I went into his myspace account and found out he's cheating
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and recently had suspicions of him cheating/flirting with other girls so i went on his myspace account to look at his messages (the ones only he can access) and he is cheating i want to end it now b...
A. 31 March 2009: Excellent news!
The fact that you are strong enough to do this means you are going to be able to stay away from all the guys that will ever try and hurt you.
Being a strong woman is the best thing you can be.
Never settle for anyone who do... (read in full...)
Do antibiotics affect contraceptive pill? Could I be pregnant?
Q. another "could i be pregnant" question, sorry. I know you guys get a lot of these but i have read through a few and not found any like this, so here goes. Im on the contraceptive pill but have been taking antibiotics for over a week now, Will t...
A. 31 March 2009: Yes you could very well be pregnant.
The pharmacist AND the doctor should have warned you about that.
It says you are 18 - 21 years. But since you mention you being young, is that not right?
If you are underage then they may have assumed yo... (read in full...)
Should there be an agreement on when to hang out with our own friends?
Q. My boyfriend and I are going our separate ways on Friday night..hanging out with friends that we haven't seen in such a looong time. We do this every now and then. Should there be an agreement between both of us? We've been dating for over (2) ...
A. 31 March 2009: Flippin' Heck you are putting far too much thought into this.
Just go out have lots and lots of fun and see each other the next day.
If you try and plan it can come across as really clingy so just relax.
You don't need a plan for this so ... (read in full...)
What to do about this dating situation?
Q. We went out for almost 8 months, until Friday. He would ignore me on and off for a few months, and sometimes it got to the point where we wouldn't talk for a week, and I don't even know why. At the end of the day, he wouldn't wait until he saw me by ...
A. 31 March 2009: This is the third time you've asked this question.
Why don't you follow the advice you have already been given?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
X is just making me crazy!
Q. Wondering what the deal with X's that make it super hard for you to date ? Ok let me clear it up her for you. Me and my X have not been together for about 6 months now and still to this day she is posting stuff about me an how I hurt her and how...
A. 31 March 2009: Well how is she getting hold of your emails????
Stop her from doing that and cut contact.
Get a completely new email account, delete her from all your networking sites and move on.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I call my boyfriend too much
Q. Me And My Boyfriend God, we argue all the time and when hes in a bad mood i have a habit on ringing him to see if hes ok over and over and he gets angry but i dont even fone him that much and it just feels like hes going off me he doesnt answe...
A. 31 March 2009: Well he may have got annoyed at you. Especially if he asked you and you carried on.
Give him some time and STOP CALLING.
Just send him a text and then wait for a reply if you have to do something.
Show him you can be a cool girlfriend and... (read in full...)
Friend receiving threats and demands for money
Q. Okay so, My friend is getting stressed over a phone call she had today. From what i gathered shes been threatened by her parents to be kicked out the house for various reasons. If her grades are not good then shell be kicked out She has...
A. 31 March 2009: Call social services.
They do not just swoop in and take her away... they can come in and just talk to her parents, explain that this is not the right way to get her to work hard.
You don't need to give any details and can just ask them for adv... (read in full...)
How can I control this stupid fantasy????
Q. I love my boyfriend very very much and we have a lovely, beautiful relationship. He is gorgeous, and kind, and everything I could ever want. I kissed and heavily flirted with his brother before we got together. My boyfriend doesn't know this. I don'...
A. 31 March 2009: You have to think long and hard.
Are you really really in love with your boyfriend, or is he your comfy safety net when you really want to be single and free?
It's very possible that you love your boyfriend and you just need to snap out of this... (read in full...)
Please tell me what a player is
Q. Hi all, my ex bf said on the phone just a few minutes ago that he's also a player, I said no he's not but well not when I was with him, but he said he was on his best behaviour with me. He said that there's no one down the pub to do it to but then ...
A. 31 March 2009: A player is a term used by men to try and make themselves feel cool.
Basically he means he wants to lie to get sex, he wants to lead girls on for sex, he wants to cheat on his girlfriends to get more sex.
