line test said I have severe depression. What can I do?
Q. hi i took one of those tests online to say whether i had depression or not. i have been feeling really bad for about 2 years or so. it suddenly got really bad. the test online, which came from a very reliable online doctors site, said i had majo...
A. 29 January 2008: First. Go to a real doctor do not listen to online tests they never are right. Second. if the doctor says that yes you do have depression. do not take anti-depressants . they only make you worse. i know this because one of my friends has had severe ... (read in full...)
She doesn't mind me smoking during sex but insists I wear a condom. Why?
Q. my girlfriend doesn't mind that I smoke but always insists that I wear a condom during sex-even though she's on the pill.Any blokes with a similar situation as to why?...
A. 8 January 2008: Maybe your girlfriend just wants to be extra careful and yes be aware of sti's they are very dangerous. its natural 4 a guy 2 want 2 not wear a condom it interups ur sexaul activities .. i didnt mind my bf not wearing a condom because i have the ... (read in full...)
Should I trust my instincts and wait or should I just move on?
Q. I met this guy about 2 days ago on the net and he's like my dream guy and he's made me do something I never thought I'd do.... I said I'd wait 4 him. He is funny, sweet, charming, sensitive and amazingly hot but he said because I live on the Isle of ...
A. 12 August 2007: yes but we decided this together we don't want a relationship with someone we've never met we're both under 16 and our parents won't really let us travel to see eachother it isn't that simple ! ... (read in full...)
Want to give my wife the best night's sex.... Ever. How?
Q. Hi i'm planning on giving my wife the best night of her life and i need some help. I want to give her the best sex she has ever had! We don't use toys or anything like that but i want to make it really special and exciting for her. Full of love and ...
A. 4 August 2007: there are also sites you can go on try this one http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_index.shtml its all about how to please a women in bed ... have fun lv jodie... (read in full...)
I need recommendations for websites for bisexuals
Q. Hi im a girl and i was wondering if anyone knew any good bi web sites? It would be great if they were free! Thanks!...
A. 4 August 2007: hiya try www.DreamsDiscovered.com and let me know how you go with it lv jodie xxx... (read in full...)
How and where can my mom find someone new?
Q. I am very close to my family and love my mum even though she drives me crazy sometimes. She has just come out of a divorce with my dad. I am coping ok but they are not getting along at all and are always bitching about eachother to me. I want...
A. 4 August 2007: sure you should or as i said get her to go speed dating what ever you feel she would enjoy more lv jodie xxx... (read in full...)
Is my long-distance friend interested in more than just being my friend?
Q. I have a male friend who lives over 900 miles away. We've been on vacation together with our children. We speak to each other almost every day. He is usually the one who calls me first. We talk about everything. For the last year he has been ...
A. 3 August 2007: ask him how he feels don't just sit and wonder you have to confront him and maybe a long distance relationship could work it depends really on how you feel about him and if you are prepared to be with him though there is distance just make sure you ... (read in full...)
How and where can my mom find someone new?
Q. I am very close to my family and love my mum even though she drives me crazy sometimes. She has just come out of a divorce with my dad. I am coping ok but they are not getting along at all and are always bitching about eachother to me. I want...
A. 3 August 2007: your mum has really a total choice of how she can meet someone .... she could go speed dating or go online and find people you could set her up with someone you know just make sure hes her type there are so many ways of dating now days and it's ... (read in full...)
What can my army boyfriend do to help me?
Q. i am pregnant and my boyfriend is in the army what can he do to help, he cant be with me at the moment, i tell him he doesnt need to do anything but he wntas to, what can he do?...
A. 3 August 2007: i think your boyfriend wrote a letter on here earlier asking exactly the same thing and as i said he can write to you you can write and send him pictures of the baby when you have scans and make sure your friends are close round you and helping you ... (read in full...)
What should I do when I like a man 10 years older than me?
Q. i found out the other day that this lad likes me but there are big problems one he is 28 and i am 18 and another one is my mam wont allow it but he seems to realy like me and i like him too i have done for sometime, i dont know what to do, they say ...
A. 3 August 2007: age is only a number if you like him take a chance your mum can't stop you seeing this guy if you really like him as long as you know that he also likes you make sure the feeling is mutaul get to know him more and then start dating im 14 and my bf ... (read in full...)
Lately I have been having a lot fantasies and dreams of having a holiday romance...
Q. Lately I have been having a lot fantasies and dreams of having a holiday romance, I have got my hopes up so much, but I know it won't happen. Why is this? Please tell me. I really want it. thnks X...
A. 2 August 2007: every girl has fantasies of meeting a hunky bloke in a romantic place and getting something out of him and even i do and i have a boyfriend who i've been with for over a year there isnt anything wrong with it its just an escape because some guys ... (read in full...)
As a Soldier, how can I help my pregnant girlfriend when I'm not there?
Q. my girlfriend is pregnant, i am in the army so i cant be with her all the time, how can i help her through the pregnancy when i am not there...
A. 2 August 2007: write to her ask her how things are going with the baby and ask your mates to look out for her and be there for her when your not ask if she can send you scans of the baby and make sure you don't miss out on anything !!! ... (read in full...)
So do I give up on our relationship or give in to his request (ultimatum)?
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. He has had about 6 sexual partners before me. He is my first love and I've been brought up to believe that sex before marriage is wrong. He always said he was okay with it but now nearly 2 years on ...
A. 2 August 2007: it is really up to you but if this guy doesnt respect your feelings then he clearly doesn't love you as much as you think he does i made my boyfriend wait until i was ready and thats exactly what you should do stand your ground and if he leaves you ... (read in full...)
Im falling for my best friend, but feel I'm too young for these feeling, what should I do ?
Q. I'm Falling For My Bestfriend and i know she has fellings for me....Last friday we had a pillow fight (like normal) she was dead hyper and so was i she kept pushing me on top of her...I felt strange and she keeps telling me she loves me...I think im ...
A. 27 July 2007: hunni my moto is ur never to young and your never too old don't worry about these feelings their completely normal so what if it's a girl to girl thing as long as your who you want to be thats all that matters tell your friend how you feel ask her ... (read in full...)
Why won't my boobs grow?
Q. It is almost August 2007 and I have had my period since Febuary, i was lucky i just got it in grade 10. But it has been almost 7 months after i got my 1st period and my boobs are still the same size??? when will I grow!!!What can i do to help them ...
A. 27 July 2007: don't worry every girl breasts grow at one stage or another maybe your body doesn't feel your ready yet but don't worry theres nothing wrong with you in yourself i'm sure if you look at some other girls your age or talk to some older girls they'll ... (read in full...)
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