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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

We're both new to this and now I'm confused about what he actually thinks!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - Me and my bf are both 16, we ve been going out for 4 months. Recently things have started to get alot more physical, previously when storys of other people we know doing stuff have come up he would say that they're too young. Last week he was lying ...

She informed me after the fact that I was her first, now she's avoiding me! I don't know what I did wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - I met this girl and i thought she was really nice, we became friends and things moved on from there. After a few months she says she's ready to have sex. After she tells me it was her first time, and i thought it was cool that she chose me. But af...

I don't want to lose my boyfriend because of sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - I cant have sex with my boyfriend becose am still a virgin, and cant make him cum thru blow job. .wot should i do,i dont want to lose him to other gurl becos of sex....

She got with me for a bet.. now she really likes me but how can I believe her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - Back in September I went to a church dance with a really nice girl. The dance was at another church and there was a whole bunch of us going back to our church in a van. Most of us fell asleep. Well the girl I went with was asleep in the seat ...

Still bleeding 3 days after losing my virginity!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5348 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - hellow there, the thing is im kinda confused right now. i lost my virginity 3 days ago , and im still bleeding right. i dont know how normal is this, and i dont know if the virgin blood could have got mixed with my period blood, because im EXTRE...

What is stopping my boyfriend having sex with me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

29 March 2010 (?) - Hello everyone, My partner and I have been together for three years now and he has still not had sex with me. I am a virgin and he has had a lot of past experiences. However, a year ago I felt ready to have sex so I let him know only for h...

I'm going to lose my virginity but my boyfriend is really big and I am worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I read from one post before that a girl having very horrible experience when she lost virginity to her bf who having a 9" penis and felt like vagina split into two. I worry I will face the same situation as my bf slightly more than 8.5" and thick in ...

Help! Problems with sex!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have tried several times to have sex but we are both virgins and dont know what to do. First time we tried we spent half an hour trying to find the 'spot' but it would always slip out. Can this happen because of nerves? Can yall ...

I am sexually active and the guiltiness wont go away

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - im 15 and i love my boyfriend i know he truely loves me because he demonstrates it every day with his actions.We've had sex several times but i feel very guilty afterwards because i feel like im letting myself and my mom down.Im a catholic and my ...

Am I being old fashioned? Is sex is necessary when it comes to relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - i had a bf,a very first bf. he asked for sex.when i refused immediately he cursed me and said i'm boring and old fashion. i talked to my friend.they said it's my fault for reject his offer. she said it's normal to have sex when they're in relat...

My boyfriend doubts my virginity!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - my boyfriend doubts that am not a virgin when i was a virgin before having sex with my boyfriend. my growth is faster according to my age. so can faster growth be a reason for losing the virginity...

My boyfriend is sexually shy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5350 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - Heyy everyone i really need help! ]= okay so i been with my boyfriend for about 3 months and he was a virgin while he was with me until yesterday when he gave it up to me. but he wasnt my first and he knows that we'll anyways i love oral sex!! an...

My bestfriend is mad at me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

27 March 2010 (F) - my best friend is mad at me cause i like her ex boyfriend that broke up with her cause she cheated on him..... what sould i do?...

Fiancee lied about being a virgin, how can I let her down gently so she can find someone of the same mindset?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 March 2010 (M) - Hai, il go straight to the point. My fiancee lied to me that she was a virgin, am 27 years and i kept my virginity she told me she slept with 10 guys and i dont i can marry her. How do i let her go gently so that she can find some else with her same ...

Should I stay celibate until I meet someone worthy enough to be in a serious relationship/marry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - I'm single now. My ex and I broke up because of his retroactive jealousy, he was starting to treat me like I was, literally, a bitch, sometimes I felt like he saw me like an animal and not a person. He was so cruel and mean. Funny enough, ...

1st Time Questions 2

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

26 March 2010 (M) - I am the same guy from yesterday's post 1ST TIME QUESTIONS(Today me and my girlfriend(we both virgins) had to go to a date for sex 1st time in 2 and a half year relationship. I asked about condoms, pills, protection etc). I want to thank all the ...

Made a mistake losing my virginity -- will a guy who wants someone pure ever love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

26 March 2010 (F) - Well i am a 17 year old girl who made the mistake of losing her virginity to someone she isnt going to spend her life with.I regret it and now i dont know how my future husband will take it and have fear he wont love me the same way as if i were a ...

I know I'm too young for sex, so what should I do to get it out of my system??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

25 March 2010 (F) - I am 14 and I can't stop thinking about sex. I know that I'm too young and don't want to risk getting pregnant. my parents r very strict n would never let me buy a vibrator. what should I do?...

