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writes:My ex husband wants me back and my ex boyfriend wants me. Do I settle for security with my husband, or excitement with my boyfriend? They are both great guys! How do I break up and hurt one of them? I am so tormented!
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 Oooooo that's a toughie.
I'd write both the guys names down on a sheet of paper and write pros and cons for being with each. It sounds a nasty way but I find that helps me think things through in all sorts of situations.
I hope this works out for you xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2007): Why do you have to "settle"? Why not leave them both be, and find someone who can give you security AND excitement?! It sounds like whichever one you choose, you'll be resenting the part that they don't have. Find someone who is the whole package instead! Best of Luck.
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reader, trizzac  +, writes (12 June 2007):
 think why it did'nt work with ur husband and is it going to be better than ur relationship wit ur boyfrind....
write out a list of pros nd cons about them and which one wud be higher up de ladder xxx
hope i helped
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reader, Beckto +, writes (12 June 2007):
 It seems like there should be so much more to the story... Are there children involved? If so, then you would owe it to your children to try and work it out with their father. If you don't have children, then it may be worth looking at the reasons why you and your husband divorced vs. why you and your boyfriend broke up.
But remember, you don't have to choose either man! Be single! Just because someone wants you doesn't mean you want them.
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