Almost 21 and ready for a baby but my husband is not!
Q. im almost 21yrs old.i work at a daycare center in the infant room.so im arond babies all day!of course im going to love children!i absolutely love my job,and it just makes it so hard to be around babies when i am so desperate to have my own ...
A. 29 March 2009: I think you misunderstood my answer.
I said 1 year because you said you have been married just less than a year. Yes you have been together 5 years but he has only had you as his beautiful wife for less than 1 year.
As for the stealing sperm c... (read in full...)
My friends say someday we'll be on the same page
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating 8 months now. We knew there was this huge connection from the moment we met. It was one of those chemistry things. From the day we met pretty much acted like we were dating. He got jealous at a party we were at on ...
A. 29 March 2009: You can't worry about this.
It's in the future.
You have to trust to fate and think that if you are meant to be together then you will be.
Then just carry on and be a supercool relaxed girlfriend and make him see how great you are.
Good L... (read in full...)
Why do guys get all two faced?
Q. Why do guys get all two faced? Like why do they talk to there guy friends an say one thing an then to there girlfriends they all nice? For example my boyfriend had said to his guy friend that he doesn't no if he wants a serious gf an all this stu...
A. 29 March 2009: It's not all guys. It's just your guy. Don't blame the entire male race because your boyfriend:
a) is too weak and pathetic to say "I love my girlfriend and want to settle down" to his buddies
or
b) is telling you everything you want to h... (read in full...)
Almost 21 and ready for a baby but my husband is not!
Q. im almost 21yrs old.i work at a daycare center in the infant room.so im arond babies all day!of course im going to love children!i absolutely love my job,and it just makes it so hard to be around babies when i am so desperate to have my own ...
A. 29 March 2009: Having a child that you can buy gifts for and then hand back is not nearly the same as having one that bites your nipples and will NOT stop crying at 4am when you have to be at work at 8.
Your husband probably likes the idea of having money, b... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if I should break up with my girlfriend...
Q. Hello, I have been in a relationship for a year with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is a waitress. I recently moved in with her 2 months ago. Everything was going great but then she left her myspace open so i looked at it and saw that she was talking ...
A. 29 March 2009: Cool, Good Luck with it xx... (read in full...)
"You look cute today..." means what???
Q. So what does it MEAN? I know this sounds like a daft question, but I really don't know what cute actually means. This was said to me today by a guy who I know vaguely, and is about twice my age, but whom I think rather likes me....
A. 28 March 2009: He could be using it in the American way, to just mean good looking.
Or he could mean you look cute as in young / loveable / kittenish.
Just take it as a compliment rather than trying to analyse exact meaning. It was probably just a word that... (read in full...)
Why won't she let me pick her up for our date?
Q. We had a really good first date last night and we're going out again tonight. Tonight, however, she categorically does not want me to pick her up. She would rather meet up there (which isn't exactly centretown). It's a little confusing. Why on...
A. 28 March 2009: Did you drive her anywhere on your first date?
If so then it could be that you scared her with your driving.
Other than that, she maybe just doesn't want you knowing where she lives, or maybe her parents don't know she is dating.
She w... (read in full...)
Should I expect my man only to be interested in sex when we met whilst I was working in the sex industry?
Q. after meeting my man while i worked in the sex industry, should i have expected him to only show interest in being with me if we were having sex?...
A. 28 March 2009: No, if he wanted sex then he'd have to pay. If he wanted a relationship then he could date you and love you.
If he didn't date you and love you then he just wanted a freebie and was not worth your while.
You have to know to make them wait, ... (read in full...)
I want my son to have his father in his life full time, but his dad has two other sons that wont leave home!
Q. My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have been together for a year and we have a 2.5 month son together. We don't live together because he has a 21 year old son and a 26 year old son that live with him. He says that he wants to buy a house for us but ...
A. 28 March 2009: I think you need to get tough here.
Tell him that you don't think it's going to happen and say that as your son has no where to sleep, then he will have to come to you if he wants visitation.
Tell him that you can't risk being messed around as... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend leave me because I don't want children?
Q. I don't want kids. I have never wanted kids. I just don't like them, have no motherly instinct, plus childbirth = ow. My boyfriend does want kids. He's said he used to think about being a father a lot. He knows I don't want them, and knew that whe...
A. 28 March 2009: If you don't want a kid and your boyfriend does, then eventually he may leave you for a woman who will settle down and have his million babies and iron his shirts.
However, this is not true for all men. Your mother is wrong.
I don't want kids ... (read in full...)
I saw a txt meant for my friend from my boyfriend that upset me.
Q. my boyfriend and i were texting on the phone... my friend nick was sitting next to me and wanted to talk to him so i handed over the phone. they started talking but he wouldnt tell me what the were saying i took away the phone after an hour an...
