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Very confident, but one area, not so much

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Question - (29 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *alibuutay writes:

Well im a virgin and im 17, i grew up in an enviroment where sex was around me everywhere i went and i came to know alot of things about it. Growing up all i could gather from females conversations about sex was they were only interested in one topic, how big the guys dick was last night. Now im about 5' - 5 1'2 i have done everything to a girl but i refuse to let them do anything to me because i am worried/ paranoid about there opinions. I know everything about foreplay, eating out, fingering, talking, asking questions in there ear while doing all of those things and so on and so forth. I have no problem with getting a girl off with my mouth, words, or fingers im really confident with all of them but my penis. Is there anyway i can make myself feel more comfortable about having sex, i get fully aroused during me pleasing a girl but i doubt myself with penatration, im stuck at a cross roads here. Is 5' - 5 1'2 enough to please, im starting to think i need to just buck up and take the plunge but i want to be a great pleaser with my dick and not just my toungue and fingers and actually be the female conversation about last night.

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A female reader, Plexi Canada +, writes (30 June 2010):

Plexi agony auntHun, if she loves you, it won't matter, she isn't going to pull out a ruler and measure it like you did, she will just remember the experience as a whole so make sure you do everything that you know she enjoys and when it comes to intercourse just make love to her and don't think about it, cause let me tell you, she will not be thinking about your size but about how special your moment together is:)

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A male reader, malibuutay United States +, writes (30 June 2010):

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malibuutay agony auntThanks, i have a girl that i love and im very comfortable around her and its really easy for me to get ready to have sex, ive done the whole teasing with my head and she shakes just at that, im not afraid its small (because i know how to work it and all that) but i just dont want to disapoint, i doubt i will, but there is still enough doubt to make me not want to.

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A female reader, Plexi Canada +, writes (30 June 2010):

Plexi agony auntYes there is something you can do............wait for the right girl. Girls who like to have sex for fun will care about stuff like that( and even party girls won't be disappointed as long as you know how to be attentive and make them feel good) but when you find the right girl who cares for you and falls in love with you, you will find that size won't matter to her( sorry for the corniness but it's true)You sound like you know what you're doing in bed so now you need to decide whether you want to have sex for fun or you want to make love to someone special.

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