I'm drawn to my boyfriend's friend but I don't feel guilty; I don't want to hurt anyone
Q. Am I wrong for not feeling guilty at going to his friends house, finding out he is in love with me but still going home to my partner ? I have seen his friend more often now but dont feel guilty when we sit and speak about what life could be like ...
A. 22 June 2007: The only problem is that his friend is blind and I dont know how I would cope with that, not being selfish but i want a life where i can see that he is enjoying things, i mean what exactly could we do. I think I would be really bored with sitting ... (read in full...)
I say I love him but I actually don't
Q. okay, so here's the skinny. at the begining of my relationship, i said " dont say you love me unless you mean it" and my boyfriend said, "okay". so then he says he loves me after like what? 2 weeks. and i really thought that i felt it too. but now ...
A. 22 June 2007: I think the best thing is to leave him. Tell him that you care for him but are not in love with him. He may find it hard to start but there is no point in going out with someone if you dont love them. There are plenty more fish in the sea, you ... (read in full...)
Still torn between boyfriend and his best friend!
Q. I am still stuck, I ended up at my boyfriends best friends house last night. We talked about what had been said and how we should feel guilty, but we dont. I went home to my partner and all I have done since is think about and fantasise over him. ...
A. 20 June 2007: I cant tho i real think i am starting to get strong feelings for him and last night i was dreamin of him all night and woke up thinking of him, I can hear what your sayin but it is sooooo hard.... (read in full...)
Still torn between boyfriend and his best friend!
Q. I am still stuck, I ended up at my boyfriends best friends house last night. We talked about what had been said and how we should feel guilty, but we dont. I went home to my partner and all I have done since is think about and fantasise over him. ...
A. 20 June 2007: The reason I ended up at his house last night was because my boyfriend told me to go over and keep him company cos he was going to be out till late. I didnt ask to go. He is a very close friend of his and I dont want to spoil there friendship but ... (read in full...)
He is leaving for a year. Should we break up now or later?
Q. My boyfriend is going travelling for a year and he's leaving in 5 months. We will have been together for just over a year by the time he goes. In this time I have grown to like him a lot. I am dreading him going and I realise how hard it is g...
A. 19 June 2007: Do you love him ?? If yes then there is nothing at all stopping you from still being together when he comes back, yes it will be hard but if it is true love it will pass so quickly. You could also go out and see him if you wanted. On the other ... (read in full...)
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