A. 28 March 2009: It sounds like he's been saying he thinks you're the one, and his friend has been like "well hang on, you are only 16, let's not plan the wedding just yet."
So he replied saying "yeah, you're right, I'm not planning on marrying her any time soo... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if I should break up with my girlfriend...
Q. Hello, I have been in a relationship for a year with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is a waitress. I recently moved in with her 2 months ago. Everything was going great but then she left her myspace open so i looked at it and saw that she was talking ...
A. 28 March 2009: It sounds to me like she just wanted a friend from this guy and he flirted a little but she thought he was ok. It's nice to have someone to jokingly flirt with.
As soon as he stepped over the line she cut contact.
This was not an emotional aff... (read in full...)
How long do you stay in a sex position before changing?
Q. Hey everyone...I'm just interested to see what answers I get from this. How long do you people stay in a sex position before changing to another one?...
A. 27 March 2009: Normally till one of us comes.
Then we start again!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Help! Boyfriend troubles
Q. hi , 'im just wondering if i can get some advice me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months now ,, but recently i've noticed him staring at other girls practically all the time and he keeps giving my girl as friends and other girls ...
A. 27 March 2009: When he does it, smack him round the head.
He's being completely disrespectful and you need to teach him that he needs to stop it or you are going to dump his arse so fast it'll be next week before he even realises.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I cant give her what the poor girl expects as I don't feel that way!
Q. hello dear uncles and aunts ....its a bit lengthy stuff but please bear with me ...i have foolishly messed up my life ....im 21 and my girlfriend is 18...i kinda have a strange problem....before i come to it i would like to tel u that my girlfriend ...
A. 27 March 2009: Do you think you are really the first person to realise they want to split up with their other half?
This happens everyday. It's not nice, but it's life.
If you don't love her then set her free so she can find someone who does. Do you really th... (read in full...)
Is there a good reason for people to find out you've had sex?
Q. is there a good reason that people have to find out u've had sex? because i want to have sex with my bf, he wants to have sex with me, but we r concerned about getting caught and him going to jail since he is 18 and im 15. but i thinks its impossib...
A. 27 March 2009: Well if you like being all emotional and miserable then you are stuck with him.
Hopefully he will choose to use a condom when he makes you have sex or you're going to be stuck with his baby when he swans off to the marines and leaves you anyway. ... (read in full...)
Should I continue with my application for the military?
Q. Hi. I need some advice and hope someone is able to help. I am engaged to a wonderful man and we have been together for nearly 5 years. However because im still young and in a dead end job, ive applied to join the Military. I am always thin...
A. 27 March 2009: If you are signing up for the military it will more than likely kill your relationship.
After your basic training you'll then get posted to anywhere between Edinburgh and Cyprus.
So it's really the choice:
Pick him, be miserable, but he'll ... (read in full...)
Husband's homecoming from Iraq
Q. My husband is in the army and has been in Iraq for the last 10 months, he is due home in less then 3 weeks. This is his first tour and it has been very emotional for the both of us. (we were only married 6 months when he left) He is a huge momma'...
A. 27 March 2009: What ever she has planned, he's going to cancel anyway.
I'm an army wife (my husband has done 3 months in Kosovo and 2x 6 months tours in Iraq since we got together) and TRUST me when I say that all he will want to do when he gets home is lie on t... (read in full...)
A rushed wedding? Advice please!
Q. My boyfriend is in the Canadian army and we have been dating for a year and three months now. He recently was told by one his advisers that during his leave in august he should get married because in October he has to move to another base and he ...
A. 27 March 2009: And this is why marriages so often fail in the army.
As an army girlfriend in the UK, I got nothing. I didn't even get told if he died. As a wife I get a free house, free water, all the maintenance done for me, all my moving expenses, and I get to... (read in full...)
I picture my future with him, but not my present.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have been together since we were 16. Throughout our relationship we have both gone travelling separately and I have gone to Uni and am now in my 2nd year. A few times in my relationship I have felt the...
A. 27 March 2009: You are only dithering about this because he is all you know.
You fell for him and assumed you would be together forever (as we all do with our first serious boyfriends) and now you can't bare the thought that this may not be true.
You lov... (read in full...)
Is there a good reason for people to find out you've had sex?
Q. is there a good reason that people have to find out u've had sex? because i want to have sex with my bf, he wants to have sex with me, but we r concerned about getting caught and him going to jail since he is 18 and im 15. but i thinks its impossib...
A. 27 March 2009: Well if you are not grown up enough / strong enough to walk away from a man that you KNOW is horrible to you and you KNOW is manipulating you, then you are definitely not ready for sex.
The BEST lesson you can learn is you become a woman is to wa... (read in full...)
Is there a good reason for people to find out you've had sex?
