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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello, a guy I'd known through acquaintances messaged me on facebook just over a week ago. We hit it off, and he asked me out for a drink. It went really well, he's lovely and conversation was easy and interesting. He kissed me at the end, and I felt loads of chemistry! We've been talking for a few days, still getting on brilliantly and he keeps doing nice things like suggesting stuff for me to watch that I might enjoy. I'm failry sure he's interested, but the subject of a second date hasn't been broached. Should I ask? Should I hint? Should I just wait and see? I really like this guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2012): Thanks guys, I took the plunge and hinted at it. Seen him today and had a great time :D
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (18 October 2012):
 Depends on the guy. In general the guy initiates the date. First off because this is the standard procedure, secondly because it's a good indication of his interest in you. If a guy likes a girl he goes get her... if he doesn't then he wasn't that into her. That's often how it goes. Few guys sit around and wait for the girl to ask them out, it's pretty standard that the guy is the initiator.
However, there are exceptions. You might be dealing with someone who is shy. In that case, if you're sure he's just too shy to ask you out again, you could initiate it subtly. But, if he's not a particularly shy guy I'd say just give him time to get around to it. It's just been about a week.. Tons of guys tend to wait until the weekends before they give date-plans any thought. Depends on his job, of course, but guys are in general constructed to do one thing at a time. Week: work modus. Weekend: oh, I had someone who wanted to go on a date with me? Ooops, better get around to it then...
Just give him some time to gather himself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2012): You should definitely ask him, just say ohh we should watch that together when he suggests things to watch and if he says yes ask him when? you have got to show interest too, when i first started dating my now boyfriend i asked him if he fancied going for lunch just to show I'm interested too.
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