G/f depressed because she's obese
Q. My girlfriend is depressed because she’s obese. She’s tried quite a lot of diets but nothing seems to work as she gives up after a couple of weeks. Generally I’d say she eats about the same amount that I do and if anything I’m underweight. What can ...
A. 1 April 2009: You really need to try and get her on those anti-depressants. Tell her that you aren't worried about lack of sex and will never leave her or cheat on her.
They will not solve the problem but they will allow her to think clearly and do somethin... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't come on to me for fear I'll reject her.
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for quite some time now and we have a good sex life. The only problem is that when she is horny she won't make a move on me in case I don't want to have sex. If we're both horny then it's fine and if just I'm horny ...
A. 17 March 2009: This is one of these things that if she can't bring herself to do something about it then she is just going to have to stay frustrated.
There is no way to get her over this if she is not willing to try.
She only probably has to do it once and t... (read in full...)
Girlfriend's behavior finally put me over the edge!
Q. My gf's behavior on Saturday night has finally put me over the edge. I was invited to a Paddy's Day party. I immediately asked her to come with me. She first refused because she didn't like the people that were going to be there. Particularly the ...
A. 17 March 2009: You seem to be saying that you are just waiting for it to happen and then you will break up with her then.
Hun, you don't need to book an appointment to break up with someone. It's not one of these things that you had your chance and missed i... (read in full...)
Should I be losing this much hair?
Q. Recently i have noticed that when brushing and washing my hair, alot of it has been falling out, before a bit did, but now its alot, im just wondering if its something i shoulld be worrying about or what the cause may bee :/ thankss :) xx...
A. 17 March 2009: When you say a lot, is it looking thinner on your scalp?
Can you notice differences in how thick it is on your head? Do you have bald patches?
If so then yes, see a doctor.
If it's just that you've noticed more in the plug hole then it co... (read in full...)
Do guys need breathing space in a relationship every now and again?
Q. This is healthy in a relationship, right? My boyfriend wants to hang out with his guy friends I'd say it comes up about... once or twice a month. He text me this morning saying,'my buddy has an extra ticket for an event.' So, we'll go out on ...
A. 17 March 2009: Yes it's perfectly normal not to spend every single day of your lives together.
It's called a social life.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
He's shorter than me!
Q. We like each other very much he worries all the time that i dnt like him cause hes shorter than me... M 5"10 hes 5"8. By him worrying he makes me self conscious about my height. Any idea guys please... And also girls too... Help me...
A. 17 March 2009: Hello fellow tall girl!
It's normally us girls that have to worry about the height of their guys so it's nice to see you are not bothered.
Well you are but only because he keeps going on about it.
You just need to give him some tough love... (read in full...)
G/f depressed because she's obese
Q. My girlfriend is depressed because she’s obese. She’s tried quite a lot of diets but nothing seems to work as she gives up after a couple of weeks. Generally I’d say she eats about the same amount that I do and if anything I’m underweight. What can ...
A. 17 March 2009: Well the problem with diets is that you have to stick with them.
And it's not about how MUCH she eats, it's WHAT she eats.
All she has to do to lose weight is eat healthy things and exercise. She has to burn up more calories every day than s... (read in full...)
I don't want to cheat, jsut use her to see if I have potntial to be Bi...
Q. Hi I'm a straight female in a relationship with a guy, but I have a crush on a another girl. But the problem is I have a close relative who I call my sis but she really isn't. We'll call her Jen. Ok now Jen's sister is the girl I'm crushing on. ...
A. 17 March 2009: It's no wonder she doesn't want to go out on a date with you. I wouldn't want to be someone's science experiment either.
Also, SHE HAS A GIRLFRIEND, why would she want to go out with you on what will be a date, no matter how you label it, when tha... (read in full...)
Its not intentional but I'm doing sexual things to my girlfriend while I'm asleep and its upsetting her!
Q. Okay this is really embarrassing but i have no idea where to go. I have a girlfriend, we have been going out for 1 year 4 months. Everything has been great. Had a probblem couple of months ago but since then everything has been sorted. So a...
