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Archived questions from: December, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Was my reaction appropriate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

31 December 2012 (?) - Dear cupids, I am deeply hurt and can't think straight. I broke up with my boyfriend last year because he was using another girl picture(he claims to be his cousin) as his profile picture on facebook and i suspected cheating. When I told him I was ...

My girlfriend wants me to meet her online friend from England

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - Hello guys. I ve seen from my GF`s FB page that she sent a message to this guy from England (whom she's never met in person) asking him if hes coming to visit soon and also wrote that its been a long time since they talked. So this guy was introduc...

I'm married and had an affair with a colleague, but he decided to stay with his GF. I'm so miserable and crushed, and can't face seeing him at work.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

31 December 2012 (F) - I am married 6 years with a young child. 10 months ago I started texting with a guy I work with, who lives with his girlfriend. We had an instant connection and starting texting non stop. We fell in love...always wanting to see eachothe...

I don't know what to think. Why is he flirty and happy to see me and then he turns away and ignores me?

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31 December 2012 (F) - So I realllllyyy like this boy and I mean so much. I don't even care about any other boy who walks by me cause all I can think about is the guy I like. I want him and I could care less about any other guy. We're friends right now and I don't wa...

What's wrong with my relationship with my Gf? She seems to find fault with me all the time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - I have been going out with this girl for a while now and have been enjoying every moment we are together. Ever since we officially became boyfriend and girlfriend, she has been shooting me down. For instance, I asked her if she wanted to hang out...

Is this a one sided relationship where I initiate all the actions to support the relationship and her? Yet her efforts to support the relationship are scant.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both in our 40's and have been together for 8 months. We love each other very much but it seems like I'm the one always doing the "little things": helping with her kids, shuttling them from place to place, writing her lett...

Is she too proud to admit she made a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4358 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - 3 months ago I heard my ex flirting on the phone with a man, which really hurt me and made me write a touching goodbye message to her. She told me she loves me and didn't want me to leave her. I ignored her for two weeks to hurt her back but she was ...

How am I going to talk to her about what happened? And what do I say when I see this guy (who has a crush on me) next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4380 days ago

31 December 2012 (M) - When my best friend's boyfriend found out I was bi, he started hanging out with me more and told me he was questioning his sexuality. That was three months ago. Last week he told me he didn't just like me, he loves me and that he was going to bre...

How do I make sense of my boyfriend's friends and their/his actions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4379 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1.5 year. we broke up for two months because he was too scared to be open and let me into his world in case i hurt him like an ex did, keeping me at a distance, and not helping correct the thin...

Eight months pregnant by him and now he's broken up with me on Christmas Eve. What can I do? LDR and he's in the military. He says I've not given him enough space.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I met this guy almost 12 mths ago, we were in love an every was great. Now I'm currently 8 months pregnant an recently he started talking a lot less, saying he needs space and that i message him too much. Then he then dumped me on Christmas Eve an ...

Been so difficult since we broke up. Should I just cut him off and move on? Or hope we can get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4380 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - My ex and I broke up about a 1 1/2 months ago. Word got around around about two weeks ago that he liked another girl but also said he didnt want to date anyone for a while. Around a couple nights ago he had contacted me saying how he had been thin...

Why can't my family and friends mind their own business about my dating life? How should I respond?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4379 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, it's has been nine years since I have been in a relationship and now people who I know want me to return to the relationship scene . I feel like I am not ready yet I want to do me right now I feel if I go back to being with somebody...

Her parents are unhelpful and her bi-polar is not medicated as her parents can't afford it. I care about her deeply, but what can I do about supporting her, now that I have less time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - Bit of background information: I'm 18 and about to enter my second semester of college, my Girlfriend is 17 and in High School. We've been dating for over a year now. We started dating when I was a Senior in High School. We saw each other every ...

I'm bi-curious. Women! How would you feel if your spouse suddenly said he was bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

30 December 2012 (M) - Hey everyone! My question is pretty short I guess, but I'd like to know the answer in different ways. Would you want to know if your HUSBAND was bi-curious/bisexual? (Would you want to know if your HUSBAND was bi-curious/bisexual years later ...

My Coworker says he's a "relationship kind of guy" but I think he's rushing things. Does he want more a FWB than a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I have got involved in a coworker. We have been sexting and sending each other pics... I was really against this but he eventually twisted my arm. Thing is, hes only just recently broken up with his gf and says he wasn't bothered about the breaku...

I want to date. But I'm also carer for my mother and sister. How have other carers been able to juggle studies, caring and me-time or even a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

30 December 2012 (F) - I hate starting these off but basically I'm 17, I have only ever had 1 boyfriend and that's because I'm a carer for my mum and sister, my mum has COPD and my sister has cerebal palsy. Over the past few weeks I've started developing a crush on this ...

