What is a good height for men?
Q. What is a good height for a man?, I'm 5 10 or 5 11, and i'm 25 years old.. i have always wanted to be tall. Sometimes i ask my self whether im tall or short. i never seem to get the right answer.. my dad is well over 6 feet and my brother is 6 or ...
A. 31 October 2010: I'm 5'8 and female, I've dated guys that were 5'5, 6'7 and between, and my current boyfriend is around 5'11, 6'0. You're fine hun. Good luck :)... (read in full...)
I'm a girl who loves porn!
Q. When I was about sixteen, like most people, i got curious about sex and so i started searching the internet for sexual videos. People always talk about how horrible it is for guys to watch porn and i feel like being a girl...its even worse for me ...
A. 31 October 2010: I'm a girl and I like porn too. As long as you're not addicted then have fun!... (read in full...)
I just lost the love of my life... how do I get over him?
Q. I just lost the love of my life I'm so sad. I can't believe he said we should go our own way. I feel dead, my heart is broken. I really love him. How do I get over him? ...
A. 31 October 2010: When I was your age my first love was in a car accident and died...it's very painful but I promise it heals with time. Do whatever you need to make yourself more comfortable until it heals. Good luck sweetie.... (read in full...)
Do women view penis size as a sign of worthiness?
Q. A real quick question - Men are very sensitive about penis size, women not too bothered about it, which seems to suggest its a man made issue and often when you read answers about does size matter women will answer size doesn't matter - its how you ...
A. 31 October 2010: Seems like all men are obsessed with their own equipment. I've found that 8in+ hurts me more. I prefer average men. That help?... (read in full...)
Looking for a great play list of songs to work out to.
Q. Last spring I went through a rough break up and I still have some slight bitterness about the whole thing. Lately I've been getting slightly out of shape and have wanted to start working out again. My job has been making that a bit difficult but I ...
A. 28 October 2010: Personally I work out to anything Aerosmith.... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever heard of keeping in touch with an ex boyfriend's child after a breakup?
Q. I am 24 years old. My bf has been living with me for almost three year now. He has a child that I have known since he was 18 months. We have the child 2-3 days out of the week. I have no children and have become very attached to this little guy. ...
A. 25 October 2010: Just an update-I have met a girl who keeps in touch with her dad's ex-girlfriend. So it does happen. :)... (read in full...)
I just don't get it about porn!
Q. just asking a general question most women wonder when there boyfriends look at porn do they wanna f... the porn girl or are they thinking of fucking there girlfriends? also naked pic like maxim or playboy or just naked mags. what turns them on its ...
A. 24 October 2010: Both my boyfriend and I watch porn. He says he always thinks about me... I'd say the same but I prefer the lesbian stuff. It really depends on the guy, honey. Best of luck. xoxo glassblower... (read in full...)
I'm a senior, should I date a freshman?
Q. I guess this is more a matter of me conflicted with myself. Last night, a group of us (me, a good friend of mine, his girlfriend and 3 of her friends) wet to a haunted house. Long story short, me and one of her friends spent an awful lot of tim...
A. 23 October 2010: You met her....you like her...go for it! Stop thinking about what it means to other people and just think about what it means to you. Best of luck! xoxo glassblower... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is horrible at showing affection!
Q. My girlfriend (26) and I (24) have been going out for 4 months. The affection is horrible!!! I am frustrated and very openly venting to all of you as I really wouldn’t otherwise and I am really looking for some help if my perception of this is ...
A. 22 October 2010: The only way she's going to know how you feel is if you talk to her about it. That is really strange but if you're unhappy and she is unable to reciprocate your affections, you should end the relationship. Best of luck! xoxo glassblower... (read in full...)
I don't know if he likes me, should I stay with him?
Q. I am in love with this guy he tells me that he love me to but he is the kind of guy that goes with girls but he tell me he love me so much but i stop and think if he loves me.Also i am a Virgin i am in high school and i am scair of what happened if ...
A. 22 October 2010: Sounds like a player. Get out of the relationship before you get played. Save it for someone who'll treat you right. Best of luck! xoxo glassblower... (read in full...)
Over protective mother
Q. Sorry that this is so long. Im just lost and need some guidance. Im 16 years old and im having issues with my mum. Me and my boyfriend of the same age have been together for nearly a year now. However my mother has only known about this relat...
