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writes:*OP's own title*I'm a virgin 16 year old girl and when I try to finger my vagina I can't because IT HURTS A LOT.I can't even stick my entire finger in my vagina,I have tried but I can't,I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 years old(when I discovered masturbation) and this situation has never changed,I always feel the same HORRIBLE PAIN.I just put my fingertip at the entrance of my vaginal opening and that's enough to make me feel a TERRIBLE PAIN,IT HURTS SO MUCH,BELIEVE ME IT HURTS A LOT!!!!and I haven't even put my full finger in it.Even when I put my fingertip slowly at the entrance of my vaginal opening IT HURTS VERY LIKE HELL!!!I just put my fingertip at the entrance of my vaginal opening.Therefore it shouldn't hurt so much.I have tried to finger my vagina many times,so it should have streched out little by little each day it should hurt less but at all of these times I felt the same TERRIBLE PAIN and couldn't go further.Most virgin girls can fully finger their vaginas and they don't feel a horrible pain,they just feel a mild pain,so I don't think that I feel a terrible pain just because I'm a virgin and I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 years old,so this situation should have changed,I mean the entrance of my vaginal opening(this is the furthest I can go when I try to finger myself)should have stretched but apparently it hasn't because it's always the same thing,it's always the same pain.Curently,I gave up trying to finger my vagina.Why does it hurt so much?
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (25 April 2010):
 You should go to a Dr. and get that checked out. I'm sure it can easily be fixed.
I can't give medical advice but I can tell you what it might be. Could you possibly have an imperforate hymen? Or maybe it's a little bit on the strong side.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): rcn is right. you need lube. after the first time and hurting you are probably tense and that doesnt help. KY makes some good lubricants. A lube that is easily acquired and i like fairly well is the baby oil gel products. not embarrassing to buy if that is an issue. good luck honey, and as rcn says, try your pinkie and work into more. the more relaxed you are the easier you will find it to be. good luck, mal
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 I think you should go and consult a gynae to find out what is your problem.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 I'd recommend trying lube. And are you in the mood when you try, or are you just trying for the sake of doing? In studying the female anatomy, when in the mood for pleasure, the vagina tends to ready itself for the process. Remember too, when you enter, it's not "get in and head in any direction." You need to find the "straight" direction to go.
If you need to work your way up, try you pinkie, once your smaller finger feels comfortable, then you can try another one as this comfort level increases.
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