A. 17 March 2009: Haha, sorry, I didn't mean to say you weren't good in bed already. I'm sure you know how to make your girl very happy.
I was just trying to say that you could try really spoiling her in bed for a bit.
I'm glad you are not being violent and it's... (read in full...)
Now he's going to crash on her couch for 10 days and I don't feel good about it
Q. Dear Cupid, I have some "ex-factor" issues that just don't seem to go away. My boyfriend and I have had quite a few heart-to-heart talks over this and I honestly feel it's all in my head. I don't want to bring it up with him anymore because ...
A. 17 March 2009: I'm sorry hun but you are being unreasonable. I think you know that yourself.
You've said you know it's in your head and you know it's hurting him by saying you don't trust him.
You're also implying that you want him to be better at his jo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems to like porn more than me.
Q. Hi, I've been together with my boyfriend for 2 years. When we first started dating, everything felt magical. Now, we live together for about a year and a half. In the beginning, we used to have a lot of sex. However, he started watching porn on ...
A. 17 March 2009: You need to leave this guy. He no longer cares about you at all. He shows no respect and clearly does not love you.
Move back with your mother and find a man who cares about you.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Should I dump this friend to look for potentials?
Q. I have a guy mate who I get on with and try to see on a regular basis. He already has a girlfriend, but lives away from him and I'm 23 and still single. Every time Mum knows that I arrange to meet up with him, she complains that I am 'wasting my ...
A. 17 March 2009: Jesus is your mum THAT desperate to marry you off? Offer to move out if it's bothering her that much. Or suggest she tries being a foster carer if she is that desperate for a baby to cuddle. Or she could get a job volunteering in a maternity unit. ... (read in full...)
Its not intentional but I'm doing sexual things to my girlfriend while I'm asleep and its upsetting her!
Q. Okay this is really embarrassing but i have no idea where to go. I have a girlfriend, we have been going out for 1 year 4 months. Everything has been great. Had a probblem couple of months ago but since then everything has been sorted. So a...
A. 17 March 2009: Yeah I think you need to seriously do something about this. I mean, can she fight you off when you do this??
If not then you are basically sexually assaulting her. That isn't good.
I have seen cases of other guys who do this. There was a docu... (read in full...)
My friends with benefits relationship is confusing me!
Q. I have dated a guy for two months, but we decided to just be friends with benefits because he has too much going on in his life right now and so do I. He said he doesn't feel that "spark" anymore. We meet up for sex about once or twice a week,...
A. 17 March 2009: That is what you do when you are friends with benefits.
You don't have to be complete bastards to eachother, then have sex and then tell them to get out.
Being sweet and romantic and cuddling is NICE. It's fun for him too. It's part of the sex ... (read in full...)
A gay guy hitting on a lesbian??? Really?
Q. I have a big problem. I'm gay for one. My best friend is a boy (J). Well, I thought he was gay as well. I mean, he told me he was bi when we first met. But I just assumed that he was gay because he never stopped talking about this one boy. Well... ...
A. 17 March 2009: Was he drunk? That sounds like a late night drunk text if ever I heard one.
If he's got feelings for you and you have a girlfriend then you can't be friends with him for a while. Full Stop.
It's not fair on your girlfriend, it's not fair on... (read in full...)
Does "sleeping over" bring a couple closer?
Q. Ok, so what is behind the whole reason why my boyfriend wanted me to sleep over on Saturday night.. He gave me a tight hug and didn't want to let me go. Jokingly of course but kept insisting it was late and I should just spend the night.. I didn't ...
A. 17 March 2009: Well if he didn't make a move toward sex and just wanted to cuddle you then he sounds like he does actually care about you and wants to be close to you.
Hell yes it brings you closer! You get to cuddle up, be at your most vulnerable with each oth... (read in full...)
Mild depression?