A. 22 October 2010: ....wow. Your mother sounds like a piece of work. Although your dad lives abroad, would it be possible for you to stay with him for a little while until your mother cools down? Is it possible for you to sit down rationally with your mom and tell her ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my future because of my sexual orientation!
Q. Hi everyone, Well, I am a 26 years old male and I’m virgin by my choice. I’m gay or at least bisexual, I like both men and women both attracted me but when it comes to sex, I feel I’ll be more comfortable with men. I don’t want to be with men, bec...
A. 22 October 2010: It's a tough world to be gay in. When you're ready, try coming out to your family. Know that they love you unconditionally. Your whole community doesn't have to know that you're gay, but rumors may fly. Let them. You're worth getting to know because ... (read in full...)
I feel so desolate and isolated!
Q. hey guys i dont even like posting as i feel im bothering you with my problems but i need someone to talk to as i feel so down. im 35-im stuck in a dead end job-stuck in a debt management programme thanks to my grasping ex who left me in 50k of debt ...
A. 22 October 2010: Never apologize for asking for help. We want to help you. Honey you sound very sad and depressed. What you need is to go out and find something new to do. Cook, paint, volunteer as MissEleanor said, and see what's going on in your area! You are ... (read in full...)
Do you have any insights or thoughts on how to improve my life?
Q. How I feel: Honestly its no one fault, its just mine, people tell me what I should do rather when I should be telling myself what I should be doing. I sometimes even go as far as not thinking the situation through, or even go as far as over thin...
A. 22 October 2010: Have you ever seen the movie Yes Man? It sounds like what you need is to get out, try new things, meet new people who share your interests, and find something you like to do. Try something you've always wanted to do, or what you've never heard of ... (read in full...)
I can't be without my boyfriend, but I can't carry on having his dad talk about me in this way.
Q. Ok, here it is. I suffer from slight mental health issues. Having been bullied since I was about 10, I have learned to block a lot of things out, but eventually it all gets on top of me, and I have serious breakdowns, to the point where I curl up ...
A. 22 October 2010: How rude! I sincerely hope that he is naturally an ass and not trying to interfere with your relationship. However, I suggest that you ask your boyfriend to stop passing his commentary along - unless it's positive - and focus on your relationship ... (read in full...)
I'm confused about my feelings...
Q. I have been masturbating since i was 13 but had never had an orgasm. a few months ago i started watching lesbian porn and it really turned me on and had my 1st orgasm. now its the only thing i watch when i masturbate. i have been feeling things for ...
A. 22 October 2010: Oh man honey, I know right where you are. I'm gonna start by saying that it is PERFECTLY FINE to have feelings for the same gender. No matter what society says. Second, what's the preoccupation nowadays with labels? If you like girls and only girls, ... (read in full...)
Sweden verses UK
Q. My boyfriend is Swedish and I'm English. He thinks England is backward and old. He liked some parts of it but generally I got the feeling that he was disappointed. It annoys me because he keeps yapping on and on about Sweden and how amazing e...
A. 22 October 2010: I live in America, but I've been to both the UK and Sweden and enjoyed my stays there. They are both lovely countries, just very different. Perhaps he misses his home country, perhaps he has an inferiority complex. I suggest politely hinting that ... (read in full...)
Very self-conscious about scars! Will men react differently?
Q. Hey everybody. I'm a 13 year old girl and about two years ago I was in a horrible car accident that left my arms, legs, and almost everything in between covered in scars. I'm not very self conscious about them usually, however I was wondering if men ...
A. 22 October 2010: Hey there! Looks like we're in the same boat, I had issues when I was younger and as a result I have scars as well, perhaps in different places. In all honesty, I get stares when I go out in public while not covered, from men and women alike. As for ... (read in full...)
Getting a girlfriend
Q. Hello I am a 17 year old male. I have never had a girlfriend before never kissed a girl nothing. Never had anyone really love me. I don't have any friends that are girls. Thing is I been talking to girls but I have not asked them out. I want to g...
A. 22 October 2010: It is perfectly normal to have never been with a girl at your age. I commend your grades, that is excellent. You need to find a girl you like. Maybe you think she's pretty, you like her personality, or she's really funny. Get to know her! And then ... (read in full...)
