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Archived questions from: 27 December, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I don't want him back. Yet feel like I was never important to him. What are some coping strategies I can use?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So im currently single going through a breakup. my ex and I have been dating for about 4 years, and we have been broken up for about two months now. At first i was really strong about the whole thing and im completly sure about my decision but...

His family all have health issues. Is this a high risk situation, if we want to settle and have children together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles. I am wondering what is your take on this. I am dating this great guy, who is very serious about me and we have discussed marriage and kids. He has great potential, and we both have nice lucrative careers and by the t...

Six months of dating, but he never says, 'i love you'. How can I be sure of his love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Im 32 years old and my bf is 21..weve been dating for 6 months now. I love him and i always show and tell that to him. but im not sure if he loves me, he doesnt say the words 'I love you'..but i can feel that he cares for me..not just by text. he...

Texting him for 4 months. Then he suggested FWB. Then ignored me totally. Am I right to be concerned by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I've been texting this guy for around 4 months now and a few weeks ago we both told each other we like each other. Since then we've been texting everyday and have planned to meet up and go out somewhere. I should also mention that he also suggested ...

As it's her home area shall I ask her first where she'd like to go on our first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - So I think I might be into this girl. After we get back to college from Christmas break, I'm gonna see if she wants to go out. Where we go to school is her hometown, so she has her car, and she already has her favorite places, and knows everywhere...

Feeling bruised but not broken. How do I move on? And why is moving on so hard after a breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - Why is moving on so hard? My ex and I broke up in November and now I found out he has a brand new girlfriend. Even though our romance was short-lived,I'm still heartbroken. I'm doing all that I can to move on. I even unfriended a mutual friend of...

Why did he wait so long to contact me? Then ask about a present, for him? Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4348 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I met up with this guy who is my friend's colleague We both know that my friend want to introduce us to each other that is why she organised the meetup. According to my friend, this guy is quite shy and not proactive in talking to girls and doesn'...

He needs to accept that NO is an answer. Surely, if he cared, he's stop asking for anal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So I've been with my partner 2 years. He wanted to try anal since we got together but until a few months ago I said no. Well a few months ago I let him try and I hated it. Add to this I was in pain for 3 days. I thought to let him try twice mo...

We are both 18. He's a virgin. But his technique needs work. How do I teach him without offending him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I'm a 18 y/o female, not a virgin. I've only had one sexual partner but he was a lot older and more experienced guy, so the sex was great! He taught me a lot... However I'm now going out with an 18 year old virgin, who hasn't done Anything sexual.....

He "remembers me how good the sex was"? Was that all I ever was to him? I'm so hurt by this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So it’s been 1 1/2 months since my ex and I broke up and I've slowly started to rebuild up my strength until he decided text me last night out of the blue . He was just asking what I was up to and if I like any boys. He mentioned how word got out...

Ruined meal! I am disappointed with my friends and I don't know how to tell them how much. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I know there are people on here with real problems but if you could please take a minute to read my post I'd appreciate it. I feel really let down and annoyed by my so called friends. The 4 of us were trying to arrange a meal out before Chr...

I want a relationship with trust and honesty!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I have caught my boyfriend on dating sites 5 times this year. He has promised to stop doing it from now on. He said that all the other times too. I find all i do lately is look for evidence of him doing it again. Just like i have done in the past ...

I want somebody to love.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

27 December 2012 (?) - I feel like I will never be able to be successful with women. The only girls I have ever been good at flirting with are ones I am not actually attracted to deeply. I'm a virgin at 19 and am going through medicine. I had an ex who I was with for 2 ...

I packed my bags and left after he hid me from his mother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2years going into our 3rd. We have been living together for 2years straight. Last year he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend and i forgave him. Earlier this year we went for an HIV test and discovered he was HIV+...

My Bf is totally reluctant to have sex. At all. How do I approach a conversation with him about this so we can work it out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - So my boyfriend is not interested in sex. I know it has nothing to do with me. This is just who he is. His previous relationships have had the same problem. One relationship ended because of it. I have no interest in breaking up with him as ...

Has my Gf broken up with me? Due to my phone re-set I can't call her. No a word since last friday? What am I supposed to make of this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - So i been on christmas Break for a couple days now, and i havent heard from my Gf Once. :/ The last time we talked was on Friday because i went over her house so we could spend some time Together. I been waiting for her to text me, call me and it's...

Why is my wife's family and my wife keeping big secrets from me? Why is my wife saying she loves me when clearly saying otherwise to others? what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (M) - Hello, My wife and I live across a ocean! She is doing her post grad studies back home and I am working in Europe. Two months after I left for work and medical reasons (operation) my wife started seeing some guy. She had told her friends th...

Never got over my first crush. Lots of health problems since. What can I change so future relationships are more successful?

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27 December 2012 (F) - - This post is long. i'm sorry. Lets just call me 'M' and my first love 'J' I'm quite young, 17 and i fell in love with J at first sight 5 years ago. My heart pounded, my cheeks were always flushed and i kept stammering. Naive i know, but tha...

He did this in the past, before we met. The image of this in my head is disturbing. How can I get over my disgust that he once had a threesome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - My boyfriend recently admitted to me that he has had a threesome in the past. I questioned him some about it, and he had went into some detail and even said that at the end the both of them "sucked him off and shared his load." I felt comp...

Enough is enough! His alcoholism has resulted in him threatening me and make me feel insecure. What can I do and where can I seek help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

27 December 2012 (F) - I have been married for 13 yrs, my husband had been drinking since I met him it didn't use to bother me at first. This is because he will act nice and become nicer later. But lately he had become aggressive. Everytime he drinks he will start acti...