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Archived questions from: June, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is this normal to feel upset after sex or a hook up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - I had sex for the first time this week with a guy who is three years older then me. I really liked it and he was so sweet about it but we aren't dating and there are storys of him being a player but I let him do it anyways. It's been two days since ...

Still a virgin at 19. Should I just lose it or wait for that "special one"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5272 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Im 19 and still a virgin. This is really getting to me in a really bad way now. I dont really know what it is thats making me worry, i just keep thinking one morning i'll wake up and find that im like 40 years old and still in the same situation. Im ...

Wedding night tips for a frightened virgin needed, please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

29 June 2010 (?) - Hi everyone! I have a bit of a problem that's kind of pathetic but is really troubling me. I'm getting married to my fiancé, who I've been with for 4 years, and we both are virgins. I'm terrified of having sex for the first time with him, because ...

Very confident, but one area, not so much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - Well im a virgin and im 17, i grew up in an enviroment where sex was around me everywhere i went and i came to know alot of things about it. Growing up all i could gather from females conversations about sex was they were only interested in one ...

Did he leave because I was disrespectful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - This is a long one, but please bare with me. About two months ago, I 'gave myself away' to a strange guy I barely knew (for LESS than ONE day. Can you believe that ? :-/). I met him at the park around the corner from my house. My friend and I had we...

What does the pain of first time sex compare to so I know what to expect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5285 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - hey everyone, im 17 and my boyfriend wants to have sex, it would be my first time, i ready the only thing i worry about it the pain... what does the pain compare to so i know what to espect?...

18 is it good? too... you know ... :)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - so im 18 a virgin think got a date round mine this wed and some reason i think im ready.. if i do.. to have sex with him.. but... lol.. 18 a good age isnt it?.. cause i nver wanted to do it earlier cause i had pals who lost it at like 13 and im l...

If he can't even finger me, how can we have sex??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - ok, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a long time and we have decided that we want to have sex. the problem is that I'm still a vergin and i know its going to hurt. we both have talked about it, and we thought it would be a good idea for ...

How do I help my brother get over his first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - my little brother just confided to me that he lost his virginity on a fling with a semi stranger that he actually thought might lead to a relationship. He's royally gutted and depressed right now and i don't really know how to comfort him. I think ...

I am a virgin and don't know how to woo her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - I dont know when we get intimite, we do all the stuff with eachother , but she doesnt allows me to do sex,i dont know when she gets turn on and when she gets turn off I am really confused , coz this is hamperring my relationship, one more problem ...

Is there something wrong with me if I fantasise about sex all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - hi im a 14 yr old girl im about to turn 15 in a few weeks.i've been feeling really horny these days and i dont know why.everything reminds me of sex.im really embarassed by it.i fantasise about sex and me having sex with my boyfriend and what it ...

Went too far on the first date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - I recently left an abusive young man that I had been dating for 3 years, because he had cheated on me several times and would try and pressure me to sleep with him. I'm young, only 18, and still a virgin, I never gave in to his demands. Soon after I ...

Should I wait or save myself

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - I am a 24 year old guy. I have never had a serious relationship in my life. I have a feeling 98 percent of guy my age have already had sex. I never have. I have tried to wait for something serious but I honestly have never been treated right by ...

What's the deal? Is he using me or are there feelings there?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - Okay so I've been talking to this guy for about four months. We get along great, he's a couple years older than me and has tons more experience. I'm still a virgin and this guy was only my second kiss. He says he doesn't want a relationship because ...

How do I tell them I'm not a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - Hi, I would like to know your opinions and what I should do, I am 15 year old girl I am secretly engaged to my boyfriend and we have had sex many times, i am finding it very difficult to tell my parents that I have had sex so how would I tell them ...

How can she tell if a boy is a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

27 June 2010 (M) - My girl friend just told me dat she is still a virgin and would love to marry a virgin guy like her, i luv her so much i don`t want to loss her. Making the relationship last for a life time has been our quest,but i am confused because, i don't know ...

Help! I'm afraid there's some physically wrong with me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 June 2010 (M) - hey. I wanted to ask is it natural for 16yo virgin boy, after getting an erection twice in 40min. period, not to get fully erected again when there's naked girl laying beside you and you're touching her? Because it has happened to me and I think ...

Are all guys superficial?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - I'm 17 this year; I'm fat but not disgustingly obese, don't have a pretty face and very self-conscious deep down. The thing is, I'm very confident and most people look at me as the hyper and bubbly one who brightens up everyone's day but inside, I ...

