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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

What should my next move be with this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - a guy declared his love to me about two weeks ago, but i told him i couldn´t just go with him because i was dating this other guy who's been longer with me. Though we might break up. I told guy#1 that i wouldn't break up with my guy because of h...

Her Fiance was caught cheating. How can I help her see him more clearly and help her heal from her blinded love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - how can i convince my friend that her to-be-husband is not worth keeping? all her family have had many doubts before with no hard evidence, but now he has been caught with a women in their village. Relatives saw them and told her. Yet she wouldn...

How can I determine if he is just a really nice guy, or is he also interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - I am 19 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend. I've never been kissed, asked out, or even had anybody hold my hand. I think this is because I use to give off an aura that I wasn't approachable, but that isn't the case anymore. I really ...

Did my Ex ever really move on? Why does he still get so mad at me? How am I annoying him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - Ok everyone, here it goes. Sorry if I am rambling a bit. Lately, I have been having trouble with my EX. I should add that it has been a year and a half since we split…..we are both in our 30's. He broke it off with me, saying he wasn't ready...

What can I do? My husband focuses on details in an argument to avoid answering questions! Drives me nuts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - My husband and I just got married in September, after being together two and a half years. We were driving home from his friends house the other night and talking about relationships and how funny people can get when they notice one small thing ab...

I'm the one with the crush. And he has a Gf. Am I getting mixed signals from him or does he just really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4398 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - I've know this guy for about 2yrs, we met at my job (I work at a bank and he deposits there). Even though I've known him for 2 yrs, we started talking about a year ago. We get along well. we sort of have the same sense of humor so when we are a...

I thought he was cool. But he's talking about me to others and my private messages to him are being re-posted to others. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - I like this guy because he seems cool and funny but not romantically. sometimes i send him pms. however he is making a huge deal out of it. apparently he's been telling people i pm him and now they are joking saying i'm his gf. They are talking abou...

Is he just bored and curious that he's looking up all these women on Facebook? Or should I be concerned? I'm losing trust in him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - I have an issue I'm needing help with. I've recently found out that my husband has been looking up his ex wife, my ex best friend and several (even our next door neighbor's daughter who used to work at hooters) other chicks on Facebook to the exte...

I'm a straight guy with a fetish. Can this fetish be satisfied? And if not, then how can I move on from this fetish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

8 December 2012 (M) - I am a 26 year old mostly straight male. Ever since I was in my early teens, I have been extremely aroused at the idea of hanging with a buddy and us both being shirtless with our arms around each other. At times when I've been able to do this, wh...

He was so happy about the baby. But will he still be there for me now that he's moved on? I can't let go of him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4396 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - hi I'm new in this thing. Five months pregnant, my bf of 5years just broke up with me. When this happened I found some msgs in his phone to another gal telling her he wants to sleep with her, I confronted him about it he admitted it. And I apologis...

LDR of 3 years--she sent me fake photos of herself from porn sites! Why did she lie to me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4401 days ago

8 December 2012 (M) - I feel like such an idiot. I've been in a long distance relationship for more than three years. I'm in the UK and she's in Australia. We met on the internet, but quickly moved on to talking on the phone, and we'd talk for hours every day. For v...

How do I create a good impression when I meet family of my boyfriend next week?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - OKAY Development: my bf's brother invited me round next week after 5 months and I want to make a good impression and look good. Do you have any amazing tips other than 'being myself' he is still very embarrassed and I am terrified. My bf's b...

I like two of my cousins. They are both great guys but I don't know which one to choose. Help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - HI, Sorry if this seems long now by some chance,but i really need advice! So Basically, There are these two guys which i like,but the problem is that they are both cousins. The thing is like i like one of the guys because he is gorgeous, extr...

Can I fix my marriage? If the answer is "yes", then what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (M) - my wife and i are at the end of our marriage, I think. I made mistakes. When I was dating her i was also dating another. I proposed to her with hickies from another woman on me. While married i felt feelings for her sister for 2 weeks and just r...

Why am I so hesitant about having sex with this man? What could be holding me back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - I met this man on an online dating site. The first time we went out he scared me be the way he was over excited to see me. He literally ran towards me to hug me I felt so frightened that I automatically put my hands up. We had talked on the ph...

Am I texting too much? Do my old classmate and I have a budding LDR or not?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - I recently saw an old classmate on FB. He graduated 79 and I 80. So he sent me his number and I called well at first it was merely to just chat with the guy that caught my eye way back when but I was with my boyfriend who later became my husban...

Is he over his ex wife? I feel like his second best wife, considering his need to still keep pictures of his ex.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4402 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - Hi could you please give me some advice?? I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and have been really happy. The problem is that recently he has put some old pictures on his pc. These pictures are from years ago of his kids growing up ...

How can I avoid becoming one of her punching bags at work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - What makes some people fly off the handle so quickly? There is this woman at work. I have heard her get so aggressive so quickly at work. She acts like she has to fight so fiercely over issues that are nothing more than day to day things. So far I ...

Is he being too needy or am I just wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4404 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - Hey all! I always have received amazing advice from this site and I really need some now. There is this guy, let's call him S. S and I have been friends since a few months. We were introduced through common friends. I found him to be nice and dece...

Should I try to develop a relationship with her? I don't want to cause an office drama

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4397 days ago

8 December 2012 (?) - I am madly infatuated with my female coworker. Sometimes, I get the impression that she is just a player. She is my office girl, who helps out with my paperwork. I had asked her out for lunch once before, and she said her car had to go in for repa...

How do I deal with my anxiety over this science teacher? She puts me on the spot, I want to run from the room.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - Hi... Okay this is going to sound proper weird but recently we got a new science teacher for chemistry... me and my bf are in the same class and he said he is good at chemistry because he has chemists in his family. Thing is we met in science li...

What do I need to consider and keep in mind to attract the positive attention and interest of girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (M) - People have told me that I could be good with girls. My friends and family tell me that I'm not ugly and that I could I get a girlfriend if I wanted to. (I don't have any female friends) Whenever I'm at school I walk by myself or sit by myself an...

Did I ruin the relationship, due to my dislike of porn? Or are there bigger issues of concern in this relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4359 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - Disclaimer: This is long but I really need advice and help. Please! I'm having a hard time letting go of my ex boyfriend. We were together for 20 months and just broke up last Sunday. We were living together the past 2.5 months. He was my first ...

Is my feeling likely to be accurate? That my boyfriend is being deceitful in our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - DearCupid I have been with a guy for 5 1/2 years. I really love him very much but I feel he is being deceitful in our relationship. I have a friend (female) that whenever she comes around he acts completely different towards me and towards her....

We broke up after we argued. How can I convince her to give me another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4400 days ago

8 December 2012 (F) - My Gf almost made it 2 years together, but we Got in this huge Fight, we always fight but never this bad.. We were texting each other and she told me she Loves me but we can't be together. I didn't know how to respond so i just said Alright....