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writes:Me and my bf are both 16, we ve been going out for 4 months. Recently things have started to get alot more physical, previously when storys of other people we know doing stuff have come up he would say that they're too young. Last week he was lying on me, we were kissing when he put his hand in my pants and touched me down then, it felt good at the time but then I felt guilty. I'm now confused about what he actually thinks, i'm the first girl he's done anything with so I know he's not a player
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): Ask him if he thinks you two are to young and if you are uncomfortable with his behavior tell him so! Is he your first as well? If so be VERY careful sex makes things very complicated and can even end your relationship.
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reader, HondaTohru +, writes (31 March 2010):
 Maybe what he says does reflect what he thinks, but things got a little out of contol and he went farther than he would have wanted... Anyhow, you should have a talk about it and set some boundaries if you feel the need to.
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reader, Tasmanian devil  +, writes (31 March 2010):
 He probably thinks you guys are getting sexual (not neccesarily sex, but sexual contact), maybe he thought those people were to immature, or didn't want to give you the impression he wants to get physical if you don't want to.
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