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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Am I responsible for my B/f sleeping around? Did I drive him to do it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I am 24 and my boyfriend is also 24. We have been together for four years on and off after meeting while working in the same bar. I was at uni at the time and after i became pregnant, i left my final year with the hope of going back to university ...

Something feels off - should I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - hi, everyone, just sumthing im worried about but in a way not that worried... about just over to yrs ago i met a guy off plenty of fish the dating website, and kinda just hit it off from texting and ringing anyway last early december we finall...

Is this a trust issue for me? Or should I just accept and trust that he is just friends with her??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy who lives an hour away for almost 4 months now..and for the last month or so we have been getting in fights every week. sometimes a couple times a week. The main problem is that I have had trust issues...

What can I do about my hairy butt? Because I'm worried my Gf will be grossed out by it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - My gf wants to do things to my butt. but i am really conscious because its hairy. What do i do , I dont want to stop her from doing it because it'll be embarassing, but it will be even more embarassing if she gets grossed out when she actually sees...

My boyfriend was never really there for me, he lied to me and gave me reasons to doubt him and now I think I'm in love with his friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - Am 20 and my boyfriend is 26. We've been together for 1 year. He was my first sexually. sure we do have our issues but we make sure its resolved by the end of the day. just about 3 months in the relationship, he confessed that he does have a 4 year ...

If he knows I love my partner and my child then why did my ex NOW reveal that he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - i was seein a guy for a few weeks and started to fall for him, when things started to get serious he backed out. We then had a sexual relationship on and off for the best part of a year then i moved on and found my current boyfriend whom ive been...

She accused me of cheating, but she's on a dating site?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - I have had to constantly re-assure my girlfriend since day one. I have put up with allegations that I am cheating or will end up cheating on her. I am often accused of finding others attractive when we are out. Despite this, I have tried to ...

Is he genuine? Every time he's 'going to leave her' something comes up. How do get more strength to cope with him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - First of all I know im an idiot for getting myself in this situation and I do regret it more than you could know which is why I could do with some advice. I had feelings for a guy that I've known for a year and stupidly let him kiss me a few mo...

I'm confused about how abrupt he became after sex. What could be his problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I have been feeling incredibly confused and feel that I need some advice before I can let this go.. Im 29 and the guy in question is 26.. we dated for only 3 weeks. He is quite an introvert and definitely not the player type. The...

The problem is I don't think my teacher has feelings for me. But I have a BIG crush on him. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I am a 17yr old girl,single.I think I love my tution teacher who is 7yrs elder than me and is single.He is teaching me since 2yrs.He got a hint 2yrs back that I had a crush on him.But none of us took it seriously.But as days are passing by and I am ...

Office Romance, No Trust on Lover

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - I am married and in relationship with a married lover (we love each other) since before she got married a year back. After her marriage we have had numerous problems and now situation is that I don't trust her anymore due to she took me too much for ...

I know I'm going to break up with him. But am I right to wait until after Christmas? Should I return his Christmas presents after we break up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - Something has snapped in me this week and I have finally decided, after a lot of heartache, that I want to break up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years. He is no longer making any effort with me, and despite me bringing it up several times and him prom...

Am I being used? I want more than to just be his FWB

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - So there's this guy I've known since high school. We are the same age. Both came out of really bad relationships. We are friends. I went over to his house one day we ended up doing things. Then afterwards, he says "I'm not sure what this means ...

Is it best to just forget this guy? I know I deserve better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I am legally separated from my husband and will be going to be divorced soon. I have made plenty of friends online for the last 3 years. One of them, a guy and I have become quite close. We have been chatting on skype for 2 weeks. There was a l...

Why is she like this? What is wrong with my sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - Hi all well I have something on my mind and heart it's my sister we are always at each other's throats . But it's not me I don't argue with her I just let her talk to a certain extent. The problem is my mom is sick and she made me her Power of Att...

Do you think moving in together without an engagement is a good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I wanted to get your take on being engaged before moving in together. I've been with my significant other (SO) for almost 4 years. I am 24, just finishing up my last year of University. He is 28, finished college two years ago and is still str...

Is it that he is no longer attracted to me the way he used to be? I find it very hurtful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years .. Sometimes the way he looks at me makes me feel like he isn't attracted to me anymore .. I feel that way because I have noticed him looking at a few females and he really doesn't look...

Do I wait? hope? or just break up with her? Because I think she may have feelings for another guy who reminds her of her ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - I'm in college. Over the summer I was at home and started talking to this girl online, who also lives in the area. We had common friends and began talking for hours every night. I had very strong feelings for her but she was reluctant because for ...

Despite my huge weight loss I have a legacy of low self esteem and shyness due to how things used to be. How can I overcome this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - i have had low self esteem my whole life... recently i lost 40lbs (through sports and good eating habits) and feel like people act differently to me ("nicer" basically). before, i used to feel invisible... usually, nobody would ever pay attenti...

Why is this girl suddenly acting so weird around me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - This girl is someone from my class which I now know for 2 months(I am 20 and she is 18 btw). In the beginning there wasn't much going on, but when we met each other we had some nice conversations and she even was a bit more okay around me. Then w...

In the beginning he would not listen to my 'no'. But now I think he's cheating and telling lies. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4403 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend since High School, we broke up and became friends during my last two years of High School so we started dating other people. When i started my first year in college he was not going to school so he would come to my ...

What can you suggest? I'm faithful always, but I feel like she holding my sex life hostage.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - I'm 29 and my girlfriend is 27. We've been together for 5 years, lived together for 4. Our relationship is and has been going well in most respects. We rarely argue and suit each other nicely. Unfortunately we have fairly different sex drives...

I'm worried for my sister who's involved with a known cheater.Can cheaters ever change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - Can cheaters really change? I ask because my sister has started going out with a guy I know from uni who has cheated on all of his past girlfriends and I am a bit worried. He was always quite open about his cheating with his friends (they were all ...

Scared I'll miss him if we break-up. But I feel neglected and second best. Any advice on how to manage this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (F) - I think I should leave my boyfriend of 3 years but I'm scared to because I know I'm going to miss him so much. Can anyone give me some advice on whether this is normal or if it means I shouldn't do it? Here is some background on the reasons I have ...

She's a twin. How can I start up a conversation with her? Seeing as we don't have any classes together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - 21-year old community college student here. There's this girl I really like who I see around every so often and I think she's really pretty. Only problem is I don't have any classes with her or really know her, her identical twin sister was in one ...

I have some regrets about my LDR. I think I give too much. How can I overcome these feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

9 December 2012 (M) - Im in a ldr with a wonderful girl and we love each other very much. When i met her i was pursuing my dream job, having job interviews etc. When things got serious and we became exclusive she had to go back to her country to complete school ...