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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: so i have been with my man for 2yrs and the first yr was great see each other everday talk everyday all that good stuff 2nd yr he moved a hr away so we became long distance relationship the first 8 months was good talked when he was @ school break and lunch he works so would call me during his break also and text when he got home we would see each other twice a wk. plus i must say i always go to where he moved he rarely comes down to see me i have no car so i take a 2hr bus ride over there only time he comes down to where i live is for his dentist or wants to go to the mall to BUY HIMSELF something when he dropped out of high school he stopped hitting me up as often i would text and call him its been like that for 6 months i feel lost i mean since we are in a LDR wouldnt he wanna hit me up more he never ask what did you do 2day or how was your day i feel like loosing hope like 2day he has no work and hasnt hit me up all day do you guys think this is normal behavior for a LDR or i question maybe he found somebody else? he says he loves me and never wants 2 break up but his actions are speakinq more than words!
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reader, Natalie:) +, writes (4 November 2010):
It's always hard when someone says one thin yet does the other. Tell him it's bothering you that he doesn't make that effort anymore. If he ist going to act like your his girlfriend then there is really no point in going out with him.
Just tell him how you feel, make sure you post a follow up of how he handles it.
Hope it works out. I'm in an LDR and it's really hard work.
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