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Archived questions from: November, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Should I forgive him? Can we work through this or do I write off the last five years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - Hey guys I really need some advice. So here goes ... I have been together with my boyfriend *dave ( not his real name) for about 5 and years and a half. We live together, we have a dog we have joint bank account I mean everything we are basically ...

My girlfriend spends a lot of time with her gay male friend who's almost always semi-naked. Should I be concerned?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

30 November 2013 (M) - My girlfriend often tells me how her male fried walks around the house purely in his underwear. I know this sounds petty but I can't help but let it bother me. I even went as far as to ask what kind of underwear...they're the tight boxer brief ...

Is this man attracted to his daughter and possibly her friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 November 2013 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years, we got engaged but his daughter had become jealous and wanted me out of there, so we are no longer engaged. He engages in alot of pornography, and while snooping I came across lots of fantasies about ...

Wife admitted she used to be a prostitute! Should I cut my losses and leave?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

30 November 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been married now for 23 years. When we began dating I realized she was probably more worldly than I was used to going out with. However , I was starting to fall for her, and at 27 I wasn't meeting anyone that came close to her . ...

A guy told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend and while I know it's a lie, it's still bothering me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 November 2013 (M) - A bloke came up to me in my local the other night and told me he's been having sex with my girlfriend for the past 4 months. He explained that she was waiting for the right time to tell me it's over.I just burst out laughing at the thought of my ...

My boyfriend is too close to his secretary!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has a really lovely secretary who he thinks a lot of. There are eight guys working in the office. I have met her a few times and she is a lovely warm friendly woman happily married with children. She is 35 and my boyfriend is 38. He t...

I think my boyfriend of 7 months still has feelings for his ex girlfriend even though he says he doesn't.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 November 2013 (F) - Hi everyone I think my boyfriend of 7 months still has feelings for his ex girlfriend even though he says he doesn't. They broke up about a year and a half ago. I feel this way because he is still friends with her even though she treated him ...

I cursed her out, we broke up, I want her back, but she's moved on.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

28 November 2013 (M) - I never felt this bad in my life. This is the first time I ever truly loved a girl and the first time I've been genuinely heartbroken. We broke up because I felt she was being cold to me, plus I had no job and I guess the sex wasn't great and I ...

How do I move past this jealousy? I want to be happy for him but can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2.5 years. Last summer he broke up with me, we spent 5 weeks with no contact and then decided to meet up again. We chatted for hours and eventually kissed. We talked over all the issues w...

I consider her a friend, yet she says I'm using her. Any advice on how to deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

26 November 2013 (M) - I met this girl at an AA meeting and she was really cute and flirty at first. We started talking, went to a midnight meeting and I took her back to my apartment and we made snacks. She ended up spending the night and we made out and when we got t...

I'm pregnant. Should I leave my Bf? He's addicted to porn, uses weed and now he's cyber cheated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant and just found out my boyfriend has been messaging a girl he knows on Facebook, suggestive and flirty messages. She suggested they do something sexual, to which he replied "will it be soon?? I can't wait to stay in the room ...

Am I right not trusting my partner after finding out his ex stayed when I wasn't there??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - Hi I'm seeking advice and I guess because I'm in a new country and feeling isolated, some strength and direction to help get my thoughts together and make some decisions would be really helpful. I've been in a relationship with my partner for over...

Is my B/f looking for his ideal woman? Or does he just see women with long platinum blond hair as some sort of porn object?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

26 November 2013 (F) - If my boyfriend sees a woman with platinum blond hair, he just goes into a sort of trance-like state and fixates on her. The woman often is just average-looking, but because her hair is long and platinum blond, he just gets stirred inside. Why is ...

How could his kissing someone else have helped with my trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 November 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year. In this time I have suffered a bit of anxiety which has led to me being insecure and distrustful and spying on him and his internet history, accusing him and being quite needy and creating drama in ...

I care about him, but not the way he wants. What are my options?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) - Hi everyone, There is this guy I've been talking to and we have just been texting back and forth but we have never actually met. He has been coming on strong telling me that he is in love with me and that he wants me in his life. He wants to meet me ...

Gf and I broke up a year ago, been single ever since. Am I getting too desperate for attention?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 November 2013 (M) - Hi guys basically split up with my girlfriend over a year ago after 4 years together I was devastated and still am not healed, I have slept with 4 girls since then and tried to turn them into relationships but the spark was never there so it turned ...

