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writes:I met this girl and i thought she was really nice, we became friends and things moved on from there. After a few months she says she's ready to have sex. After she tells me it was her first time, and i thought it was cool that she chose me. But after that things started to go downhill from there, she started ignoring my calls and avoiding me and now i hardly see her now. I don't know what to do because i really like her and thought it was all going well, I can't understand what I did wrong or how to get her to talk to me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 If she won't talk to you on the phone or in person I would send her a letter. Maybe that will give you a little sense of "closure" and her a little nudge to talk to you.
Could be she regretted it. Could be someone told her something about you she didn't know and didn't like. You may never know.
If she doesn't respond to your letter I strongly suggest you let it go. Let her go. All you can do is try.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): Maybe she chose you to be her first since she cared for you and might think of you as a gentlemen. She probably knew she was going to loose it anyways and was just caution not to give it up to a complete jerk. She might think this, she might think that in fairness we won't know what she think you gave it a try, she doesn't answer your calls move on. I do think she gave you something precious and just keep it as a wonderful memory and close that chapter in your life.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (31 March 2010):
 who knows who cares when a girl starts putting you through this its time to move on your not DR Phil so so stop trying to figure this chick out maybe shell fly in on her magic cloud and explain everything maybe not, stop driving your self crazy over it you got her virginity add one more notch to your totem pole and keep it moving. She probably lied about the whole virgin think to though.
The way i see it this girl doesnt give a sht about you she just left you high and dry, so forgetabout her.
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