Obsessed boyfriend!
Q. My bfriend and I have only been together a few months. The first two months were very serious (talks of marriage) but now I have just about had enough. He got really drunk one night and sent me abusive text messages because I was at work and ...
A. 5 May 2009: Woo! Good for you. I hope he gets the help he needs for his own sake, and the sake of the next girl he starts being a bad boyfriend to.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I think my teacher is sexually attracted to me & I don't know what to do about it
Q. Last year I had an amazing chemistry teacher named "Sean" who is in his early forties. Not only was he amazing at teaching chemistry, but we had chemistry too. Sean is also the youth minister at my church. I'm only thirteen years old, but I know...
A. 20 March 2009: Well it sounds like you have it under control and are being really sensible about it, that's great to know.
Don't dwell too much on what might have happened though. We can all have little day dreams of "what if" and they are fun but don't think an... (read in full...)
I really like my friend, what do I do?
Q. I fancy my friend. Hey all. I'm 16 and I have always fancied my friend. She knew how I felt before but she was going out with someone at the time. Afterwards we talked about it and she said she doesn't want to go out with me because she doesn't want ...
A. 20 March 2009: It's not fair of her to lead you on like this.
Tell her you like her as more than a friend and you thought it'd be ok this time but you still feel the same. Tell her it's too painful to spend all this time with her wanting someone you can never ha... (read in full...)
I have a GF but am attracted to a boy in my class
Q. so i totally have a girlfriend but there is this boy in my class that i really like. we barely ever talk and he just found out i liked him and he keeps winking at me and such but i get very nervous and my heart races. i don't know what to do i...
A. 20 March 2009: Gina is right.
You are so young that it's perfectly normal to be attracted to anything that moves at your age. Your hormones are making your body almost double in size so there has to be some effect on your brain.
You could come out of this... (read in full...)
An affair to bring out the best in me!
Q. Okay this is a long one. Been with this guy for almost 11 years. We are almost 6 years married. 2 Kids. I am only 25 almost 26. My husband is super rude and mean to me. I am planning on divorcing him soon. I can't take this abuse from him ...
A. 20 March 2009: Well then hurry up and get divorced!
If you don't care about cheating, you are unhappy and verbally abused, why are you sticking around?
What do you want us to say?
Get the yellow pages and look up a family solicitor.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I'm a virgin but I haven't had my period in 2-3 months
Q. Ok I'm 13 and I'm a virgin but I havnt had my period in 2 almost 3 months and I'm too scared to tell my mom what should I do?????...
A. 20 March 2009: It could be just your age, but it could also be a health problem.
It could be a symptom that you are not developing right if things have come to a stop. Are you very underweight or anything?
Just ask your mum if you can talk to her about a girl... (read in full...)
I think my teacher is sexually attracted to me & I don't know what to do about it
Q. Last year I had an amazing chemistry teacher named "Sean" who is in his early forties. Not only was he amazing at teaching chemistry, but we had chemistry too. Sean is also the youth minister at my church. I'm only thirteen years old, but I know...
A. 20 March 2009: I'm not going to say this is all in your head as sadly teachers do sometimes fall for their pupils, even if they are married and know it is wrong.
Here are some examples:
http://www.ka... (read in full...)
I have a serious serious controlling problem. Help me!!!
Q. I have a serious serious controlling problem. I have had my last 3 lovers leave me for someone else with the last two ending up in marriage. 3 months ago I go involved with an incredible young lady who has been everything that women should b...
A. 20 March 2009: It sounds like you literally LOSE all control. You can see yourself you are not acting normally during these little episodes, and to be honest, if you do not do something soon, this girl is going to leave you too.
God knows if she came on here des... (read in full...)
An aspiring drama actor in an awkward scene
Q. hello aunty,I am an aspiring drama actor,recently I have done some good plays and an upcoming actor..last week I was offered a lead role in a drama,which has a romantic story..but this time I have been paired against my sister -in-law,(my 2nd ...
A. 19 March 2009: Talk to her husband and get his clearance and then just do it. It's not real, it's just acting.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My fault she's pregnant...
