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writes:I dont know when we get intimite, we do all the stuff with eachother , but she doesnt allows me to do sex,i dont know when she gets turn on and when she gets turn off I am really confused , coz this is hamperring my relationship, one more problem is i m a virgin and she had sex many a times so m totally blank what to do ????? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Ok, coming from a girl. Look you can tell when a girl is turned on when she gives these come and get me looks. This person is right, you shouldn't just jump right on in first.. You have to make her want you as much as you want her. And it really depends on what she likes: romantic stuff or aggressive but gentle. Just experiment with her. If you do that then you find things that she likes and even things that you like...
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reader, Deema  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Us humans are a very wierd bunch. We all try to guess what the other person wants and make all sorts of assumptions about all sorts of things - but the thing most of us neglect to do is communicate - in other words, we don't ASK what someone would like, or if that feels good, or am I moving too fast, or are you comfortable with this, or are you ready to have sex with me yet, or even I'm not experienced sexually and I feel uncertain what to do. We don't do that. We go around worrying whether we're gonna upset someone or not, do they like this or that, have we got it right or wrong - and I'm telling you kid - the easiest way is to ASK. That way you can share what you are both happy and comfortable about, what you don't like, what offends you and your fears - and it makes you feel sooooo much closer to that person because you SHARE the expereince of finding out instead of it being a guessing game that you can get horribly wrong. Good luck. Hope it works out for you.
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