Am I gay/straight/bi or confused?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 March 2010 (M) - hello, i am 20 year old guy, and a virgin =/ it appears i no longer consider myself straight since i had 2 incidents (not sexually but the way that you feel about someone you just met and you want to spent every hour of your time with him), tha...

First time questions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

25 March 2010 (M) - Hi I am 21 years old. Tomorrrow, me and my girlfriend are going to have sex for the 1st time in our 2 and a half years relationship. So here are a few questions I want help with from experienced people: 1. How hard or gentle should I be with her...

I am afraid I will give in to sex for fear of being lonely forever.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

24 March 2010 (F) - im very scared to date. im a 19 year old virgin who is lonely bu i think i suffer from low self esteem. i had one bf in highschool he broke up with me cuz we didnt sleep together n lied about sleepin with me that has caused me major trust issues cuz ...

Why do I get these naughty feelings about him?!??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

23 March 2010 (F) - Okay so theres this guy who makes me go completely mad! I am 16 and in 5th year and hes 12 or 13. He is in 1st year. He walks with my brother to school every morning. I've never ever spoke to him and he has only smiled at me. I've never been ...

Help!!! Am I still a virgin... or not???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

23 March 2010 (F) - I am 18 but when I was 15 I had a bf who tried 2 make luv 2 me but he didn't enter, I bled a bit, he tried it over 6 times sometimes I bled, sometimes I didn't. I am worried coz I don't know if I am still a virgin. I was dating both A and B but B ...

How can I ever trust someone ever again after what she did to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

22 March 2010 (M) - i was dating this girl for a while, but she hooked up with somone else, got pregnant,and basically started pretending i didnt exist. she ignored all my textes,and didnt answer her phone when i called. we were extremely close and my question is, feel...

He said he will wait for me but I'm not sure if I like the fact that he smokes and drinks now, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5358 days ago

22 March 2010 (F) - Me and Jack, we dated for a year in elementry and I have to move and so I have talked to him in 2 years and today we finally talked. He's in 8th grade and I'm in 7th he told me he had started smoking and drinking. But we both like each other a whole ...

I'm still a virgin at 18, should I be putting myself out there a bit more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

22 March 2010 (M) - well, the thing is im just 18 and im still a virgin, and all my mates as far as i know have done it. im worried about being one of those guys who doesnt loose it until im in my late 20`s early 30`s. i know people are going to say "dont do it for ...

How do I stop this heart of mine from loving such a cruel person? It hurts every day.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5357 days ago

22 March 2010 (F) - Where do I begin. I'm even scared to start, because this means I will have to remember all he has done to me. I can't talk to my friends about it, because he was such a jerk, that I am expected to by all of them to be so over him already. Let me ...

Should I admit to my husband that I was not a virgin when we married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

21 March 2010 (F) - I have been married for a long time now and I am feeling guilty. When we met my husband asked me if I was a virgin I lied and said yes. I have only been with one other man and there is no way he will ever find out. If I tell him I am afraid I ...

Would it be ok to break my own hymen before having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

21 March 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, This may be a silly question, but I don't know if there`s a possibly for losing my virginity, actually, for intense breaking my hymen by myself using something in place of an actual dildo. I've never had sex, but I want to have a f...

Am I still a virgin if he pulled out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

20 March 2010 (F) - im 18 and have been with been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months and recently he tried to have sex with me but i said i was scared and he pulled it out do it did not break my hymen. MY question is am i being cruel? Do you think he loves me ...

Is virginty that important?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

17 March 2010 (F) - My friends make me feel like still being a virgin is something to be ashamed of. most if not all have had sex before and whenever they bring it up they always make it sound like whoever hasn't yet is either ugly or an outcast...it's not like i ...

I'm trying to keep my virginity but my 19 year old boyfriend really wants sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

17 March 2010 (F) - Im a young teenager trying to keep my virginity, although my boyfriend respects my decision but it kills him, im 15 and his 19,what should i do becouse i really love him ...

I want my friends to understand

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5363 days ago

17 March 2010 (F) - I'm 3 months into the age of 15 years and I've had a boyfriend since August but we broke up in January. He's 17 and I've known him since June 2009, if you're wondering. Ever since the week after we first broke up, we immediately began talking ...

I'm a mess (gay, straight, virgin, everything)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

16 March 2010 (M) - I am a total mess and at this point I'm question all my feelings, goals and sexuality. I am 30, very handsome, a virgin. I am physically attracted to very good looking guys and for the last few years I had excepted that I'm gay. The problem is, I ...

