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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I'm afraid I'll cheat on my younger boyfriend and give my virginity to an older guy, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I know I'm very young, but please understand that these days everything varies from person to person, for example I know people barely a year older than me that have actually been together with someone for a few years, others that just sleep around ...

Shaving, losing my virginity and pain! Need advice on all!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hia, I'm 16, and i think that in august i will loose my virginity to this lad i am in love with. We're not going out because he lives about 2 hours away and we think it would be too hard to have a relationship cus of the distance, but we both want...

Should I pursue this relationship with my online boyfriend or leave him be because of my earlier fears?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - hi... about 2 years ago, during the summer i met a really nice guy my age, 17 at the time online and we became fast friends.we both lived in the Caribbean but he lives on another island which is nt to far from mine.he was really sweet to me and as w...

Has anyone got any tips on how to get your boyfriend really horny?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - So, i'm a virgin and my boyfriends not. i know it's usually the other way around and all, but not in this situation. he's ate me out, fingered me, and we dryhump all the time. the thing is, i wanna make him really horny. what are some really good ...

Am I still a virgin? Could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I'm 15 years old, female, and I think still a virgin. My boyfriend and I we're fooling around today like we normally do, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base all covered. We we're getting really into it and he got on top of me, I was wearing a skirt. He fingered ...

Girlfriend lost virginity to rebound during break up and now I don't know what to do if we get back together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Hey. Well, this is the story. I met my girlfriend about 2 years ago, and from the very moment we started talking we were extremely attracted to each other. Quickly enough, we started going out and soon after we realized that we were in love. We were ...

Could this scare away any future relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Ok I have to be honest here. I'm 26 and I am a virgin and I never had a real g/f before. Now there's nothing wrong with me and I am attractive. For 6 years I've been in school getting my bachelors studying architecture so for those of you that don't ...

How long does losing your virginity hurt for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I am still a virgin but me and friend had almost went all the way and he didnt pop my cherry but almost did. And now Im in a lot of pain. How long will i hurt for? And if we do go all the way, how long will i hurt for?...

I want to wait until marriage for sex, how can I resist temptation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I'm 22, and I finally have a boyfriend, and just lost my first kiss about a year ago. I have always said I'd wait till marriage before sex, but I keep getting tempted. I moved in with him because I had no where else to go. Which is really not help...

How do I let him know he can go for it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Ok, well, I'm 19 and I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 weeks now. We have been friends for a couple years now and are both virgins. Everytime I see him I can't help but smile and I find him to be a complete turn on pretty much all the ...

I am confused about my sexual identity and feel so alone! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I am 23 years old male. I am an exremely shy and confused person. I have been diagnosed with depression, borderline personality disorder and an eating disorder. Some of my problems are sexual one of which is sex feels wrong to me and I'm af...

My boyfriend wants to have sex, but I don't. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - well im 16 my boyfriend want to have sex whith me and i keep telling him am not ready and he keeps asking...

I'm feeling different and bi-curious since losing my virginity

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - hey everyone, ive been totally feeling different ever since i lost my virginity. heres how it started, i went on this 1 mobile chat site and met up with this 1 woman. we went to her place and... did it. she was nice and kind but its just that sex ...

If fiancee was drugged said no, and doesn't remember, doesn't that qualify her as a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - My fiancee and I are both graduating college next month and getting married this summer. We are both virgins and both wanted to stay that way for marriage. Problem is my fiancee had a situation about 3 years ago, and now she's saying things to...

Self conscious me is worried what she will think.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

26 April 2010 (M) - hi I really like this girl. But there is a problim I have a very small penis, I am 33 and never had a girl friend or sex because of this. Like i said I really like this girl. Don't no what to do I am afraid she might just laugh at me if we ever have ...

I cant get over his past! Why sleep with so many women when he is gay, not bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - I'm a twenty-year-old gay guy. I'm a virgin and I've waited my entire life to find that one right person to share sex with - something so important to me. I understand that sex doesn't have to be something extremely important and that lots of people ...

Will he think I am bad in bed because I am a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old and still a virgin. A bit lame I know but I've been waiting for the right person. Recently I've started kind of seeing a man i think might be the right person, the only problem is i really dont want to tell him i'm a virgin or ...

