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*arloslt
writes:Hi. I'm 16yo. My penis is something like 5.7 - 6in long when erect. I'm still virgin.. I had maybe 7 chances to have a sex with girls but I didn't do it because I'm too shy and I don't want to get embarrassed when they see my small penis. I know someone says it's perfect size and I can fit all normal condoms, but trust me, it really looks small to me. I've had like 4 chances to have sex with a 18yo girl, she already has boyfriend and her first time was when she was only 14. She told me that her boyfriend's penis is something like 10in, so it scares me when I think what she would say when she see my penis. If you could tell me if I should look for some other girl who hasn't had so much sex experience during her life or should I be brave and have sex with this girl? If I could get any advice - that would be great. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Dude, I am 5.75-6 inches long and about 5.5 girth. My GF was with a guy who had a 9 inch, thick one, and she is so freaking horny for me it aint funny. SHe says I am better by far, and I believe her. Big dicks can hurt a girl, and many big dicked guys are lazy and non reciprocating in the sack from what I've heard (from GF's and female buddies who talk openly) You are NOT small unless you are under 5 inches or so. Your girth is a tad smaller than avergae, but who cares about average. Use that thing right, and I think you will please 90% of women you're with. But they smell insecurity like poo, so dont feed that. Find a petite girl who isn't so promiscuous. Chances are she'll think you're HUGE.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 Don't fall into the trap of thinking that a sexual encounter revolves entirely around your penis. I know, it's the core of your sexuality, but it isn't the core of hers. Remember that little tidbit and you'll be fine.
She sounds like the wrong person to have sex with, frankly. She's got a big mouth and she will definitely tell people the size of your penis and how you did in bed. Being as you are self-conscious about size already and you are inexperienced, you are NOT going to come off well in the re-telling. Steer clear of this girl and give yourself time to find a girl who falls for YOU, not just your penis.
http://www.malehealth.co.uk/node/18960
http://men.webmd.com/features/6-sex-mistakes-men-make
http://men.webmd.com/guide/sex-fact-fiction
Like Yos pointed out, millions of lesbians have wonderful satisfying sex without a penis in sight. Sex for a woman begins between her ears before it ever involves what's between her legs, or what's between yours, for that matter.
Take care.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 The thickness is called the "girth". And what is normal while in the teenage varies a whole lot. But what I will repeat: "Most guys have sizes just like yours! And, that is what is most pleasurable for a woman" But like others pointed out, if she already has a boyfriend, don't sleep with her. You don't want a cheater as a girlfriend. I don't care if she thinks he is coming back or not or haven't had sex for a month, either she is with him or she isn't! If she is with him then don't tap it, she needs to break up with him first!
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reader, carloslt +, writes (27 June 2010):
carloslt is verified as being by the original poster of the questionher boyfriend is actually gone to his own country for a while, so she hasn't had sex for about a month or more, she doesn't even know if he's coming back here.. And one more thing, I measured the circumference (or whatever it is) and I found out it's 4.5in. So is it really normal for a 16yo with a 5.7 - 6in long penis? Will it make pleasure for a girl?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 You've got the right penis and the wrong girl.
She has a boyfriend,she is willing to cheat aand she is a liar ( Statistically vey improbable, close to impossible that her bf has a 10 inches penis ). And if that were true, she has totally no class because something one never does is discussing a lover's size with another lover- really tacky. Then, she must really not understanding anything about sex, if you deal with a too large penis you have even more problems and less pleasure than with a too small one.
Conclusion- redirect your perfectly normal penis toward worthier directions...
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reader, imp of high noon  +, writes (27 June 2010):
Interesting fact, a woman's G-spot is about 2-3 inches inside the vagina, you don't need to be hung like a moose to give your lady an orgasm. Be attentive, plenty of foreplay, make sure its all about your partner and the size of your cock need never enter the equation. And on that subject, I think the women love monster cocks is a myth spread by pornography, these guys you see with ten inchers in porn films are absolutely not the norm and to be honest they probably have a hard time finding sexual partners who'll stay with them. when in a relaxed state the average depth of a vagina is 3-4 inches deep and about an inch wide, when aroused this stretches to around 5-6 inches deep and the opening between 1 1/2 to 2 1/2 inches wide. Do you see where I'm going here?...
In summary there is nothing unusual about the size of your penis, yours is a concern shared by many men for no good reason, and quite frankly the old adage is true as anything else "its not what you've got, but what you do with it", so long as you've got 2 inches you can still blow her socks off.
Morally though I wouldn't persue this girl as she's already involved in a relationship. In her boyfriends place how would you feel?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010): No REAL penis is 10 inches without some form of surgery to make it that way. Either that or the bloke was a freak of nature.Large wang aside, there is probably a good reason the two broke up and she's with you. Obviously, a large cock didn't mean nearly as much to her as it does to you.Stop worrying and get fucking. You have a great girlfriend right now. Don't deny both of you all the pleasures that come with that.Speaking as a man who has never had sex or had a girlfriend and is turning 27, be thankful that you have even an opportunity. You can have no idea how much worse it is to be devoid of passion and love in your life.Flynn 24
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reader, Wise Woman of the Forest +, writes (27 June 2010):
 6 inches is average and as the motto goes "it's not how big it is, it's what you can do with it".There is no shame in being a virgin, but maybe go with a girl who you feel comfortable with and numerous friends of mine have said that they wished they had wauited till they were in a stable relationship. (:
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reader, Yos  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 I read your post to imply she's talking about her ex. If she is still with him then don't have sex with her. Cheating, or being with someone who is cheating, is never a good idea.
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reader, Yos +, writes (26 June 2010):
Your penis size is exactly average. You have nothing to worry about at all in that department. You are letting your shyness effect your thinking: you say it looks really small, but that's just in your mind. In reality... it's perfectly normal size.This shows the data:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_penis_size#LengthBe brave and have sex with this girl. And don't focus on intercourse: turn her on before you take off your pants. Think of it this way: many millions of lesbians are doing just fine with sexual satisfaction! A woman's pleasure is not focussed around your penis.
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reader, yag +, writes (26 June 2010):
don't be embarrassed. 5-6 inches is a normal size.just because she has had a lot of experience and her partner has a bigger penis doesn't mean that she will laugh or anything. most women don't mind about the size as long as it is good sex and they enjoy it.if you want to get over your embarrassment and worry you should just jump in at the deep end. there is nothing to be ashamed of.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (26 June 2010):
You are normal. The size problem is only in your head. Besides, any decent girl would never make you embarrassed about your size. You are comparing yourself to some fake images in your head about how guys "normally" are. If her ex really did have a 10 incher he was one of a very few. Most guys have sizes just like yours! And, that is what is most pleasurable for a woman. Women in general do not like huge dicks. Repeat after me: women do not like huge enormous painful dicks! They like normal sized ones!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 June 2010):
You're a normal average guy. But you're picking the wrong girl to fancy. She's been at it since she was 14, and is looking to cheat on her boyfriend? You need to find a better class of girl, and get to know her first. There's nothing wrong with you. Find a better girl. Don't go with a cheating one.
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