Q. is there a good reason that people have to find out u've had sex? because i want to have sex with my bf, he wants to have sex with me, but we r concerned about getting caught and him going to jail since he is 18 and im 15. but i thinks its impossib...
A. 27 March 2009: Yeah, how many times do we get questions saying "I think I am pregnant, my boyfriend is 18 will he go to jail?"
And the answer is "Yep."
Not worth the risk.
If he's too ashamed to have you as his girlfriend in the open and wait for you to... (read in full...)
Could all of them be cheaters?
Q. First of all, I mean this question with all respect, and I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but I really need to know something and would like to hear other people's opinions. I'm so afraid I will offend someone but I swear I don't mean to. ...
A. 27 March 2009: I am from Europe and let me tell you that in Texas ALL men ride horses and own oil wells They ALL voted for George Bush as well.
Did you know that ALL Scottish men love to get drunk and fight people. On Friday nights they have special areas of... (read in full...)
Where else can you get love bites
Q. Can you get Hickeys/Love Bites, anywhere on your body besides your neck? If so, where all on your body can you get them at? ...
A. 27 March 2009: They are a type of bruise, so anywhere you can bruise, you can get a love bite.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Will sexual experience help my anxiety with the opposite sex?
Q. I am 18 and wondering if having sex will reduce anxiety towards the opposite sex and if yes how effective is it. Thank you....
A. 27 March 2009: Is this a kind of "facing your fear" thing?
It might just help if you find a really nice girl who'll be gentle and nice to you about it.
It could also go horribly wrong as sex is not exactly the same as holding a spider.
If you want to ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him? Or not?
Q. Just recently I was informed that my brother is getting married.Im extaticly proud for him but something is nagging at me.in the past i never really saw my brother because we had differnet moms and his mom and my dad are divorced.sometime after in ...
A. 27 March 2009: I really don't see how going up to him on his wedding day and saying words along he lines of "It was a beautiful service, by the way you treat me like crap and I don't know why and I hate you" would possibly achieve.
If you dad wants you to someh... (read in full...)
26 and I haven't been with anyone :-(
Q. I need some help/advice. I am 26 years of age and have never had a boyfriend or intimate with a guy if you catch my drift. I have kissed one guy recently and I kinda liked it but I ended up pulling away because he made me feel how excited he was, ...
A. 26 March 2009: Do you really want "some fun?"
Or deep down do you want your first time to be with a boyfriend?
If you are happy to just get rid of it, and think you are prepared for all the MASSIVE emotions that go with it and won't feel used or dirty then go... (read in full...)
I'm not a guy, so I just don't get this killer exercise to get in shape I guess.:)
Q. This is a queestion for everyone out there! Ok, so my boyfriend started this new exercise program. It's for 90 days, but a killer!! You have to do certain exercises every day. He has only done this (3) days and the soreness just gets worse every...
A. 26 March 2009: If these are exercises for athletes and he is a regular joe, then what he is doing is being an idiot.
Men do this some times. It's a pride thing because he couldn't possibly admit that he's not an athlete... he's quite clearly perfect in every wa... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do? I really like him.
Q. What do you do about a man who is absolutely perfect in every way; kind, attentive, romantic, intelligent, everything really, but who says he doesn't do relationships because he is selfish and loves himself too much? I get the impression he's had ...
A. 26 March 2009: Hahahaha, what a show off.
"I'm a lone wolf baby, it's just me, my motorbike, my dashing good looks and the moon..."
Jesus, does he wear his hair in a 1950's style and wear a leather jacket? I picture him wearing sunglasses at night and chewin... (read in full...)
Why has she left it this long to tell me that? Could she be lying?
Q. I'm having the time of my life romancing an older woman. I'm 26 and she's 46. You have to see her to believe her. She's gorgeous and got a great personality. We met at a party, she's a friend's friend's friend's friend's Mum or something like that...
A. 26 March 2009: She could have not told you that because it's a lot less rude than saying "well you were hardly hard to get into bed, young man, so you are probably swimming with disease."
She was being sensible and also building up the trust so you wouldn't... (read in full...)
Proper grammar please!!!
Q. this is not to do with relationships or anything like that but i just had to point it out: why doesn't anybody use grammar properly on this website or anywhere else! nobody seems to know the difference between to and too or between there, they're ...
A. 26 March 2009: It's because being clever and learning stuff at school is not kewl or down wit da kidz.
When you get older you will find other people who are just as keen to appear intelligent as you are.
But not everyone is bothered about that, they'd rat... (read in full...)
I know he loves me the way I am, but I really want to lose some weight
Q. Thank you in advance for anyone taking the time to read this! I suppose this is a more health-related question, but I could really do with some advice. I'm going away with my boyfriend at the beginning of July to Spain. I know he loves me the way ...