I don't think about sex when I masturbate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - First of all, sorry for the explicit nature of this question. I'm just wondering if anybody else feels the same way. I'm a virgin (female) and when I masturbate, I can't think about having sex or doing sexual things with another person. Well, I ...

What should I do when I am having sex without a condom on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - i'm a virgin , and i have been wondering what to do when im having sex without a condom and im about to cum, do i cum inside her or tell her im about to cum or what? HELP!...

I know he's still sleeping around, but I'm totally infatuated

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - hello. i was seeing a guy for 2 months, everything was perfect! It was then revealed to me that he had a gf and was sleeping around with other girls..he went on holiday, and when he came back we got close again...last night it was revealed that he ...

I can't bear the thought that I've reached the age of 19 with zero experience.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - Ok so i asked a question here a couple of days ago. The thing is im 19 and a virgin still, and i feel really worried and down over it. The people who answered were great and it helped but i think they thought i was just obsessed with sex and losing ...

I'm a virgin but seek to have an orgasm

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - I am a 17 year old female and im still a virgin. I always masterbate with my boyfriend with phone sex but i cant seem to give myself an orgasim and make myself cum. I rub my clit and put 1 or 2 fingers in and it feels good but i really want to ...

Is he just using me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - Okay basically; im in a relationship with a boy who iReally love. iLost my virginity to him which makes the situation more complex. He is impatient and takes things a bit too literally when he knows iDont mean it. iReally want to be with him but ...

How do you know if she's had sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - how do you know if a girl has had sex/lost her virginity?...

How do I explain my born-again virginity to my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5237 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend and I are moving in together in 2-3 months. He is a warm, wonderful person. I recently decided that I want to abstain till marriage. Reason? I hit rock bottom last year. I was partying and drinking excessively, and I acci...

I'm 19 and still a virgin. Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - Im a male, 19, never had a girlfriend and still and virgin. And now im depressed (well probably not really depressed, i just feel really low) and worried sick about it virtually all the time. I dont really know what it is thats making me worry, i ...

I am still unsure about getting physical with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) - I have been together with my boyfriend for 2months plus and things are getting a little physical now... I began to doubt whether is he really in love with me or is he only interested with my body... with the amount of sexual needs I can provide him ...

I want to lose my virginity... so confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - Hi,just wanted to get this out as i don't have anyone to talk to.I'm an almost 17 yr old girl and i'm beggining to feel as though i'm going to die alone.I've always told myself that this would never be something I'd worry about,but it's funny how ...

Friend says she wants to sleep with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - (Moderator note: broke this into paragraphs to make it easier to follow) One weekend back when I was in school I saw a girl from one of my classes walking by the food court in the mall. I just happened to see that she had some type of accident...

How early is too early?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5329 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - Okay I am currently in a 3 month relationship with my first boyfriend ... still a virgin hes not .. im not sure tho wether i want to "fool around" yet he tries to but he understands that i am inexperienced haa but i dnt want my nerves to ruin it or ...

I'm worried I might have set my standards too high and I will never meet anyone who is right for me!

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

19 April 2010 (?) - Hello, I hope you guys can help. I am almost 25 and a virgin. I can't quite find anyone who is good enough to a) have sex with b) have a REAL relationship with. It's just that I feel as if I have waited for the right guy but all the m...

I want to have sex with him so he will be happy but I'm scared it will hurt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - im going out with the same boy for three years he wants to have sex and im 13 and hes 15. im really stuck cuz i love him and i want him to be happy but im scared when i do it its gunna hurt and thats what im really scared of. plzz help me if you can ...

Bestfriends with benefits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - Ok, so I'm in a very confusing situation with my bestfriend. We have been really good friends for about three years. In the beginning of our friendship he liked me and I liked him but he had a girlfriend and we didn't tell eachother about our ...

One boob bigger than the other!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - Hi, im 16 and im really really self conscious of my breasts. basically ever since i was about 13 they have been really uneven, one at least a cupsize smaller than the other. it never used to bother me, but now ive started getting into more se...