She's making catty remarks about me. Do I ignore her? Or involve the guy we both may have a crush on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - this girl might like this guy I might have a crush on. I know he used to like me but I think he likes her now though I don't know for sure. He may even like Both of us. Anyways this girl is rude to me making catty/smart comments most of the time...

An Alpha male in my midst. Do I feel this way about him because he's more manly than my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - I have a long very term, live-with boyfriend. I have always been loyal to him. My neighbor is very close to my family and is pretty much an extension of such, he comes to visit on holidays and is welcomed into my home no questions asked... A ...

I think I still love him. But it's not mutual. What can I do? Seeing as my partner thinks I'm silly, and wants to leave.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - I dont think my husband loves me because I just cant feel that! I think this question will be a long question. We did love each other a lot, he left his hometown and move to my city, in the frount of all the pressure just came to us, all the bill...

Was I justified to walk away from a man who would not commit? I'm finding it hard to move on.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - Hi all. Just two weeks ago I ended a relationship with a man I had deep feelings for. He was not willing to commit to me. He and I were seeing each other for a year but he broke it off and started seeing someone else. All the while, he contin...

Is it ok to purposely mislead or lie about your past to get someone to commit to you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - Ok I want to ask this and give my opinions on this subject. First let's use some scenarios. #1guy has a past of hitting women, or criminal past, but has not been in trouble for years he's "changed" as some would say. #2 women has a past of chea...

Am I really just stubbornly holding onto a fantasy that is never going to come true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - A little over a year ago, I met a man who I thought was different. He treated me in a way I had never been before and accepted and loved my young son from a previous relationship in a way I could only dream of. However, here were a few issues with ...

He says he knows nothing of the texts he received. Subsequently he took longer to climax. Are all these indications that he may be cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - if a man takes longer that usual to climax, does that mean he might have had intercourse recently? I confronted him about a female (and about some texts from her). This confrontation took place three days after the texts were sent. He tried to pus...

Break-up. Another girl a day later? Should I even consider giving him a new chance to get back together as a couple, in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of one year broke up the day after Christmas. Prior to Christmas we went on a cruise celebrating our one year anniversary. Throughout our relationship I know we have had our ups and downs. When times are good they are really good ...

Is he just playing games with me? He denies, to others, that he still likes me. He claims to think of me sexually, still.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

29 December 2012 (F) - My ex and i had had the longest conversation recently, since we broke up. Word got around that he likes this other girl now. But he told me how he still has had sexual thoughts for me, not her, but me. I questioned why me instead of her. He told...

We had a super-connection. What can I do to rebuild the trust and reunite with my now ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4379 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - Dearcupid, My (now ex) girlfriend (26 and i'm almost 25)broke up with me over 2 months ago. Circumstances have changed since - i've moved forward with my career and am closer than ever to where I want to be. This was an issue with us as I was del...

Is my female boss taking advantage? She wants me to provide her with sex. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

29 December 2012 (M) - it is with big pain and confusion I write this. I have never told this to any one. I have been away for a month for work and my boss (female, may be around 38-40) was also there. Though she was my boss, we were in good friendship. As the bed was...

Married in 1975 and then in 2011 he cheated. He blames me for the break-up. Could we ever get back together?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - my husband and i met when we were 16 and 17 he was my only boyfriend. We married in 1975 and been married for 37 years. In June 2011 he did something unusual that he never did before it was only a phone call to me and said he had rang the wro...

How can I prevent the guy friend always being the tag-along friend whenever we plan to go out or do anything? What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hi guys, I hope somebody can help me with a small problem, its short and simple really but the solution is more difficult. I have recently met a beautiful man, who I have started to like, not a lot but want to just keep hanging out etc and see what...

Holiday blues. Why do I feel more alone than ever, and without a partner, especially during the holiday times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Why is it that I feel more alone over the holidays? I have family and friends, yet I long for the warmth of a man. I feel like I will never find a man and have that marriage I so long for. I'm 43 and never married. Something BTW, I always wanted....

What are the options to introduce more sensuality, more excitement and delight him more when we make love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - How can I make sex more exciting for my boyfriend? We havent been going out too long and have sex a handful of times.. For me it gets more amazing every time, he is a lot more experienced than I am, so he knows exactly what to do.. Genera...

Can I trust men after this? And why do I fall for men too fast? I want to stop doing that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hi I am not sure why i fall for men so fast. I was just in a two year relation ship and he cheated on me so bad. I finally got sick of it and after two years i dumped his ass. Well I got involved with a nice guy I thought hit was nice. ' He opened ...

Have I upset this guy? Or has he just moved on in his busy life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Can someone please help me shed some light on why this guy is being like this... About 5 years ago this guy and i were really good mates at work. We were on the same team and used to have lunch together, go to the gym at work and we had a laugh ...

