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26-29,
anonymous
writes:The other day I lent a condom to my friend who was going to have intercourse for the first time and when he came back he said it was too small and had to buy a larger one. I know it shouldn't affect me but it seems to bother me. The condom fits ok in girth but is long in length for me. My friend made me feel small and for some reason I can't get over it.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 October 2012):
 I once loaned a bra to a friend who complained that it was way too small. Turns out she stuffed her bra and was putting me down to make herself feel better.
Unless you buy XS condoms, I highly doubt your friend actually needed bigger ones. I was once with a guy who was 9" long and normal condoms fit him just fine. My guess is your friend didn't have sex like he thought he was going to, was feeling embarrassed, and was trying to make you feel bad to make himself feel better. Also can you remember the first time you tried to put one on? It probably was a little tricky. He may have been feeling frustrated that he was struggling and wanted to make you feel bad.
Also most women have no idea where this thing with guys and giant penises comes from. Porn maybe? In general women don't like giant ones. The average length of a woman's vagina is only 6-7". If it reaches the end it hits the cervix and feels like being punched in the stomach. Nauseating and painful, not good. Not to mention vaginas are erogenous zones at best. It is NOT where we get pleasure from, penises are not central to female pleasure.
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female
reader, shrodingerscat +, writes (22 October 2012):
 The size of your penis has very little to do with female satisfaction. Since women usually can only reach orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation, and during PIV intercourse, the penis doesn't stimulate the clitoris, your penis size doesn't matter.
So, there's no need to worry that you're not "big enough" to satisfy your future partners. Your oral sex skills and knowledge of female anatomy and sexual response will be much more important.
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female
reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 Hey, he was going to do it for the first time, and he was too chicken to buy condoms himself. You're the one who had to help him out...
Besides, it was his first time, he probably had no clue how to put it on correctly. Or he just lied to you. I mean come on, if he was going to have sex, he wouldn't just jump out of bed, run to the store to get condoms. He probably used the condom on himself without having sex, and then needed to get new ones. I mean really.. If he so easily could go an buy condoms he'd not have asked you for any to begin with, right? So something tells me this whole "buy new condoms" thing is a lie, and he never went to get other condoms. Maybe he didn't even have sex, and this is someting he says to excuse himself.
You got to be abnormally big for a regular condom not to fit. If he actually IS that big then most women are not going to enjoy having sex with him, which will suck for him. So.. don't worry too much about this.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 October 2012):
 If I had a nickel for every time I lent one of my condos to a buddy.... and he told me that the darn thing was too small for his manhood.... I'd be one very well-to-do man!!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 You know what who is to say that he was telling the truth? Sometimes a guy lets his ego get in the way even in a friendship and they try to make out that they are more than what they are. Maybe this is the case, and maybe not. But even still everybody is different shapes and sizes so please get this out of your head and don't compare yourself to anybody else.
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