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Help! I'm afraid there's some physically wrong with me!

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Question - (27 June 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2010)
A male Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey. I wanted to ask is it natural for 16yo virgin boy, after getting an erection twice in 40min. period, not to get fully erected again when there's naked girl laying beside you and you're touching her? Because it has happened to me and I think there might be something wrong with me, because I could not get it quickly fully erected again.

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A female reader, soccer_luver15 United States +, writes (28 June 2010):

It is normal. Just do as "pancakes rule" said and explain to her that you were tired, because my partner was in the same position as you were and he told me that he was erected earlier that day and was tired so it made me feel a little bit better cause I thought I couldn't get him erected

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010):

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ok, thank you.

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A female reader, Gabrielle Stoker United States +, writes (28 June 2010):

Gabrielle Stoker agony auntIt's been known to happen, even to guys I've been with, so it's quite normal, I guess.

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A female reader, pancakes rule Ireland +, writes (28 June 2010):

pancakes rule agony auntjust tell her you were tired. as Anonymous said, you need a rest, so just try to avoid all thoughts which would result in giving you an erection and try again with her then.

good luck

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010):

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how should I explain it to my partner? I dont want her to think that I cant get boner..

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010):

That is totally natural. It could be because you were nervous? Never the less. Nothing to worry about x

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (27 June 2010):

Not My Name agony auntDitto what CG said.

It's perfectly normal.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2010):

I say dont worry about it, theres nothing wrong with it. At your age, you can get erect at the randomest times. Mostly, when your erect just a few hours before your with a girl, you might not get erect when your with her.

I.e. try not to be erect before your with her! :)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 June 2010):

Your penis needs a rest sometimes. It's natural for him to lay down his arms and take a break! Don't worry so much.

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