A player is a guy who gets lots of sex... (read in full...)
He said I just wanted the "title" of boyfriend/girlfriend.
Q. Hi, okay so I just need some advice please... thank you guys in advance... I had finally let this guy go after one year of our relationship, he had the commitment issue, did want to lose me but wanted me around...?? Weird I know... but now it's ...
A. 31 March 2009: Yep, he's all talk when it comes to looking good to someone isn't he.
"Oh no, it was just her problem, I couldn't possibly have been at fault and deserved to be dumped. I'm completely the victim in this."
Of course he is going to make you out ... (read in full...)
Does my girlfriend want me?
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship for the last 6 months and we love each other very much but my girlfriend has recently stopped wanting to make love, we haven't done it for over a month. She says there is no reason, she just doesnt "feel like it". I ...
A. 31 March 2009: Well you need to talk about it with her. 6 months is a very short time for your relationship to get to this stage in.
There could be several reasons.
1. Her feelings have faded but she loves you as a friend so doesn't want to let you go.
2. ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can trust him again, even though I love him as a brother
Q. i dont know if im overreacting or taking this too seriously or anything but after and incident last year i've become extremely jealous... weel it's because last year i was with a girl, and our relationship was great, but she ruined it by cheating...
A. 31 March 2009: I think you know you need to back off on the jealousy. This girl has done nothing wrong so it's unfair to treat her like this.
As for J I think you need to have a word and say you are still trying to forgive him and learn to trust him but you woul... (read in full...)
Any connection we used to have seems to be gone
Q. hey guys ive been with my bf for 6 months now and i think its falling apart so if you have any advice please help! for the past month hes been really depressed and paid me no attention. I think some of the feelings i have for him in that time lef...
A. 31 March 2009: Unfortunately as a teenage girl you have not yet learned not to take this from guys and your heart is still telling you that 6 months together means you have to stay with him as otherwise your feelings meant nothing.
If he's treating you badly th... (read in full...)
What do I do if he calls me and actually doesn't want to break up?
Q. I'm 15, and I dated my ex for almost 8 months. He would ignore me on and off for a few months. Sometimes we would go up to a week without even talking, and I'd cry and feel depressed over it. He was with his guy friends a lot more than he was ever...
A. 31 March 2009: Yes, you should not have let your friends dictate your entire relationship. But at the same time, this guy SLAPPED your best mate. You do NOT go back out with or even ever talk to a guy who uses violence on a woman.
He may not have liked showing ... (read in full...)
Tips on how to keep my relationship fresh, please
Q. I need a bit of advice as to how to keep my relationship fresh. I have been seeing wonderful man for two years now, we see each other for one or two days a week and it seems to have fallen into that routine where the excitement is going. Litt...
A. 31 March 2009: I think you just need to set yourself a night of the week as date night.
Every Thursday (or whenever), you both dress up and go out. Go for a meal, go to the cinema, go ice skating, take it in turns to find somewhere to go.
Inject some r... (read in full...)
Is he interested in me or not?
Q. I've been seeing my ex again for around six weeks. We broke up around 3 years ago because he had to train for two years for his job and it would be hard to keep in contact. Then I decided to contact him in September of last year on the net. We ...
A. 31 March 2009: I think you need to test this. He could be happy and just taking it really casually. He could be letting you take the lead so you don't feel rushed. He could not be that bothered about you. He could just assume that since you have been out in the ... (read in full...)
I don't know whats going on with him and I need help figuring this out before I go crazy.
Q. ok theres something going on between my fiance and i and i cant figure it out... we have been fighting for about 2-3 weeks now. we've been together for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. but some things are little as him chargeing xbox stuff to o...
A. 31 March 2009: I think this is one where you just need to talk to him.
It could be work stress. Also, get him checked for diabetes as it could be his blood sugar making him moody.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
She's married but openly flirts with me, what does she really want?