Will I ever find anyone, male or female, who loves me for who I am?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - Heyy, Well the thing is I'm a really self-conscious person, I hide myself a lot (mostly my face) and I freak out when I'm standing with or next to a boy or a girl (I'm Bisexual) I know I'm not pretty, and I hate it when person tell me otherwise...

Small penis hurt but no pain for large penis when lost virginity

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5265 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - My best friend try to lost her virginity to her bf about a month ago but failed due to she is in a lot of pain but her bf just has an average size penis. I am very sad that she was rapped by a man with very large penis 2 days ago. He can enter her ...

Too shy to have sex because I'm worried about the size of my penis...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

26 June 2010 (M) - Hi. I'm 16yo. My penis is something like 5.7 - 6in long when erect. I'm still virgin.. I had maybe 7 chances to have a sex with girls but I didn't do it because I'm too shy and I don't want to get embarrassed when they see my small penis. I know ...

Our past choices are causing big problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months and I work to have a relationship based on honesty.. we are both 25 yet we've had very different pasts. He was a virgin when we met, and I've been with several people. He has never tried drugs, while I have experimented in ...

Does masturbation affect virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

26 June 2010 (F) - when i do the secret happit, does that may affect my virginity cause iam getting maried after few months and i must be virgin ? and how can i knew or be sure...

Could I have lost my virginity and gotten pregnant at the same time?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - okay so i am 17 and i lost my virginity thursday like 3 in the morning in the pool and it didnt hurt at all, but, it was only in me for like 3 minutes and when he pushed me away i looked down , and he had nutted. im sooo scared idk anything about ...

I'm afraid to have intercourse

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - I am 27 years old and married for year and half. i am scared to have intercourse with my husband. he is a wonderful man and very patient and totally understands and i love him. i know it is not right to keep him waiting. also i surely want to have ...

Do I tell him that I'm not a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

25 June 2010 (F) - I just want to ask dat im nt a virgin, should i tell my boy friend about my secret b'coz we r planning to get married.Sometimes, i feel dat i should tell him the truth b'coz i feel embarrace dat i m not loyal to him.. Plz suggest me. Thanx.....

She's a virgin. Will she get used to foreplay over time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

24 June 2010 (M) - Okay I have a few questions, I dated a girl not to long back that I lost my virginity to, she was a whore so I never really liked sleeping with her, but because of that fast, I got really good at using my fingers on her and bringing her to a gushing ...

Amnesia stole four years of my life and what I am learning of my boyfriend now, is not promising.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - right this is quite complicated and long so please bear with me i need advice. In April of this year i ended up in hospital having had a seizure, it turned out i had a small blood clot on my brain. the main side effect was that i got retro grade ...

I tried to give him my virginity, but couldn't. Now he won't text me anymore!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - hi, i am chelsea... well i went to my friends house and i met her cousin jake. we had been talking for the past month on myspace but we really hadnt met. he seemed very sweet and he used to txt me everyday first. well we talked about the day i was ...

Why does he say I am difficult and how can I stop being attracted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5294 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - ok so there is this guy i think i like not sure if its my mind playing tricks on me but i have liked him for the whole of 2009. i dont want be with him becuz of his past and he knows this. but the physical attraction is incredibly strong between us. ...

Should I pursue him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

24 June 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I'd like to know how people think about this topic: sex lol I recently lost my virginity to a man I thought I loved but, we're going nowhere so I walked away...I met another man (fake name Jay) and both times we've seen each other, the ...

I'm scared he may be using me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

23 June 2010 (F) - I'm 14. 15 in 2 weeks. I have a boyfriend. I've been seeing him for 2 weeks. We have already done a LOT. I just found out he's had sex before and i'm still a virgin. I'm scared he's just using me. Help me. Please. ...

Should I ask my friend to take my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

22 June 2010 (M) - Hi everyone. I've just turned 22 and I'm still very much a virgin. The most I've ever done with a girl is a snog and those don't come around very often. I'm not particularly embarrassed about my v-plates, I hardly keep it a secret, but the ...

Is he still a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

21 June 2010 (F) - So the other nite I had sex with a virgin...When we were doing it I felt kind of bad bcuz I wasnt a virgin. Knowing that I was taking his virginity was bad enough so I punkt out and stopped after while...So is he still a virgin?(if he didn't cum)...