Q. I recently found out my bf of 1 year has gotten another girl pregnant while seeing me. The child is 2 months old, I do not know what to do, he said that he was drunk. My bf is 15 and I am 14. This is my fault, I said that I wouldn't have sex with...
A. 19 March 2009: Awesome!
You rock! x... (read in full...)
Advice on Las Vegas Trip Please.
Q. Advice on Las Vegas Trip Please. My wife and I have been marrid 10 years and have always worked together as a team. With children we agreed to go down to 1 income so she could stay at home. . . now being on 1 income money is tight. Last ...
A. 19 March 2009: Well she's not psychic!
If she rings up and says "Can I go?" and you say "yeah, ok" and then when the tickets arrive you throw a fit... How is she supposed to feel.
If her friend has paid for tickets on the understanding that she will be paid... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed about the size of my breasts
Q. Hi, im 14 years old and have just started high school. I look mature for my age so people usually don't believe me that im 14. I have really big boobs im a DD 36 even though i dont wear revealing clothes guys still notice them and comment which ma...
A. 19 March 2009: I'm going to disagree with the 2 answers below because I too had big boobs at school and NO AMOUNT of telling people about the cultures of Africa will change the amount of grief you get.
Boys are mean, girls are mean. School is horrible.
... (read in full...)
Mum and I have different views on how to enjoy the lovely warm sunshine.
Q. Mum and I have different views on how to enjoy the lovely warm sunshine. I prefer to spend it outdoors, like going to the nearby park or sports such as cycling or walking, whilst she prefers to go shopping or eat out. Our varied opinions...
A. 19 March 2009: Right, well if she is going to fight dirty with statistics then you should play her at her own game.
Around one in four men and one in three women in the UK are overweight, according to government statistics.
An estimated 70% of adults in the... (read in full...)
Nervous Nora
Q. Dear Cupid I want to talk to my new boyfriend more about sex but we’re both a bit embarrassed and I can never think what to say. We’ve been together for nearly three weeks and are getting a bit more adventurous in the bedroom. We’ve had full s...
A. 19 March 2009: Ok first off, "mostly unprotected"....
Sorry, you are too nervous to talk to him about how you like to be touched yet want to have his baby?
Get some condoms or go on the pill before it's too late!! He'll have to hear about your fat ankles,... (read in full...)
When she came out of the bath she said that her bits were hurting.
Q. Hello. The problem is this. My daughter is three and the other week I bathed her before bed. When she came out of the bath she said that her bits were hurting. I looked and her hymen was gone. I had been with her for two whole days so don't kn...
A. 19 March 2009: Has she taken a fall off a swing, climbed any trees, ridden a bike, or even slipped when climbing out of the bath?
The hymen is a very delicate thing and most girls in this day and age will have damaged it or lost it just from playing rough or... (read in full...)
I feel so unworthy and pathetic. What should I do?
Q. Currently all my friends have boyfriends and I've never had a boyfriend and desperately wanted to have one. Now I've become so down on the fact that it will never happen I've given up caring and looking for that special someone. Does this mean...
A. 19 March 2009: If you've given up and stopped caring then yes, you will be alone for ever.
Finding a guy is not difficult but it does require effort.
Stop sitting in your little puddle of self pity and GET OUT THERE!
I was an ugly duckling at school too. ... (read in full...)
Orgasm and climax are they the same?
Q. whats the difference between climax and orgasm? i cant really understand!...
A. 19 March 2009: They are the same thing.
Other words for orgasm include:
Cum, Come, finish off, ejaculation (for men), Peak.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I want to belp my friend get a girl!
Q. I would love to find some one for my friend. One of my best friends is turning 30 this year, and I would love to help him find some one special. He keeps waiting and it seems like he just wants some one to just show up, he won't put any effort ...
A. 19 March 2009: Oh hun, you sound like a really nice person, and I know you want him to be happy. We all want our friends to be happy.
But deep down, you can't FORCE happiness on him. If he is scared of something and that is stopping him from putting effort i... (read in full...)