Q. I'm sure I'm being melodramtic but I feel as though I'm suffering with mild symtoms of depression but I am too scared to go talk to a doctor about this as I wouldn't know what to say and I'd just feel a bit silly, if you understand me? I live aw...
A. 17 March 2009: The doctor may want to put you straight on happy pills.... so are you prepared for that?
There is a lot of stuff you can do to combat depression that doesn't involve drugs and your GP may well suggest you go and try them first.
So if you wan... (read in full...)
Does anyone have any advice or even experience of having a baby while with someone in a long distance relationship???
Q. My girlfriend of 2 years and I are in a distance relationship. I am 34 and she 32 years old. We see each other every weekend and are very close. We would both far prefer living together but despite hard efforts I am not doing well in getting a job ...
A. 17 March 2009: By thinking it probably won't happen straight away, you just KNOW that it's going to happen the first time the condom comes off.
Babies cost a lot of money. How is she going to pay for it if she isn't working? Are you going to be able to afford h... (read in full...)
What exactly is the Atkins diet?
Q. Hey guys, I'm a little confused. I'm wanting to try the Atkins diet, but the thing is I am not quite sure what it is or what it involves, I've just heard that you can lose a lot of weight from it. Would you recommend it? And what is it exactly? ...
A. 17 March 2009: Basically you become diabetic for 3 weeks.
The Atkins diet is incredibly effective but very unhealthy which is why you should only ever do it as a kick start to a proper healthy eating diet.
Your body needs carbs AND protein to make energy to d... (read in full...)
Other than waiting for therapy to give results does anyone have any ideas for how to liven things up or does the dark cloud loom?
Q. My girlfriend would be the perfect candidate for someone with a necrophelia fetish. Unfortunately, that's not me. As I think back over the past year I can recall times of better sex and some of the worst encounters possible (the train keeps running ...
A. 17 March 2009: I think you may be right. There will come a point where either she opens up a bit, or you find that enough is enough and go.
Just don't hang around too long.
You aren't getting any younger and all the good girls are going to be married off / ha... (read in full...)
Too early?
Q. I was due for my period on the 14th. Is it too early to take a pregnancy test?...
A. 16 March 2009: You can get tests that will come up this early, but to be honest you are only a couple of days late so if you do not have reason to suspect you are pregnant it could be nothing.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Do teachers ever have crushes on their students?
Q. Hello, all! I'm looking to hear from any teachers out there (especially young and/ or male ones) on the subject of student/ teacher relationships. I've noticed that there are countless posts on this website of students (especially females) declari...
A. 16 March 2009: Yes they do. You hear about it in the papers when they have been stripped of their job, named and shamed and normally made to sign the sex offenders register.
Not all teachers are perfect. Sometimes they may be tempted by one of their students... (read in full...)
Women's intuition tells them they are pregnant before taking test?
Q. Is it true that women have this strong intuition that let's them know they're pregnant even before taking a pregancy test?!?...
A. 16 March 2009: Put preganancy into the search box and you will find approx 500 million "Am I Pregnant" questions. With symptoms ranging from a lack of periods and sore breasts through to diarrhoea and nose bleeds.
If your question was true then we wouldn't... (read in full...)
Married man pursuing young girl...
Q. There is this married man that keeps calling me. I don't understand why he wants to talk to me (he got my phone number through a friend) since we have nothing in common and the age level is too far apart. Well yes I do because he probably just wants ...
A. 16 March 2009: Well first off you should give your friend a slap for giving your number out. That is not smart and not safe.
The fact that you have friends who will hand out your number probably made him thing you are a bit young and easy to manipula... (read in full...)
How do I react to my dad's taunts?
Q. I am 19 years old, a few months back I had a night out with my girlfriends and came home at 2 in the morning, since then my dad has been taunting me about it every day although he didn't shout at me the day I came home late. I don't understa...
A. 16 March 2009: He's jokingly being an over protective dad because he was worried sick that you were out with a group of MEN till the early hours.
I think you can make him understand by being silly back.
When he does it, just look cute and say "oh I'm sorry da... (read in full...)
