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writes:im 18 and have been with been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months and recently he tried to have sex with me but i said i was scared and he pulled it out do it did not break my hymen. MY question is am i being cruel? Do you think he loves me for pulling out like that? Am i still a virgin?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): no
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reader, Daisy Doo  +, writes (20 March 2010):
 No your not being cruel, you were simply scared and he accsepted it how is that cruel?!
Of course if he realy loved you befor then yes he does still love you. You need to talk tell him when you do want to have sex you need to talk first tell him why you were scared.
And it does not matter witch ever you are, if you want to be a virgin then you can be one if not then not, it does not matter does it, whos cares I am a virgin who cares!!
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2010): You're not being cruel, you got scared and wanted to stop that's your right, never do anything if you don't want to and you CAN stop at ANY time. Just because he pulled out does not mean he loves you though, that's just him respecting your wishes. No you are not a virgin anymore, penis in vagina= no more virgin, no matter how far in or how long he was inside you. Always be safe and use protection...the pull out method does NOT prevent pregnancy, I know from experience.
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