I've been rejected my whole life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - years had bulling and rejection.missing out on love because of rejection. people who rejected me always find love the likes of me does n,t .has left me with a lot of problems.i have being going counselling since i was 6 years old.i see other people ...

From Ugly Ducking to Swan but now feeling socially inept..HELP??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm a 22 year old male, 6'2, I'm averaged size but a little bigger cuz of my height...built like Steelers QB Ben Roethlisberger (haha, that probably isnt the best example at this point in time haha) and Ive gotten that way by losing ...

Masturbation without penetration

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (M) - Hello. I and my girlfriend are both 21 and have been together for 3 years.We are both vergins but we do oral sometimes. She often masturbates me. I want to masturbate her. How can I do it witout penetration? I have heard of clitorial stimulation. ...

My lost virginity didn't matter to him but now I'm worried I might be pregnant

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - Okay so i'm 14, and i just lost my virginity yesterday, and the guy I lost it to doesn't even care, it was just sex to him. I did anything he wanted. I just wanted to make him happy. So today I find out that he goes back out with his ex. I think ...

I'm afraid to lose my virginity.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

18 April 2010 (M) - I'm 20 years old and I am a virgin still. I know i shouldn't think so much of it but the only reason I still am one is because every time I've been presented with the opportunity to have sex i got scared that i wouldn't do good enough and backed ...

I lost my virginity to him, but I can't imagine spending my life with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - I've met a guy I think I really want to be with. I've never been in a long relationship before. He has, he's been in a few year type relationships where i always do months. I lost my virginity to him recently, although he had slept with 4 people ...

Horrible Pain when trying to finger.Help Please!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - *OP's own title* I'm a virgin 16 year old girl and when I try to finger my vagina I can't because IT HURTS A LOT.I can't even stick my entire finger in my vagina,I have tried but I can't,I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 year...

I'm a virgin, waiting till marriage, but I want to lose it with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - So I'm a virgin and I've been wanting to wait till marriage for that special night but recently my boyfriend of about 2 years has been wanting to have sex with me. He says he really loves me and I really love him as well. The other night while ...

Am I supposed to feel down all the time about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

16 April 2010 (F) - i am a girl and i have a boy best friend and his best friend(MG) likes me well we like each other and i didn't think our relationship was going to go anywhere because he was sooo wired!! but it was like a week after we started talking and i lo...

Does jelquing actually work? And will my penis be too short for my future wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

16 April 2010 (M) - okay, I'm 17 years old, I'm a virgin and I do want to abstain from sex untill I'm married. my penis is about six inches long when erect, my question is: does jelquing work and if so, in what stage of my erection should I start the excersize?? and is ...

Is there something wrong with me if I think about sex all the time despite being a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

15 April 2010 (F) - Is there something wrong with me,I think about sex all the time,and when I like guys I generally think about shagging them rather than being in a relationship,as I don't really like the exclusiveness.but the thing is I'm a virgin,I masterbate but ...

Am I too old for sex? What else can I use other than lube to make it comfortable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 April 2010 (?) - Hey everyone, I really hope you can help me with this odd problem I am having. I am a 25 year old virgin and have finally found someone with whom I feel comfortable enough to take it to the next level. So for a few nights we have been doing more ...

Unsure about the 'friends with benefits' relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - Help required regarding friends with benefits - Good thing / Bad thing. The problem is there is a guy I really like and we have been french kissing quite a lot recently and we have took things a little further but he wants me now to go down on hi...

..Who You Lose Your Virginity To

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

14 April 2010 (F) - I was reading the answers to one of the questions on here, about a girl wanting to lose her virginity outside of a relationship. And I was the only answerer who didn't completely dismiss her choice (not saying that other answerers are wrong, just ...

Does who you lose your virginity to really matter?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 April 2010 (?) - Well,now I have another dilema.I want to get over my teacher and feel that another guy would help.He's 18 and can drive iv known him for 5 years and he proposed that we have some 'fun',I'm up for it or at least would be if my sister hadn't given him ...

We're both virgins, should he wear one?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

13 April 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 21 years old virgin, have a 22 years old boyfriend who is also a virgin. We have been dating for 2 years now. Right now, both of us are deciding to lose our virgin to each other as we love each other so much. But my problem i...