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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have tried several times to have sex but we are both virgins and dont know what to do. First time we tried we spent half an hour trying to find the 'spot' but it would always slip out. Can this happen because of nerves? Can yall give me some pointers on what to do to calm down?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2010): I agree. Y'all need to figure eachother out a little better first. The first time is awkward no matter who you are, so don't get frustrated with eachother. If y'all are ready it will be fine. it sounds like maybe he's at a funny angle too. Keep it simple. Let him get on to and tilt your pelvis up a bit toward him. You should line up better, but if that doesnt work than you get on top. You'll figure it out. Just be sure to wrap up because yes, you can get pregnant on the first time!
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (29 March 2010):
 This can happen to anyone. My advice is to foreplay(let him go down on u and u go down on him) before having sex, it will give u a chance to get to know eachothers bodies and warm up.
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