He turned to religion and now wants to completely avoid sex
Q. MY boyfriend of six months wants to stop having sex with me... when we started dating our relationship was about sex.. The first thing that we both had in common was that we were very inmate with each other... now he wants to stop having sex because ...
A. 19 March 2009: Well if it's a relationship based on sex as you say then it seems the relationship will have to come to an end.
He's made a choice to love God more than sex, and that means he loves God more than your relationship.
Unless you are willing to b... (read in full...)
I'm feeling sad about conditions that I can't help..what can I do?
Q. This isn't properly a relationship question, but I figured aunts and uncles may be able to help me. These last few weeks, I've been not miserable, but yes a bit sad. It's not depression, I've been depressed before, and I'm not sad all the time, but ...
A. 19 March 2009: We all get like this some times.
But it's reassuring to know that it means you are:
a) a nice person
b) a higher human, you are not an ape, you have these feelings and it's people like you who builds societies.
The way to get over these fe... (read in full...)
Its getting harder and harder to stop something from happening outside my marriage
Q. I have been married for almost 10 years now. I used to get sex every night if not every other night. Lately, I barely get it once a week and I am so horney. I have a very high sex drive. I keep telling my husband, but it doesn't seem to help. I even ...
A. 19 March 2009: Telling him that all these other men are after you will only increase his stress levels and that will not make him want to have sex more.
Find out why he is so stressed. If you can help him get over his problem then he might be a bit more active i... (read in full...)
Even although he tried to choke me to death I'm wondering... should I take him back?
Q. Recently my boyfriend was charged with assault and uttering death threats. Both charges I was the victim. He choked me and when I told him I couldn't breathe he said "thats what I'm trying to do". Sometimes I wonder if someone coming to the front ...
A. 19 March 2009: "Sometimes I wonder if someone coming to the front door didn't startle him.. would I be dead?"
Yes, yes you would be dead, and he would be in prison and your daughter would be in a care home. Now I don't know what it's like over in Canada, ... (read in full...)
He doesn't like me the way that I like him!
Q. Okay... so i really like this guy and we dated twice... we have made out, kissed, held hands, hugged, he has lifted me up, and i have sorta given him a hand job... he wanted me to give him a blow job... well he went and told my friends that he ...
A. 19 March 2009: Sweetheart, why would you carry on doing sexual stuff for him and basically being his free prostitute when you know he doesn't like you in the way you want him to.
All you are doing is letting him abuse you, and abusing yourself.
You have to t... (read in full...)
Why does he tell me he can't stand me and yet the internet says something different?
Q. hello ' Im a 16 year old Girl That has alredy been trough alot with Relationships for my age, My ex is Confussing me , we just broke up and we been together for a little over a year, He is telling me that he hates me and never whants to speek wi...
A. 19 March 2009: Well this is why you have been through so much, you persist in hanging around guys who treat you badly.
He probably just wants sympathy for his screen name.
I mean why would he have a screen name that said "I hate her and call her names becaus... (read in full...)
Troubles in the bedroom...
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for almost two years. We are always together. I have been staying at her house more. Well if we fall asleep together and she wakes up I could be twitching and she will think I am masterbating. I have no way of proving ...
A. 19 March 2009: Why doesn't she check to see where your hands are?
She has to accept that people move in their sleep, have dreams, even get turned on.
If she can't accept that then she is going to throw away a perfectly good relationship and then when she's ... (read in full...)
My family freaked out when they found out my guy is bi!
Q. Hi im 22 years old and I am bi sexually. When I was 19 I told my parents and they were totally fine with it. Last year I started dating a guy "Josh" my parents LOVED him. But they didnt know that "Josh" was also bi. We have experimented in our ...
A. 19 March 2009: So you didn't take any of the advice you were given here?
As I said, the emotional strain of being told you are having a baby could be enough to push them to say a load of stuff they probably don't mean.
As far as they know, you are still an... (read in full...)
My fault she's pregnant...