Q. please girls, I need your help and advice, I have this problem with a woman who is driving me crazy. She likes me, as it shows in her eyes, her words and her acts, she ia married by the way and I want to know what does she want exactly. She often ...
A. 31 March 2009: Ok, I think if you just disappear and back off then she would probably take the hint, but she may worry she has offended you and be a little upset.
The best thing to do in this situation is to be honest. Just tell her that you think you are gett... (read in full...)
How can I find someone to do what I want to sexually?
Q. So I'm a bi-curious 20 year old male, I had never been w/ a guy, and I'm not attracted emotionally to guys whatsoever, just to penises. Anyway, I went to a gay bar and found a guy and went home with him. There was almost an hour of handjobs and ...
A. 31 March 2009: Well you are lucky in that you are a guy, and as such you will find many many guys who don't want a relationship, they just want sex.
My advice is to just do what you did again.
Go to a gay bar, pull a guy, but while you are snogging in the ... (read in full...)
I'm engaged but unsure and events from the past make me wonder if I'm doing the right thing
Q. I feel really torn. I have just got engaged but I don't know if its the right thing to do. Last year my boyfriend and I planned to have a baby we talked about it and it seemed that it was what we both wanted, he was more keen than me, but I want a b...
A. 31 March 2009: This is a pretty big issue.
You've found out that he talks big but doesn't actually want any of it.
I would be worried not just about the baby issue but everything else too. Is he going to freak out when you book the church and want a "longer e... (read in full...)
Why do guys seem so shallow?
Q. question? why are good looking girls more like by guys then the plain looking girls. why are good looks and being slim and busty and young ,tall in height ,so important to guys why. i don,t understand why guys are so shallow and egoistic.tha...
A. 31 March 2009: It's just the way of the world that men will be attracted to attractive girls.
BUT you have to remember that all men find DIFFERENT things attractive.
In my view all women are beautiful in one way or another. You just have to work with what y... (read in full...)
Do you think chatting with people online is considered cheating?
Q. Do you think chatting with people you don't know online (like on adult friend finder" is considered cheating or almost cheating?...
A. 31 March 2009: Depends what you are chatting about.
If you are talking about the wildlife in your garden then no it is not cheating.
If they are flirting and there is a sexual theme to the conversations (I think the fact he is on adult friend is a big clue on... (read in full...)
Boyfriend became horrible after our breakup!
Q. Have you ever broken up with someone and had them turn really nasty??? I recently ended it with my bf of 5 years, telling him that I just don't feel the same way I once did. I care deeply for him and do love him, but not in that way anymore. It ...
A. 31 March 2009: You've really hurt him so he is going to be angry and quite understandably so.
You have broken the guys heart and given his pride a good kicking too.
He would normally do this nasty outburst on his own or to a friend but since you are there in... (read in full...)
She's married but openly flirts with me, what does she really want?
Q. please girls, I need your help and advice, I have this problem with a woman who is driving me crazy. She likes me, as it shows in her eyes, her words and her acts, she ia married by the way and I want to know what does she want exactly. She often ...
A. 31 March 2009: She probably just enjoys playing with you.
If you flirt back then she thinks you are enjoying playing too.
You know she is married, and she backs off when it goes too far so unfortunately she trusts you and thinks you are just having a bit of ... (read in full...)
I went into his myspace account and found out he's cheating
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and recently had suspicions of him cheating/flirting with other girls so i went on his myspace account to look at his messages (the ones only he can access) and he is cheating i want to end it now b...
A. 29 March 2009: He's cheating on you and won't even have the decency to admit it.
If you meet up with him and believe his lies then you are going to end up going out with losers and liars for the rest of your life.
You learn what to do in relationships wh... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do anymore.
Q. 2 years and my boyfrienddosnt talk to me anymore and we dont go out but he gos to strip clubs with his co workers. but he tells me we are fine....
A. 29 March 2009: Well he's fine.
If you are not then tell him to sort it out or you are leaving. If he won't change and treat you better then leave him.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What do "1st base", "2nd base" and "3rd base" mean???