Other than waiting for therapy to give results does anyone have any ideas for how to liven things up or does the dark cloud loom?
Q. My girlfriend would be the perfect candidate for someone with a necrophelia fetish. Unfortunately, that's not me. As I think back over the past year I can recall times of better sex and some of the worst encounters possible (the train keeps running ...
A. 16 March 2009: Well she comes along and drapes her arm over you or clicks her fingers or what ever it is, and you jump to it!
She's not going to change if this works for her.
Just stop responding. Tell her you can't be bothered to make all the effort all o... (read in full...)
Problems with my Xbox friend...
Q. I met a girl on Xbox right before valentines day. We started talking as friends then started getting more serious after we found out we were almost the same person now what I'm gunna say will make her sound like a psycho bitch but I love her so ...
A. 16 March 2009: This problem can't be solved by talking.
If she got beaten up then she should report it to the police. Get the guy who did it locked up.
If you or her are self harming then you need medical help. It is dangerous and not normal.
Tell ... (read in full...)
Did I find my soulmate?
Q. So... a few things... I am an attractive guy, one night stands never did it for me so after the few that I had, I stopped them. I can't stand girls who do have them a lot. I met this girl.. and she is the sweetest thing on earth, we are madly ...
A. 16 March 2009: The past is the past, if she hadn't done all that stuff then she wouldn't be the girl you love now.
You make mistakes and you learn from them, it's now you grow as a person and don't stay a gullible child.
What do you think about men who li... (read in full...)
Should I tell her parents my intent to marry her?
Q. Hi this is my first time to this site and I need some insight on my relationship. I have been dating my younder girl friend for 9 months now (she is 24) I am 39, I am a divorced father of 1. I started dating her before my divorce was final , alth...
A. 16 March 2009: I think it's a bit old fashioned but it would really REALLY be a good idea to go up to see her family for a couple of days and in that time to take her dad out and buy him a few beers.
Then just tell him your past, how your marriage ended, h... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is balding and I don't like it
Q. I really need help please. I love my bf as a person. I think he's great but recently he's been losing his hair and its really starting to look bad. He's tried many different hairstyles but they don't really suit him. Recently he shaved his head ...
A. 16 March 2009: Yes it's superficial, but attraction is a HUGE part of being with someone.
It's just the same as if you got a big tattoo or put on 5 stone. It's superficial but it really matters.
Some girls LOVE bald men. If he's not your cup of tea then let ... (read in full...)
My wife of 3 years told me she had a crush on my best friend. Should I be worried?
Q. My wife of 3 years recently told me she had a crush on my best friend. I told her how could happen if I'm the only man in your life. She told me not to look into it to much, that it had been only a small crush, and then it passed. Should I be ...
A. 16 March 2009: If it's been and it's gone then no you have nothing to worry about.
Her mistake was telling you about it. The only thing that achieved is making herself feel less bad about it. But it's thrown you so bad that you are here asking what you should b... (read in full...)
My online guy is all giddy about seeing his ex and seems to care less about me, is this strange?
Q. Hi all, I've met a wonderful guy over the net during July of last year, we haven't met yet. Everything was fine and good, then his ex came into the picture saying she's visiting. She says she wants to hook up with him, and doesn't care what pos...
A. 16 March 2009: Well if you haven't even met then to be honest, he's just going to see you as an online friend.
She is in real life and may have sex with him. That is something you just can't do online.
I think this has proved that he is not taking this seri... (read in full...)
Is this a good idea?
Q. Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weev bin goin out for five months now, and in a few days itll be our sixth month, this one's gonna b special cuz its also my bday! I need to kno if this is a good present idea, im gonna buy her a meaningful ring, not too ...
A. 16 March 2009: If you get on one knee and give her a ring she is going to think it's a proposal. There is no getting away from it.
A little ring is fine as a gift, it'll be something she can wear to show she is yours. I wouldn't put it on her engagement finger t... (read in full...)