I thought my Co-worker was just a good friend. So why has he been asking me explicit sexual questions?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 November 2013 (?) - I've thought this guy at my work and I were just friends. We talk a lot, about random stuff usually. Yesterday we were texting and he was asking me when I'm going to have kids and everything. I said I don't know. Anyway so we were texting more and...

I think my boyfriend is still using porn, and it's affecting our sex life. How should I behave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 November 2013 (F) - Hello 2 Everyone! Two days ago I discovered my fiancee still uses porn. It was so disgusting and frustrating for me, still he lies. The problem is that is impossible for him to ejaculate when we have sex, even though is always horny. He says h...

I don't want to seem too needy or clingy... What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4021 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the past 7 months. We have had our ups and downs but things are good now. He says he loves me and I love him. I am somewhat insecure about the relationship and we have both had some trust issues because of past ...

Trying to save my marriage. Husband calls me names for having had sexual partners before we met. Help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 7 years and we have been together for 14. We have 4 children together. Recently, he has told me that he wants to leave me because I had sex with multiple people (a total of 6, including 2 one night stands) ...

Three days ago I suffered a miscarriage. Do I tell my ex bf/good friend I miscarried his baby?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I are 11 years a part, Im 18. We dated secretly to avoid the scandel as we knew he was moving away in december. Last week he ended it early and we are still on really good terms. Its tricky when we both are attracted to eac...

Is this likely to be true? Will I end up alone as a cat woman, with no one who ever wants me? How do I find someone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

22 November 2013 (F) - I can't say this to anybody I know because it really does sounds so pathetic and I know it shouldn't bother me this much.. So I am 18 years old, and I have never had a proper boyfriend (I.e someone I can connect to ect.). And it is starting...

Does my B/f still miss his ex? How often do they talk? Was their relationship better than ours? Am I a rebound to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

21 November 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we were friends/talking for 2 months before we got together. When him and I first met and were in the friends/talking kind of stage, he still had feelings for his ex and they talked ofte...

My LDR girlfriend had drinks with male friends at her place late at night. Is that acceptable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

21 November 2013 (M) - My ldgf was having some drinks with her female roomate and a couple of guys until 3 am at her place. is it acceptable? Here's the story: when we skyped she said she was going to bed and we were about to end our converstation when her phone rang and ...

If he's happy then why is he still on dating sites?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I am hoping someone (preferably with experience of this) could shed some light on my problem. I have been seeing my boyfriend for a bit more than three years. He says he is happy. If he is happy, then why does he keep going to dating ...

My boyfriend wouldn't be sending flowers to his ex girlfriend every year on that date, would he?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 November 2013 (F) - I saw that my boyfriend has been forwarding himself an email about a reminder notice to send flowers the last couple of days . I had seen it quickly over his shoulder and then took a peek yesterday which I don't normally do! The flowers were ...

I recently found a bunch on naked pictures of my wife's privates on her phone!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

20 November 2013 (M) - Hello everyone, i need your help...i recently found a bunch on naked pictures of my wifes privates on her phone. we have been married for 9 years and she has never done anything like this. i checked the dates on the pics and they have been take...

We disagree about money and I'm not sure if I trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

19 November 2013 (F) - hi.I want some advice.Am in a relationship that somehow isnt working out.we both love each other dearly. My bf has parents who dont at all care whether he lives or not. And he is struggling quite a lot.we have been together for almost two years ...

Should I trust my boyfriend that he didn't cheat?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 November 2013 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend rarely goes out drinking but he was out on Saturday night with his (single) friend. I have trust issues and I can get a bit paranoid and jealous.i did the wrong thing and looked at his mobile phone call history.(we live...

Why is wife hiding her past from me, and has lied about it

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

18 November 2013 (M) - why is my wife hiding her past from me? she tells me its my problem, and not hers. she has lied to me over the years about it. we have been married for several years now 31 , while dating she said she was in love with her first, but a ye...

Married 41 years. Any tips to spice up our sex lives please?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 41 years, i'm 65 and she's 64. We used to have a great sex life but we haven't had sex for a couple of years now and it can get frustrating. Has anyone got any tips to spice up our sex lives? Thanks...

He deceived and cheated. I have regrets. Do you have any tips on how I can forgive myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

17 November 2013 (F) - About 6 months ago, I discovered a man I was seeing was not all he said he was. He was cheating on me with multiple women and deceived me on a level I never imagined possible. He broke my spirit and my heart. I had never felt so low. With lots...

I really like her, but I messed up. I just want to say sorry, but is it too soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - So I sort of messed up with this girl. See, I'm a firefighter who volunteers. And there's this female EMT, I've known her for 3 years outside of squad. A bit of back story, we dated for almost a month but on both our ends, it wasn't working ...