Bisexual or just curious
Q. Hey Guys and Gals... Don't know what I'm really looking for here, suppose its for someone to relate so it doesn't all feel so bizarre and illicit. Basically, I'm a straight girl, virgin, no real experience to speak of, but very into guys. I ...
A. 21 October 2010: It is perfectly normal to have feelings like that. I doubt there's a woman around who hasn't at least thought about it. And yes, I've noticed the obsession with labelling too. Seems odd, but then again, sometimes society seems to say "You're not ... (read in full...)
Did I deserve to lose my baby?
Q. hey x so i had a miscarrige last year and at the time i just put it to the back of my head an forget about it as well to be honest i was ashamed because i was only 15 but i recently started going out with my best friend and when arguing, he brought ...
A. 20 October 2010: First, let me say that I am very sorry for your loss. Losing a baby is very hard physically and especially emotionally. Your friend had absolutely no reason to say this at all. He is wrong. You may have made a mistake, but that is in the past. Dump ... (read in full...)
Protruding Tailbone
Q. Hi I have an oddly shaped tailbone that sticks out a little bit. I didn't really think about it, until I was changing and some of my friends started to laugh at my tailbone. I'm terrified that my girlfriend will think I'm a freak if I do have sex ...
A. 20 October 2010: Your tailbone is a vestigal organ, meaning it has absolutely no purpose in your body. Everyone's grows differently. I agree with dirtball, show it off! I think it would be cute. And if the girlfriend would think you're a freak for a bone that ... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever heard of keeping in touch with an ex boyfriend's child after a breakup?
Q. I am 24 years old. My bf has been living with me for almost three year now. He has a child that I have known since he was 18 months. We have the child 2-3 days out of the week. I have no children and have become very attached to this little guy. ...
A. 20 October 2010: I haven't heard of it, but there's a first for everything! If you do, don't be "daddy's ex-girlfriend", be "aunty" or "godmother" as it sounds better and saves face. However, dump the father, what a schmooze. You sound like you have a great maternal ... (read in full...)
Does he want to get me pregnant or is he just traditional?
Q. my partner and i of nearly 2 years were talking about my friend who was pregnant and got dumped by her boyfriend. he then said he would have freaked out like my friends bf and done the same thing and goes, i hope youre not pregnant. then i asked ...
A. 20 October 2010: He might only be saying that because he wants to take care of you, reassure you that he will protect you, and wants to have a baby with you in the future. It's best if you ask him straight up when he wants to have a baby. Best of luck! xoxo ... (read in full...)
Thoughts on technology and long distance relationships
Q. It never fails to amaze me how many questions I see on here about long distance relationships (LDR's). I will admit, I understand the temptation. I've been there. I've tried it. I've concluded that they don't work. Still, what is it about these ...
A. 20 October 2010: I am also in a long distance relationship. I don't want to pretend that it's easy and that I don't wish he was here so I could see him in person every day. We met a while ago and I moved. Shortly thereafter, he told me how he felt, and while we have ... (read in full...)
I had a student bump up my grade so I can get the car dad promised for a good grade point average. Is this bad?
Q. So I was totally failing this class completly and for my dad to buy me a car I have to hava a goood grade point average,My grades were decent besides this one, I had the teachers student asst, ( who is extremly hot) I mught add and a senior, bump it ...
A. 20 October 2010: Yes, it is very bad. Not only will he get in trouble if he is found out, but you will as well. I hope next semester you will try harder instead of asking him to do something for you. Best of luck. xoxo glassblower... (read in full...)
How Long was it Before you said 'I love you'?
Q. How long was it before your current partner said they loved you (or you them)? My current girlfriend told me within two weeks of dating each other. I did think at the time that it was a bit soon to tell me that but she said that she 'just knew'. I ...
A. 20 October 2010: Hmm. My boyfriend and I were best friends for two years, and then when his girlfriend broke up with him, he told me he loved me and we got together. Hope that helps! xoxo glassblower... (read in full...)
Ideas for a special date?
Q. Hey. I know this is kinda dumb but... I need some ideas on where to take or what to do for a date with my girlfriend. We just officially got together and even though we've been out on dates before, I want to do something different, like special with ...