He cheated 8 years ago and has only just told me
Q. Hi Aunts , Last week my partner and I of 20 years together went to his works reunion party. We mingled with lots of people we both knew well. This particular woman kept hanging on to my husband and I overheard her say to him she wouldnt forget t...
A. 15 March 2009: I'm not going to say it was only a kiss as if I found my husband had done what yours has, then I would be devastated.
But to his credit, he turned her down, he could have gone a lot further and you may never have found out. He could have had sex ... (read in full...)
I used a dildo & now I'm bleeding heavily...
Q. Ok this is going to sound stupid but i used a 6 inch dildo today and ever since i used that i have been bleeding alot and i mean alot, i have always been loosing like blood clots things as well and its really worrying me do any of you no whats wrong ...
A. 15 March 2009: It could be that you are haemorrhaging. That means you won't stop bleeding until you have no more blood left and then you just get found dead in a large puddle.
Get someone who can drive and get them to take you to the hospital Now. If there is... (read in full...)
My sex drive is so low...I feel abnormal!
Q. I really worry that my sex drive is much less than other women...I know traditionally women have lesser sex drives than men, but I could happily go weeks without it. I do masturbate and to be honest find that better than sex with guys - because ...
A. 15 March 2009: Some people like it once and twice a day, some people can happily go months with out.
Your main problem is finding a compatible partner.
Some men are out there who do not like sex all the time, and if you can find one of these to fall in love ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to fly to Spain, while I'm pregnant?
Q. Hi could someone help me i am currently 26 weeks and a few days pregnant and i am going on holiday to spain on tuesday i just wanted to know if it is safe to fly please let me know thank you x...
A. 15 March 2009: Ask your doctor.
He knows your history. You could call him in the morning as they have phones now!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Pregnant with Twins...can you help us decide on some names?
Q. My husband and i were having a debate about baby names, yes i'm pregnant with twins... and i said i'd put it to a poll. please could anyone who wants to decide from the six names below which one they prefer. i'm expecting a baby boy and a baby ...
A. 15 March 2009: You've spelled Jacob wrong.
Also, they are going to be bloody annoying to write out on forms and spell out over the phone for the rest of their lives.
You may want something beautiful and unique, but does your poor girl? They are going to hav... (read in full...)
Baby names...
Q. My bf and I were talking about baby names we want something unique and different but still cute. What do you think of the following names? BOYS: Flynn Owen (Owen is my bfs dad) Sloan Owen Makai (Ma-Ki) Owen Girls: Makenna Joy Arizona Jo...
A. 15 March 2009: As long as they can call them selves something pretty normal at school so they don't get beaten up, then what ever the hell you like.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I love to have sex all day and all night
Q. Hi, I'm 19 years old and i have a problem. I love to have sex...all day and night. I tend to scare many girls off...... at first they tend to like it and then get annoyed by it and they just end up leaving me. what different can i do to keep the...
A. 15 March 2009: You have to realise that your relationships cannot be all about sex.
You may want to have it all night and all day but what do THEY want to do?
It can't all be about your needs and wants.
You have to care about them and show them you see th... (read in full...)
I'm worried about his true intentions behind his words?
Q. Thanks for reading this, I need some advice! My bf of 8 yrs has started saying he would like us to get married and have children in the next year or two. I don't know if he means it, as he said the same thing last year, then broke up with me ...
A. 15 March 2009: Unfortunately you can never tell the future.
However, I firmly believe you should never get married if you have even the slightest doubt.
I think you have to give yourself a deadline and a set of standards.
Start pointing out expensive r... (read in full...)
She slept with me 1st night we were together, does that mean she sleeps with every guy the 1st date?
Q. So I have one more problem, well more of a question. After 7 yrs of being friends we have finally started dating. She has dated alot of guys in the past and being her roommate I got to hear alot of their sex life. She is very aventures in bed...
A. 15 March 2009: Unless she gets to know every other guy she has dated for 7 years first then no, I very much doubt she sleeps with everyone on the first date.
She probably assumed she could trust you enough not to lose respect for her or think she was a slut or ... (read in full...)
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