Can I have some tips please on how to talk to women and how I can better relate to women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

17 November 2013 (M) - i struggle with women!!!!!!!! i `am the shy type of guy i`m 24 years old and i never have much confidence when it comes to women i never know what to say or do when i`m with women. There are a few who like me, i think, but i don't know what to d...

Should I just forget the past and be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - p /> My story's long, hope you will read itto the end. I came from Eastern Europe to US 12 years ago with 2 small children ages 7 and 4, after winning a green card. Upon arrival I was greeted by organization that helps new immigrants to adju...

My boyfriend of a year and a half looks up pictures of half naked girls online.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half looks up pictures of half naked girls online. I found out through his Facebook page, because he left it open once and every page he had been on was like all pictures of sexy half naked women. My boyfriend loves me ...

Am I being clingy and controlling? Do I care too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - hi quick question, my boyfriend and i have been together now for 2 years. Whenever time he goes out, whether to his dad's house or out with friends he does not like to tell me and we live together. I find it disrespectful and rude. I compla...

Do I break-up and run? My BF engages in self destructive behaviour and I think I deserve better.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - I have posted here before and your advice has always helped me make it through bad times. My boyfriend of a year has driven drunk for most of his adult life he exhibits other self destructive behaviors. Says he likes risk. I have spoken t...

Don't want drama. Have not talked to FWB since condom broke. So how do I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - Soo I feel really stupid here but I don't know what to do.... I was in this FWB things for a couple months we used condoms but had an incident when one broke and 9 weeks later here I am pregnant. Problem is I haven't talked to him since the condom b...

Might this classmate be interested in me? Why flirt with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4027 days ago

16 November 2013 (F) - So, there's a guy who I never really talk to, but every day in one of my classes, where his seat is right beside mine. He will randomly reach over and try to grab my hand or arm or just brush his hand against my shoulder or something random like tha...

It's not what she lied about, it's that she lied

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

15 November 2013 (M) - ok, i've been getting a lot of good responses lately, so hopefully we can keep em going! ok, so my current problem is that my girlfriend, who we just started going out. one of the first things i asl her, is if she smokes, she told me no. now i do...

Does it make any sense to forgive him and try to move on together?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

14 November 2013 (F) - I have posted here before..I really need my awesome aunt and uncles help again. My boyfriend and I just got back together. We were split up for two months. We split up because one day he just wouldnt return my calls or texts. 4 days go by, I delete ...

How do I improve my chances of finding love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4029 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - Hello Dearcupid, I'm a guy at the age of 24, still single, still obviously a virgin and needed some help on how to improve my one chances of finding love. I should maybe tell a bit about my past so that you get a bit of better information about me...

Married 4 years and she's unreliable. Over-spends. She lies to me. what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - So my wife and I have been married for four years and during that time we have had out ups and downs. We both work fultime and make close to the same amount. But my wife is very lazy around the house. Despite the fact I work longer hours I a...

She lies to me a lot. It's confusing me. Can I trust her? Is there a future for us together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4029 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - I am stuck and confused. Should I leave my long distance girlfriend of 7 months? So here my story goes.. I like and love this girl a lot, as we were classmates earlier for a year then she took admission somewhere and me somewhere else. We ...

Suspicious of how her behaviour has changed since she made a new male friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4030 days ago

14 November 2013 (M) - Long story short. my LD girlfriend has always been a very confident girl about herself, her looks etc. She is very smart and very sexy too. around 8 months ago, due to cultural differences we were close to break up. Im warm and charming. she was ...

Am I getting my hopes up for nothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - I left my ex because he has a temper, wasn't putting the effort into the relationship. That was nearly 5 months ago, we where only together for 6. After we broke up, he went through a few periods of talking to me and not talking to me. He didn't ...

Boyfriend joining coast guard?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

13 November 2013 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have known each other for 6 years(he was my male best friend) and been together for 2 years now and recently he has decided to join the coast guard and I am now officially worried. I know this would be a great opportunity for ...

Is this just cold feet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4030 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Do I just have cold feet? I'm finishing a divorce-just waiting for the final decree. It wasn't a good marriage, and I have no feelings left for ex. I've met a wonderful man, at least I think he's wonderful. We've been dating about 6 months...

Drug dealer boyfriend. Advice needed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

12 November 2013 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. We're the same age, don't live together, and spend weekends together. We've had a serious relationship where we've talked about getting married in the future and having kids. When I met him he tri...