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Archived questions from: 21 December, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

My LDR seems sweet and gentle. I'm a virgin. Last night I found out he's into sadistic/masochistic sex. How do I deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I'm going to try and keep this as brief as possible. Last night I learned that my long-distance boyfriend is into sadistic/masochistic sex. I'm really surprised, because he's a really sweet and gentle guy. I'm a virgin, with zero sexual activit...

I don't want to seem over-eager and put him off. But is our friendship moving towards something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I started my new college four months ago and in my class there was this guy who has caught my eye. So, after a few lessons; acknowledging that we were both in one class, I added him on facebook and asked him a question about an assignment for our ...

Have I missed out? Is it normal to be 16 to still be a virgin in 2012? And not be interested in illicit drugs? Aand to not have dated yet?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4388 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - Hello everyone. I am a 16 year old guy and im in 6th form and i live in the UK. Ok so i am here because i always see people on here who are around 13 - 17 talking about sex and relationships and even at school or in the outside world and i have ...

Long term family friend has confessed, when drunk, that he's depressed. But so far he's not getting treatment. What is the right thing for me to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4380 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - Let me just give you some background. My friend and I have known each other since birth. Our parents and families are friends. We grew up together and went to the same school and are in a big friendship group together. He is well liked and respec...

He flirts with me, is buying me a Christmas present. But he's with another girl. What to do about my huge crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4389 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I don't know how to put it into words! Erm well it's nearly Christmas and I like this boy and he likes me back. I went out with him once for like a week about 1 month ago but I broke up with him because this other girl who liked him started thre...

We work in the same building. She initiated the conversation. Could there be a chance that she's interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - I work in quite a large organisation in a big office building. For the past 3 days I have walked from the car park into the building behind the same girl. This has been purely coincidental however I won't complain as she is very beautiful. Tod...

Should I confront my wife or am I being paranoid about her possibly chatting with other men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - We have been married for 5 years. Unfortunately live in seperate locations because of work(different continents !) We are committed to getting back together physically in a few months(move work location). My predicament is this, i believe she ...

Upsetting breakup. then the silent treatment. Is she putting up emotional barriers just to push me away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - So my ex broke up with me 3 months ago after I broke her heart by writing a goodbye message to her and ignoring her for two weeks, then showing up like nothing happened. (I was angry at her for a number of reasons, which I should have talked to her ...

Facebook first? Or should I wait until we meet at this meal with our mutual friends? What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - i liked this girl and we became friends, and i got to know a few of her friends. I told her i liked her and she said she didn't want a boyfriend at the time. She said that i should meet her friend as i remind her of her friend. This was before i to...

I broke up with her but now I don't feel right without her. I'm confused about my feelings. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - i am sooo confused My gf and I went out for about 1 month and i broke up with her, as i didnt feel it was the right time. When I was with her i wasn't that bothered but when i'm not with her i really want her. I really have no idea what to do, ple...

I'm second guessing my decision to leave my cheating husband

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - Hi. I've just separated after being with this guy since I was a teenager. Now in my 30s with 2 kids he's all I ever knew. He claimed cheated on me and when i said im leaving, he claimed to be gutted, said he was seeing a counsellor, and taking a...

How can I get my obsessed ex to leave me alone? He's not interested in his son, only me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4391 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - My child's father is obsessed with me he refuses to leave me alone I'm with somebody else now but my child's father refuses to leave me alone,his always calling me and I don't answer his calls he would text me. He is not worried about our son,my...

How can I break this cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

21 December 2012 (M) - i have double standards about girls. i've been in love a couple of times and been cheated, while i'm in a relationship im always faithful but i think i have some misogyny problems too. long story short i come from a very dysfunctional family, my ...

I reached out to the friend with whom my husband cheated and I'm afraid it might backfire

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I will start at the very beginning, my husband and I have been together since I was 13 and he was 15. We were each others one and only for a very long time. When I was 20 I cheated on him, knew it was wrong came clean within a month and it was...

He doesn't want to get married anymore and he says he meant his proposal "at the time"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4390 days ago

21 December 2012 (F) - I will try and keep this brief...... My boyfriend ask me to marry him over a year ago, however whenever i try to talk about the wedding he says that he doesn't want to get married and he meant the proposal " at the time"!! He has met all my...