14 and may be pregnant. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

15 March 2010 (F) - I'm 14 and just lost my virginity one week ago. My boyfriend and I didn't use a condom. I was suppose to have my period this week but it hasn't came yet. Is this normal or may I be pregnant? I don't think he cum inside me but I'm not sure because it ...

How can I make my vagina tighter? My boyfriend thinks I was not a virgin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

15 March 2010 (F) - hiii!!i am linda!!my bf says that my vagina was loose wen we had sex for the first time..!!!he jus suspects me a lot tat i mite hav had sex before and that i m not a virgin wen i slept wid him:(...!!but im sure that i dint hav sex before:(...

Should I let him take my virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

14 March 2010 (F) - Right I really need help! I just turned 18 and I really want to lose my virginity but I don't/ never have had a boyfriend... I'm not sure why and alot of people think I'm lying when I say I'm a virgin (mainy becuase of my huge 34J boobs) b...

Should I have sex with my boyfriend? I don't know if I'm ready.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

14 March 2010 (F) - Ok so i am a person who think that is wonderful. But yet i am still a virgin. I dont know what it is but i want sex so bad. Some people tell me that if i have to think about then i am not ready. Because me and my boyfriend have been together for ...

We are both virgins. When is the right time to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

13 March 2010 (F) - I'm in my first relationship now (I sort of fell into it by chance), though it is long distance at the moment. We've been officially dating for about 8 months now, but sort of had something going on a while before. He's the only person I fully ...

I can't get it out of my head that he's lost his virginity to someone else. How can I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

13 March 2010 (F) - hey :) well im 15 and so is my boyfriend and we were plaining on loseing are virgenity to each other next year when were 16. But i just found out he had sex over winter break. We were not dateing at that time but it still upsets me thinking thats ...

I want to stay a virgin until marriage but what's the use!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

12 March 2010 (M) - I would really like to stay a virgin until I'm married but it doesn't seem like there are any virgin girls left so whats the point? The whole chastity thing really doesn't work unless both people are in on it. It's all just really irritating 22 ...

First time sex hurt so much we could not go through with it and now I am afraid to try again. How can we overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

12 March 2010 (F) - So i recently tried to have sex for the first time, and it didn't work out at all. I was ready and willing, my boyfriend and i were foreplayin like for hours, and actually i wasnt nervous at all, the problem was that my vaginal opening was too small ...

Had sex with my step brother then he got mad when he found out I was a virgin!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

11 March 2010 (F) - Ok I am not here so people can say rude things I am just need a little advice form OPEN MINDED people. My step brother is 10 yrs older then me. (We have the same dad). I am 18 and he is 28. He recently moved back home because him and his gf broke up...

I'm worried I might be pregnant after I lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 3 weeks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

11 March 2010 (F) - hey, so I've been with my boyfriend for 3weeks now and we are falling for each other fast. But I think I'm pregnant and I'm scared that this will ruin things because it's so soon. I was a virgin when I got with him and I lost my virginity to him t...

In a maze of guys who love me, who do I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5368 days ago

11 March 2010 (F) - hey all,4 yrs ago i found this man,we were good frnds,and i started falling in love with him, i finally told him and he said he just cant do it,he hadnt even touched me too, we were quite close and i was damn sure he had nobody in his life. after ...

Would guys like a 19 year old virgin. Or would the innocence drive them away?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

10 March 2010 (?) - How many people like me still a virgin? I mean as far as age goes..I'm not ashamed of it but here where I live there's very few girls who remain virgins. Reason being I just haven't found the right guy yet. I also wonder do guys usually like ...

What is the best sex position to lose your virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

10 March 2010 (F) - what is the best sex postition to lose your virginity? i just dont know what to do and how to do it can someone please help me...

She said she doesn't feel anything when she's with a man but insists she's NOT lesbian!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (F) - ok here's the deal, I'm 44 years old divorced with kids. I have a friend, she's 36 and she's still a virgin and she doesn't have a boyfriend and hasn't for a few years, I think ever since she was about 26. This is one of my best friends. A lot of ...

Need help to break a barrier...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

9 March 2010 (M) - I need help! I'm experienced with girls like kissing, talking, but not sex, when it comes to sex i know nothing about it, im an inexperienced virgin. Im a senior in high school and this is my last shot. I've known this girl since we were growing up, ...

Is my penis too small to have sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

5 March 2010 (M) - hey me and my girlfriend have planned to have sex next weekend but my penis is only 5.5 inches long what should i do ...