Does he want a relationship or just sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

20 June 2010 (F) - Hi, so i'm in a relationship with this lad about 100 miles away, and i go to where he lives about 7 times a year and love him so much. Ive always liked him for two years but never thought we could have a relationship, as when i have asked in th...

Why might a virgin not bleed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

20 June 2010 (F) - I am a girl of 19yrs,i meet a boy of 29yrs whom i hv being dating for 2years.recently he has being making life unbearable 4 me because there was no spill of blood or pains as he was the first man i ever had sexual intercourse with.so,what causes a ...

Should I give her my virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

19 June 2010 (M) - my girlfriend isn't a virgin but i am. she wants me to have sex with her. i don't know what to do....

Nervous about first-time sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

18 June 2010 (M) - Ok, so this is a question to guys and girls. I am 18, and still a virgin. I have this fear when I am going to get to the moment of having sex, I'll be too excited and cum too quick (maybe even before sex starts?) idk, help me out, does that happen? ...

My friend doesn't want me to go to strip clubs but why???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

18 June 2010 (M) - Hi i have a question... the situation is my friend gets mad when i go to the strip club... im a virgin but i still go for lap dances... there's strippers that would have sex with me though or at least a bJ and some werent even going to charge.. ...

He accuses me of having lost it with someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

18 June 2010 (F) - dear cupid me and my boyfriend having been going out now for a couple of months he's my first boyfriend i never had one before he nice sweet and loving to me.well yesterday we decided to have sex like he knows it my first time he's my first ..so ...

I'm 25 and a virgin, I don't want to abandon my morals but I'm feeling so frustrated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

18 June 2010 (F) - I'm 25 and still a virgin I'm so fed up really feel like i'm going to die this way. I don't go out much so I find it really difficult to meet someone. I've chatted online to some guys and some I really like but they seem to be after just one t...

I'm confused, does he love me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

18 June 2010 (M) - hi peeps :) First of all Im 18 and Bisexual.. So there is this guy (hes 17) who I met in Facebook I added him because I was looking for a new friend around my area (we just moved in) and also I want to be more fluet in English. we meet up and i can ...

He wants to have sex with me... to practice!!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

17 June 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm a 17 year old straight girl, and recently one of my male friends, who is gay, was telling me about how it's common for gay guys to have sex with their female friends sort of as 'practice'... He didn't directly ask me but I'm inferrin...

Is it normal for your period to be late after losing your virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost 8 months now. I lost my virginity to him around June 1st, and we have had protected and unprotcted sex a few times since then, but he never came or pre ejaculated. My periods are always on ...

I think losing my virginity ruined my life! Please help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 June 2010 (F) - i had sex for the first time, and i loved him and i thought he loved me, but i guess not he used me and its been about 7 months sence then. i wasnt ready but he talked me into it, i cry myself asleep because of him. and now i feel like a whore, and ...

Help! My religious beliefs prevent pre-marital sex and my boyfriend's demands are so scary!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

17 June 2010 (F) - hey The guy he loves me he is not from my country,,,well i luv him and he luv me alot he said 2 me he want 2 have sex with me and i was shocked because he knowing that i cant have sex before marry its forbidden in my religion then he said ok (i wi...

Will she think my penis is too small?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4912 days ago

17 June 2010 (M) - My best friend and I decided that we should have sex, just to see if we should be together. I'm worried that she might think my penis is to small. I measured my penis and it is 4 and a half inches. I just wanted to know from a females opinion is ...

She's 14 and I am almost 20. How can I postpone sex until she's older, without hurting her feelings?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

16 June 2010 (M) - I'm having a slight problem, and mainly just need some words of advice and support. I'm 19, turning 20 soon and I met a girl online sometime around 9 months ago, at first it was just friendly talk and me trying to cheer her up (she's had a very har...

My friend says I am a slut, but I think she's just jealous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

16 June 2010 (F) - ok first date i did hand job and let him finger me, but we are gonna be bf and gf (boyfriend and girlfriend). My friend said i am a slut but i think shes jealous because she doesnt have a bf. why wouldnt she be happy for me? I have never judged her ...

Wow! Where did that come from???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

16 June 2010 (F) - Hello everyone! So, I am 19 years old and so is my boyfriend. Now that its summer time he is away at work while I am home. He comes home once a week so I look forward to it...very much so. This time he will be coming home this Friday. ...