A. 26 March 2009: You probably don't need to lose more than a couple of pounds and what you really need is muscle tone to define the shape of your waist and bum etc.
Do things like waist twists.
Stand with you feet apart and your arms stretched out sideways (so... (read in full...)
Can casual sex between friends work or is our friendship heading for disaster?
Q. My best friend and I hang out together alot. She's always over at my house at the weekends, she stays over on Friday and Saturday nights. Last Saturday, she was over as usual. We were watching a film on the settee. At the end of the film, we were...
A. 26 March 2009: It can work as long as you stay and will only ever be JUST friends.
If either of you starts getting feelings you have to call it off immediately.
But as long as it's not all the time, and as long as you are mates first and the sex is just an o... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do or say to tell him I love him too.
Q. Hiya! My best friend, my really, really good friend just told me a couple of months ago that he's in love with me. But it's like nothing I've ever seen before, the way he acts around me. He always has his arms around me, always wants to keep me...
A. 26 March 2009: Just kiss him.
I think that would make most of his dreams come true.
Wait till you are alone and he has his arms round you, then just look into his eyes.
You could always say something like "kiss me" at that point if you don't want to make t... (read in full...)
Have I been stupid in trying to help her conceive?
Q. I'm in a crazy situation. One of my friends, a girl my age, has asked me to do something for her. Let me say that I have always been attracted to her, she is quite the beautiful lady, but it could never go further than friendship. She's one of thes...
A. 26 March 2009: Sweetheart, I very much doubt that she is using you for sex... and even if she is then are you really really going to complain?
You are friends, you know it won't mean anything and you are having some form of fun out of it I presume? So what is ... (read in full...)
B/f wants to know some of my b/f tricks!
Q. I have givin blow jobs before, but not to my new boyfriend. He wants to know some of my tricks. What should i tell him...
A. 26 March 2009: Tell him to wait and see.
Say it in a sexy voice, look into his eyes, and run a finger down his arm or even stomach towards his trousers. Then bounce off him and change the subject.
Boys at yours age aren't very experienced and if you act sexy ... (read in full...)
Meeting my boyfriends father
Q. Hey Everyone, I'm 18, and I'm meeting my boyfriends Dad for the first time in a few days. (my boyfriend is my age too) I'm actually staying with them for 2 weeks, so I just wondered whether anyone could give me some advice on how to act,...
A. 26 March 2009: All dads want to know that their boy has a girl who
a) cares about them (obviously)
b) will look after them (is the marrying kind)
c) is smoking hot (male pride thing)
So be polite, wear something flattering but not too sexy, offer to make ... (read in full...)
What would a guy do that would make a girl think he's sweet?
Q. hi well I'm just curious but girls what does and guy have to do for you to consider him sweet or nice or whatever is the best adjective out there. thanks bye....
A. 26 March 2009: The good old fashioned art of being a gentleman always works because so few guys are these days.
Hold the door, always let them through first, offer to carry any heavy bags they have.
I'm sure you know the rules.
If you like a girl and are ... (read in full...)
Being hit on is flattering and disgusting at the same time
Q. I'm almost 21 and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm not socially awkward, I actually have a lot of friends. I just keep my male friends at a safe distance. The way I was raised, combined with some bad experiences in the past, taught me that men are ...
A. 26 March 2009: To be honest I think you are right.
Men are sexual beings. But that does not mean they are ALL going to be attracted to you.
Find a guy with a girlfriend, or a gay guy and be friends with him. I get the feeling this is all you really want at t... (read in full...)
I don't want to move with him
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about three months now. I love him very much and things are going well. The only big problem is that he swears I'm going to move out of state with him when I get done with school. I have a daughter so that would me...
A. 26 March 2009: You should tell him now.
It's going to be far worse for him to be told last minute.
3 months is not a long time to be with someone.
Just tell him straight you've been thinking about it and you don't want to move.
He may want to stay wit... (read in full...)
She does not want anal sex but I like it a lot
Q. I live in the USA with my fiancée. We got engaged last year but the problem is that she does not want to engage in anal sex but I like it a lot. How can I convince her?...
A. 26 March 2009: You can't convince her.
Some women just do not want to do it. If you nag and nag and nag until she gives in, then she will feel dirty and used and very upset.
If you cannot live without it then marry a different girl.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Are these symptoms of OCD?
Q. Im constantly biting my nails and the skin surrounding it.. also im constantly checking my face for any bumbs, pimples, blackheads.. and i do my boyfriends face too! Are this signs of OCD?...
A. 26 March 2009: OCD means you get anxious to the point of panic attacks thinking that something bad will happen if your routines are not in place.
You just have a bad habit or biting your nails and you're a bit anal about clear skin.
Try buying some of t... (read in full...)
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