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Why do I get these naughty feelings about him?!??

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Question - (23 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *arahJedward writes:

Okay so theres this guy who makes me go completely mad! I am 16 and in 5th year and hes 12 or 13. He is in 1st year. He walks with my brother to school every morning. I've never ever spoke to him and he has only smiled at me. I've never been attracted to younger guys and find it a turn off. Even a few months and its a turn off.

Like whats happening? Whenever I see him I want to pounce on him. Like I am a virgin and he makes me wanna do bad things! Its very weird, even I know that! I would never go out with him because everyone would think Im a perve! Why am I feeling these feelings about him?

Confused Sarah.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2010):

Age does not matter you are only three years older than this boy. These feelings are natural. He sexualy stimulates your for some reason whether it be looks to personality. The way he dresses could matter its an unconcious decision our mind makes for us. Is he your "style" dare i say? Does he look older? You are not a perve for liking him. Just keep your hands to yourself untill you know he feels the same for you. Tell him you have feeling for him do not specify those feelings but tell him your intrest. may i warn you that he is younger you may need to rephrase certain things

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A female reader, YourDestiny11 United States +, writes (24 March 2010):

YourDestiny11 agony auntwell u may be having these feelings because your a virgin. most virgins find it easier to have sex their first time with someone less intimidating. my best advice is to move on and dont even try to start something there. good luck.

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A female reader, EbonyBlossom United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2010):

EbonyBlossom agony auntMaybe he's just been really nice to you, and sometimes we just fall for those who give us the most attention.

Spend some more time with and get closer to more guys your own age and you'll probably forget about your brother's friend before long =]

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