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writes: I'm 14. 15 in 2 weeks. I have a boyfriend. I've been seeing him for 2 weeks. We have already done a LOT. I just found out he's had sex before and i'm still a virgin. I'm scared he's just using me. Help me. Please.
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reader, Universe Man +, writes (23 June 2010):
The best thing you can do is just slow it down and enjoy where you are right now. If he can't slow down and enjoy it with you because he's wrapped up in having sex, then I think things will seem clearer to you.
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reader, enisalynnjo +, writes (23 June 2010):
well I'm 14 as well , my boyfriend is 17 . I've never done anything sexual , & hes done it all except for sex . it doesn't mean he's using you , because I've been Dating him for 10 months & weve had no sexual activity what so ever & were crazy in love . so I'm saying from real experience that it doesn't mean he's using you , but I'd definitely be cautious about it & slooowwllyy get into the "losing your v-card" session . good luck girl (;
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (23 June 2010):
At that age every guy... (yes every guy) has sex on the brain. If you don't want to be used, then don't have sex with him.
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