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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:ok first date i did hand job and let him finger me, but we are gonna be bf and gf (boyfriend and girlfriend). My friend said i am a slut but i think shes jealous because she doesnt have a bf. why wouldnt she be happy for me? I have never judged her b4 and now shes telling my other friends.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (16 June 2010):
 And don't for a second think that he hasn't told all his buddies about what happened. He has. If you want to admit it or not, you are still a kid. Boys your age are especially immature, almost worse then when they were in grade school. Sure you'll be popular, but at this rate you'll also be used up and worn out by the end of high school. That's not the good kind of popularity.
If you end up marrying this boy, I'll gladly eat my words, but my gut tells me that if you continue down this path you'll regret it in the years to come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): You are behaving like a slut, which means you perforom sexual favors for boys without the benefit of a long term relationship. Boy's will say anyting to get sex. Why wouldn't he want to be your boyfriend, you're easy...he won't respect you, will brag to his friends and he is using you as a sexual toy. You are too young to be this promiscuous...where are your moral values? Your friend is right. Boy's don't respect easy girls, period...unfair, but true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): First date and you gave a hand job and you;re that young! Yes I'd react like your friend and be concerned and a bit shocked.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 June 2010):
I think your friend is concerned for you. She's just worded it wrong. And here's why. You've been on a first date and before you've even really got to know this guy to make sure you know he's not out to use you, you've let him go quite far. Now it's true your friend isn't being very kind, but until you know this guy isn't just using you, don't go too far. I'm a man, and I know how men think. Slow down.
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