Q. I recently found out my bf of 1 year has gotten another girl pregnant while seeing me. The child is 2 months old, I do not know what to do, he said that he was drunk. My bf is 15 and I am 14. This is my fault, I said that I wouldn't have sex with...
A. 18 March 2009: Seriously will you listen to yourself?????
How is it in ANY WAY your fault that your boyfriend couldn't keep his pants on.
Many Many MILLIONS of teenagers are happily managing to wait for their girlfriend to turn 16.
The fact that he woul... (read in full...)
Six months pregnant due to a one night stand
Q. I recetntly found out that I am 6 weeks pregnant due to a one night stand. I have no idea how to break the news to everyone, especially the Daddy to be and my parents. I'm terrified because I have no idea how they will handle the news, my parents ...
A. 18 March 2009: You have said you could not have an abortion and that is fine as it is your choice and your body. But would you consider adoption? I am sure you could find a loving family for this baby and they could give it the best start in life and a stable, ... (read in full...)
Obsessed boyfriend!
Q. My bfriend and I have only been together a few months. The first two months were very serious (talks of marriage) but now I have just about had enough. He got really drunk one night and sent me abusive text messages because I was at work and ...
A. 18 March 2009: You can't stay with someone just because they are mentally ill.
Tell him that he is pushing you away and you don't want to be with him till he gets some help.
The fact he's being abusive shows me he is not in control and therefore he is ... (read in full...)
What is wrong with him? Should I be worried?
Q. He never makes the first move to kiss me, I always go up to him and start kissing him not even when he have sex he say 'baby show me some love or 'are you gonna show me some love and I find this really weird cos it's never happened before with none ...
A. 18 March 2009: Sounds like he's just there for the hell of it. If you make a move then it's sex on a plate and he doesn't have to make any effort.
If you don't then he's just not bothered.
I wonder why you are still with him? I mean, if he doesn't even put... (read in full...)
Chasing pavements...
Q. Does anyone know or got their own meanings on what "chasing pavements" means? I would like to know others views on this thanks....
A. 18 March 2009: There is a song about it.
It means running around following a trail that leads no where.
If you keep following a pavement where will you go? No where as it just leads round in circles.
It means you are wasting your time.
I hate that son... (read in full...)
Baby blues...
Q. After having a baby 5 months ago me and my husband are not getting along and we dont have sex? What can we do to save the marriage? ...
A. 18 March 2009: You don't give any information so it's hard to advise you specifically.
Just sit him down and talk about your feelings and then really really listen to his feelings.
See a counsellor if that helps.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Was it my fault?
Q. Hi well a couple of weeks ago I met up with this guy he kept pestering me to meet him saying he really liked me and stuff and he kept putting pressure on me to meet him and I don't like that but anyways I agreed to meet him, I met him the one night ...
A. 18 March 2009: Sweetheart why do you have such low self esteem????
You didn't even LIKE this guy, yet you didn't have the courage to tell him to bugger off and went out with him... Purely it seems because he was a pushy psycho about it.
Then when he started ... (read in full...)
I'm really worried, could I be pregnant?
Q. Ok. I'm 15 and about a week ago me and my boyfriend had sex.. I'm not a virgin.. Well we did it and he wasn't fully inside and then he cummed in his hand and maybe a little on me but I didn't see or feel anything on me. so I wasn't worried. ...
A. 18 March 2009: Why didn't you go and get the morning after pill?
If his penis went in your vagina, and there was sperm flying about then yes there is a chance you could be pregnant. That's why you should ALWAYS ALWAYS put a condom on him as SOON as you get him ... (read in full...)
For my daughters sake.., should I settle?
Q. I met someone new. My husband and I were having problems. I was 8 months pregnant and he decided it was best for me to go live with my parents out of state. I don't want to get into the specifics of the problems but it did not involve cheating in a...
A. 18 March 2009: Divorce your husband. Your daughter will not thank you for bringing her up in an unhappy home.
Then you can say to this guy that claims to love you that you are here if he wants you.
IF he leaves and divorces his wife then great, be with h... (read in full...)