Q. something i have always wondered, and never known the answer to, is when people talk about "1st base, 2nd base" etc?! you know when someone says "we went to 2nd base" .. what exactly IS 2nd base? iv always wondered, so if anyone wants to fill me...
A. 29 March 2009: Old guy has it right.
It's an american thing and comes from baseball which is basically like rounders.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is cheating the way of the world now?
Q. I was in a wonderful relationship for 5 years - complete trust and no infidelity. However, now that I am 'back in the game' I am noticing that most of my female friends are cheating on their partners. The most disturbing thing is that it appea...
A. 29 March 2009: Nope. Cheating is still bad. You just have weak or evil friends.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm turning 17 and my Dad treats me like I'm 10!
Q. hey.. what can i do when i hate my dad that i don't even want to talk to him or look at him!!! he treats me like shit, just because i turned off my phone to have a bit of fun he freaked out and sed i don't deserve a phone and i'm never going out ...
A. 29 March 2009: You can stop using phrases like "I hate him!" just because you have a minor argument with him. It makes you sound like a 10 year old.
If you turned your phone off then what was he supposed to think? You say it was to have a little fun, but if i... (read in full...)
Today I lost my virginity. Could I become pregnant?
Q. Hey. Today i lost my virginity. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. The strange thing is, it didn't hurt. I've always been told it's sore and i'll bleed but nope neither happened. Is something wrong with me ? And afterwards because...
A. 29 March 2009: I didn't bleed or feel pain either. It's because (as well as braking my hymen by riding bikes and climbing trees at a child) I waited till I was old enough and also had done all the other stuff lots of times to build up to sex. I guess you did the ... (read in full...)
Am I supposed to wait for him?
Q. hi, hope you can help im 18 and i really like this boy hes 18 too but hes just come out of a two year relationship and says he just wants to be casual at the minute with me , he still has pictures of his ex girlfriend on his phone and facebook...
A. 29 March 2009: Well he could have anything going through his head. The only person who can tell you his motive is him.
However, this is a very important rule to learn when getting past teenage dating and into adult life:
NEVER hang around hoping for them ... (read in full...)
Almost 21 and ready for a baby but my husband is not!
Q. im almost 21yrs old.i work at a daycare center in the infant room.so im arond babies all day!of course im going to love children!i absolutely love my job,and it just makes it so hard to be around babies when i am so desperate to have my own ...
A. 29 March 2009: I think you misunderstood my answer.
I said 1 year because you said you have been married just less than a year. Yes you have been together 5 years but he has only had you as his beautiful wife for less than 1 year.
As for the stealing sperm c... (read in full...)
Does anyone else experience this with their spouse or partner?
Q. When I was working in another job I used to earn an okay amount of money. My husband and I have a joint account and every month we would both put in £700 / mth that would then pay off all our bills for the month - ie mortgage, electricity, water, ...
A. 29 March 2009: I'm an army wife so the fact I actually pay my way in my marriage is really rare. Most women I know here think their job is to raise the kids and make the tea and the man goes out and brings home money. My husband actually got taken to one side and ... (read in full...)
I think my ex is stalking me but I don't get why?
Q. after getting out of an on and off verbally and sometimes physically abusive relationship that has gone on for 20 years and i where ive finally grown up and do not want to be abused anymore, i think my ex could possibly be stalking me now. i have ...
A. 29 March 2009: Who ever said it was about control was right, but obviously didn't understand enough to explain properly.
This guy has spent the last 20 years treating you like a punch bag to make himself feel like a man. Whenever he was angry, he could go to yo... (read in full...)
Sister in law is teasing and flirting, what's actually going on in her head?
Q. I need an answer please! My sister in law has been flirting with me and teasing me since me and her younger sister were engaged, she is 7 years older than my wife. She oftenly sends signs with her sister that I only understand, she makes erotic m...
A. 29 March 2009: She could well be jealous that her little sister got engaged first. She is the older one and so all the boys should be after her, not her gawky little sister.