LDR: Attention seeker? Hypochondriac? Or really sick? Cheated in the past. Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I've been dating this girl for a while now. Today makes it 5 months. She's in a different country from me, so there's the first problem of distance. However, we try to overcome it. First of all, I found out she had sex with a friend of mine, ...

Should I start looking for someone else? I don't think my current GF is going to be the one, long term

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - I am 47 and was married happily for 16 years, and not-so-happily for the last 2 as I found myself dragged down a path of divorce I didn’t want to be on. My wife instigated the proceedings; the reasons no longer matter - suffice to say I had neve...

Is it only me who gets upset that some people cheat, and then want to keep that fact a secret from their partner?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4377 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - Some Posters seem to be condoneing cheaters and ex promiscus people. Why do people think that its ok to lie to their husbands or wifes??? I just read where one agony aunt said "don't beat yourself up over it you just felt a connection so yo...

We've endured a rough time together. I still love her. Yes cheating occurred. Should I try to get back with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - So, my story starts a year ago when i first met my ex with whom i just brokeup, i immediately fell in love and told her so on the next day, she also really liked me. everything was perfect and fun, and we really rushed sexually ( which was foolish....

Since my miscarriage and his uncaring attitude I don't think I can love him any more. What are my options?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have really been feeling like I've grown to hate my boyfriend at times. There are times when I think what would I do without him? I feel I don't want to leave him because all my friends either live on the other side of the country or I've ...

Fake FB account and now I'm stuck. What do I do?? I never meant to hurt anyone.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - i know.i messed up. i know i hurt people. i just want advice though. okay sorry if this is long.i fell fast and hard for a male friend. well i wanted to find out if he was insterested in anyone without him knowing i liked him. so i made a fa...

Has anyone else had a back brace for scoliosis? I need one but I'm worried. What is the procedure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - hi, i need to get a back brace for my scoliosis and i've been told by many others that when they take a mould of your back to make the brace, they will ask you to take your clothes off and only stand their in only your underwear and nothing else. p...

Is there absolutely anyway I'll be able to get over my ex and move past what she did to me? What am I supposed to do with my life now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - So I dated a girl for 3 years, invested everything I had into the relationship: my time, my money (albeit we started dating when I was only 15 years of age) and she absolutely drove me into the ground. I found out halfway through the relation...

Sex! Is it that I have a sign on my head that every guy I'm interested in sees only that? How do I change that focus?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - There is this guy who I've liked for three years now. It's kind of pathetic I've admired him for this long and haven't had the guts to ever do anything until now, but let's say I've let him know I'm interested but not enough for him to know I R...

My boyfriend's ex is texting him in the middle of the night asking about me. I think she's trying to take him away!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and we are currently living together in my house. Neither of us text hardly anyone ever. We're never even on our phones while we're together. The other night I woke up randomly which I never ...

Unfaithful in my marriage. Why did I do this? Can I keep this secret forever?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I have been married for over 20 years and have always been faithful with the exception of one man, twice. I met him 15 years ago at the gym and I was immediately attracted to him but kept it to myself. After a while, we began to talk and before I kn...

Friend or more? Is she playing games with me to get me interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

28 December 2012 (M) - So there is this girl I've been liking for a while. Her friends tease her with me and she acts casual about it, some times she continues the joke herself. As of recent, another guy seems to be interested in her and she's nice to him and speaks to h...

She's gorgeous. My envy and jealousy towards her is out of control. What can I do? I'll lose her if I keep being like this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I need help bad! Please help! Im in love with a woman but Im jealous of her. Shes gorgeous. Shes everything I want to be and pretend to be but aint. She's smart, funny, kind, thoughtful, classy, generous, shapely, blue eyes, professionally esta...

LDR help needed please? How do I break up with my LDR?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4383 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Our relationship became a LDR since 4 months... Growing apart from my bf of 2 years: we are at a point where we barely talk now and my feelings for him are not the same anymore. In the beginning I was writing to him every day and we would sky...

Despicable actions by him in the past. So do I try to forget that? And see him again? Or say NO to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - My ex constantly said he slept with my sister whenever we would argue. He would do this because he knew that would destroy me and knew that my sister and I were very close. I confronted my sister she denied it and no longer speaks to me. As...

Does he see me as his rebound option? Is he reluctant as we work together? Or is he interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - Hi guys... I have a problem. Basically... I changed jobs less than 2 months ago and at my new job I have met a guy who is 6 years older than me. I'm 18 and he's 24. He's been in a relationship the whole time (couple of months) up until 3 d...

How do I get my friend back? At least to talk to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4382 days ago

28 December 2012 (F) - I'm scared, lost and feel really down. This is basically one of those "how do I get my friend back" questions, however this is a little more complicated. My friend (male) wont speak to me. He cut me out his life with no explanation. We ...