Pregnancy mabye?
Q. I think im pregnant but im not sure. I started my period today. I thought it was strange because me and my boyfriend have been going at it everyday for the last two weeks. (I know there is only a 25% chance of getting pregnant without using a ...
A. 18 March 2009: Where the hell did you pull 25% from??
It's more like 85%.
http://www.contraceptivetechnology.com/table.html
If you want to get pregnant then that's fine, but sorry, starting your period means it hasn't happened this month. If you've be... (read in full...)
I desperately need your advice aunts! Where do I go from here?
Q. I recently posted a question about my fiance and I having problems with him betraying my trust, but I didnt mention that 2 years ago I did something awful as well... Our relationship back then was pretty awful. He was always nasty to me, we fought...
A. 18 March 2009: You've said that you want to be with this guy, even though he abuses you, that you are scared of him, that he is severely mentally ill, that he cheated on you or whatever it was, that you had to betray your beliefs about sex before marriage just to ... (read in full...)
A month after the break up coffee date: First step to winning her back????
Q. So, my girlfriend broke up with me about thirty days ago. After the break things were cool until about a week later when we were hanging out and she was blatantly flirting with another guy. The next morning I explained that I thought it was rude ...
A. 18 March 2009: She seems to be moving on, and thinks of you as a friend who she can flirt around.
Obviously you were not ready for that and it was a little insensitive of her not to realise - or it could have been her way of introducing the fact that she is n... (read in full...)
He likes porn because "they look better than you"
Q. i am with a lovely man who is kind and gentle. He likes his porn and one day i asked him why. His response was that "they are better looking than me". Well, I was devastated. Since then I have forgiven him but I find intimacy with him very di...
A. 18 March 2009: Harold Shipman was a nice person, he then got put in prison for being Britain's most prolific serial killer.
Fred West was described as lovely and helpful by neighbours and he tortured imprisoned and raped and murdered 17 women.
You say he is... (read in full...)
Guilt!
Q. Should you let things you have done with other guys when you thought you were in love make you feel guilty when you're with the person you really love?...
A. 18 March 2009: Don't tell him. That may make you feel better for about a second but it would hurt him and as you say, that would cause problems. It's a pretty stupid thing to do.
When you are a little girl and all the guys are You Firsts - your first hold han... (read in full...)
Upset that I recieved a letter from a Debt Collections company and don't know why? Help!
Q. Hi Aunts, I am actually a long time aunt from DC, but left the site and now need some input on my current situation. I received a strange looking letter in the mail today claiming that it is from a debt collections company named: Capit...
A. 18 March 2009: Sounds like a massive scam to me.
I could send you a letter saying you owed me hundreds of pounds and give you a form to fill out with all your details and if you fill it in then I could empty your bank account.
I don't know what the equival... (read in full...)
Guilt!
Q. Should you let things you have done with other guys when you thought you were in love make you feel guilty when you're with the person you really love?...
A. 17 March 2009: Nope.
You learn from mistakes, you grow as a person.
Unless you are going to wait for marriage then you are going to have this problem.
It's part of growing up.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't come on to me for fear I'll reject her.
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for quite some time now and we have a good sex life. The only problem is that when she is horny she won't make a move on me in case I don't want to have sex. If we're both horny then it's fine and if just I'm horny ...
A. 17 March 2009: This is one of these things that if she can't bring herself to do something about it then she is just going to have to stay frustrated.
There is no way to get her over this if she is not willing to try.
She only probably has to do it once and t... (read in full...)
My family freaked out when they found out my guy is bi!
Q. Hi im 22 years old and I am bi sexually. When I was 19 I told my parents and they were totally fine with it. Last year I started dating a guy "Josh" my parents LOVED him. But they didnt know that "Josh" was also bi. We have experimented in our ...
A. 13 March 2009: This is a toughy.
They are trying to use tough love, trying to stop you from being with a horrible guy that's going to cheat on you and probably knock you about. They want the best.
A lot of parents get told their teen is bi-sexual, and t... (read in full...)
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