She is probably just trying to boost her self esteem by telling herself that she coul... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't stop mentioning her ex!
Q. I've been going out with my gf for about 10 months now, and everything is going good, but she keeps bringing up her ex all the time, she keeps talking about things they used to do, and how he acted and stuff, but the one thing that threw me off ...
A. 29 March 2009: You just gently have to tell her that her talking about her ex all the time is NOT a good thing to do.
It sounds like she is not very experienced in love and so her ex is all she knows. That's why she keeps mentioning him.
But she has to learn... (read in full...)
Sister in law is teasing and flirting, what's actually going on in her head?
Q. I need an answer please! My sister in law has been flirting with me and teasing me since me and her younger sister were engaged, she is 7 years older than my wife. She oftenly sends signs with her sister that I only understand, she makes erotic m...
A. 29 March 2009: You are her new younger brother and I think she is probably just teasing you because she can. That is what big sisters do.
If you sit there and don't respond then she is going to know it bothers you and carry on.
If you just laugh and say "w... (read in full...)
I keep asking questions and its driving him crazy
Q. my boyfriend is 29 the kind of guy that doesnt like to be touched. and very quit.been together 2 years. met in a strip club. well i found out from one his co workers that he stoped careing for me 4 months ago and planing on moveing in augest and brak...
A. 29 March 2009: Well you can't just keep hanging around waiting for it to happen.
Move out. Leave him.
If he was going to do it then he will let you move on. If he does want to be with you and this guy was lying then he'll come after you.
Either that or ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't have "those feelings"
Q. Hi, I am curious if a guy really digs you and spends all his free time with you, and doesn't see other women, and there is lots of good loving sex, and has talked about the future ect... but then sez he does'nt have 'those' feelings, what does it ...
A. 29 March 2009: He is in a friends with benefits relationship with you.
That means he is your friend, and he likes to have sex with you.
It is highly likely that he will never have feelings for you and will never want you as a girlfriend. He just sees... (read in full...)
Told my best friend I liked him to be told GUTTED!
Q. i've liked my best friend for about a year now and last night we all went out. I realised i left my phone in the car so my friend lets call him mike and i went to the car. On the way he randomly mentioned a text that i sent him years ago tell...
A. 29 March 2009: I would be hurt.
That is not exactly a nice reply. He may not have meant it in that way but let him explain that to you if not.
Just don't talk with him for a while and if he comes after you to check things are ok then you can tell him "It's n... (read in full...)
I went into his myspace account and found out he's cheating
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and recently had suspicions of him cheating/flirting with other girls so i went on his myspace account to look at his messages (the ones only he can access) and he is cheating i want to end it now b...
A. 29 March 2009: Why do you care about if he knows you snooped?
He'll be your ex and he can think what he likes.
Tell him you know he's cheating and it's over and then cut contact. It doesn't really matter how you found out. Just tell him you know about him a... (read in full...)
My friends say someday we'll be on the same page
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating 8 months now. We knew there was this huge connection from the moment we met. It was one of those chemistry things. From the day we met pretty much acted like we were dating. He got jealous at a party we were at on ...
A. 29 March 2009: You can't worry about this.
It's in the future.
You have to trust to fate and think that if you are meant to be together then you will be.
Then just carry on and be a supercool relaxed girlfriend and make him see how great you are.
Good L... (read in full...)
Almost 21 and ready for a baby but my husband is not!
Q. im almost 21yrs old.i work at a daycare center in the infant room.so im arond babies all day!of course im going to love children!i absolutely love my job,and it just makes it so hard to be around babies when i am so desperate to have my own ...
A. 29 March 2009: Having a child that you can buy gifts for and then hand back is not nearly the same as having one that bites your nipples and will NOT stop crying at 4am when you have to be at work at 8.
Your husband probably likes the idea of having money, b... (read in full...)
| *milysanswers's friends
These are mutual friends, so *milysanswers has
added them and they have added *milysanswers!
|