A. 20 October 2010: First off, lemme say this. YOU ARE AMAZING FOR DOING THIS FOR YOUR GIRL. Many boys just don't try to make dates special. And now for your answer.. How about a concert to a band she likes? A romantic dinner out? A picnic in the park? Hiking if she's ... (read in full...)
I'm torn between three guys, what should I do?
Q. Pull out the popcorn and get comfortable, this is gonna be long. Hiya Aunts and Uncles, I'm in quite a confused space with 3 really great guys at the moment. Lets call the first guy Jarvis. We dated for about 7 months but it took 3 months...
A. 19 October 2010: As the other readers said, it seems like although you and Jarvis fell in love, he used his chance! Perhaps you have forgotten how much he hurt you when you both broke up. He wants A Relationship. You want Someone Who Loves You.
Jordan does not. I ap... (read in full...)
Is something hand made for your boyfriend seen by them as being too mushy?
Q. Is it a good idea to make a hand made gift for your boyfriend? I mean... do guys appreciate stuff like hand made cards/poems/a home made dinner etc for them or is it considered to be too mushy? -_-...
A. 19 October 2010: My boyfriend likes it. He says he'd feel guilty if I bought him anything because he always gets me cards and the like. I hope your next boyfriend is better than your ex and treats you right. :) Best of luck! xoxo 3 glassblower... (read in full...)
He dumped me because he says I accuse him all the time
Q. i was dumped today by my partner of 4yrs , we have a child together and i have a child from a previous partner. reason for being dumped was because he was sick of me accusing him of stuff this is not the first time he has dont it we always get back...
A. 19 October 2010: It was difficult to decipher your question, honey. But there seem to be two issues. The first, his reason for dumping you. Accusatory questions or statements. You perhaps never mentioned what bothered him about what you said, maybe he never told ... (read in full...)
Is this just what girls do?
Q. My girlfriend have been having a rough time ever since we bought a house together 2 yrs ago. Recently we have been really trying to reconnect. We had a serious discussion of what we wanted and about making things work. One of the main things ...
A. 19 October 2010: Hmm. I am bi as well, but it sounds like your girlfriend is just, as you said, being a girl! I love to hang out with my friends and going to a movie and talking on the phone with them. However, it seems like you still have some relationship ... (read in full...)
How can I be hospitalized for my anorexia (please help me)?
Q. Hi I have anorexia and have been struggling with it for about a year. I was just a low enough weight to be put in hospital, but they didn't because they wanted to try other ways to help me recover. Now I've put on 10kg since then, and I have 4...
A. 19 October 2010: I would suggest getting in contact with a rehab center or mental hospital near you. Honey, EDs are hard. I've been there. And hospitals are ugly, but they do help. The internet is a great gift, but also, talk to any relatives close to you about it. ... (read in full...)
My friend is a lesbian and I'm bi-curious should I sleep with her?
Q. I have recently made friends with a girl my age. She is a lesbian which isn't something that bothers me. While chatting a few days ago she said that she would really like to sleep with me. She told exactly what she would like to do me. At the time I ...
A. 19 October 2010: Sleeping together, whether male-female, male-male, or as in your case, female-female, is a huge decision that can affect everyone involved. If you feel comfortable with it, then by all means! But be careful, because she and you might wind up caring ... (read in full...)
Opinions on back massages?
Q. Do women appreciate back massages? Do you view it on a sexual or affectionate level?...
A. 19 October 2010: Yes. Personally, I think back massages are the most sensual acts (besides sex of course) that a couple can share.... (read in full...)
A Glimpse into Love
Q. I'm the kind of girl who goes around barefoot, fights pessimism daily, and has thoughts wild enough to graze with antelope. I've heard love on the radio- songs that sigh heartbreak or gush with joy at finding someone who truly grasped their he...
A. 13 October 2010: This was beautiful and poignant. I love it.... (read in full...)
I feel like we're drifting apart!
Q. Me and my boyfriend, both still in high school, have been dating for about 10 months. We've been pretty close so far, but lately it seems like he's pulling away from me. I can tell he still loves and cares about me but i start to worry sometimes. ...
A. 13 October 2010: Many people change as they go through high school. You may not be the same girl you originally were, and he may not be the same guy. I encourage you to talk to him about this and ask for his feelings on the subject. Best of luck! xoxoxo... (read in full...)
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