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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

The past is ruining our future, how can I leave the past behind me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been in a great relationship for five years with my boyfriend. I love him a lot, and most of the time things are really good between us. Unfortunately, we've had a long distance relationship because he moved back to Argentin...

Huge strain on our relationship because BF still talks to his ex and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hi my name is Mila, I am in a relationship and I am not sure what to do. In January I started talking to a guy in my college, I had seen him before but did not think much of it. After the first day of talking to him he seemed like a good guy ...

I allowed an out of town friend to stay at my house and now my boyfriend doesn't trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - My friends, am back again yet with another issue, what happened last saturday is something i did without thinking and i didnt now the outcome,we were having drinks with my boyfriend and two of his friends and one of his friend brought another ...

Questions regarding a threesome...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

30 June 2011 (?) - My boyfriend really wants a threesome. It will be me and him (obviously) and one of his friends, who is male. I have told him i wasnt interested but he is kinda talking me into it. however i do need some questions asking. Is it a good idea to be ha...

Emotionally abusive, untrusting, 10 year older boyfriend wants kids with me NOW, or else he's gone.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. Some background info for my question: I'm 22, my boyfriend is 32. We've been living together about 2 years. We have had some problems in the past due to his emotional unstability. He has been jealous and paranoid, he has been emo...

Can guys really just be friends with girls, even when they have a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I imagine the question is relative to every guy, so I would like your own personal opinion, plus your opinion on what this guy's true intentions are. Of course, I know they can't be accurate as you don't know him personally and truthfully, but any ...

He thought he had found proof that I was bi

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (?) - My fiance asked if he could play with my ipod at work (he likes this bird game and scrabble lol) I told him it was fine with me,he took it to work and then 5 hrs later He is saying "we need to talk" I texted him "why?" and he told me he found a half ...

I used to think he loved me, flaws and all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - MODERATOR'S NOTE: 2 Questions from same asker combined. Question for men. If you are watching a movie and a nude woman is in the scene, does it turn you on? what does it make you feel or think? Truthfully, I never thought too much about this befo...

He likes her but says he loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year now and we talked about getting engaged and married and stuff like that. Well we also had this mutal friend that was single so i decided to hooked him up with a girl i knew since i ...

Why did he have to push me away while filling out his personal details in the form?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Today I went shopping with the guy that I have been seeing. We were at a department store where if you apply for their credit card, you get 15% discount on your purchases. So he applied for the card. But 2 things stood out to me. First, he's a ...

Do women give men too much leeway in relationships? And too readily take him back after break-ups?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Simple question for ladies and gentlemen....Do women tend to give men too much leeway in relationships? Do women take men back too often, too soon, too much after they have been done wrong?...

This girl is confusing me, but the sexual tension is still there

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - We really liked each other, a LOT. Then she saw her ex of 2 years and had to get over him so I gave her space and we didn't talk as much. She has been initiating Facebook chat with me ever since. So she likes me, but realized she had to get her head ...

Does it sound like my BF cheated on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - This girl told me my boyfriend had cheated on me with her in her car. He denied every bit of it (there has been several rumors of him cheating) so I told him to call the girl in front of me so I know he wasn't lying, well he refused to do that. ...

My husband is critical, threatens to leave our extended family and I don't work and now feel trapped. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 22 years. He is very critical of just about everything I do. He tells me he loves me and wants to do everything with me. He is constantly accusing me of having affairs. We are a blended family with 5 children, ...

My GF is spending time with her ex, how should I handle it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend met up with her ex at Glastonbury! I am having a really hard time getting my head round this and am wondering if this is the beginning of the end. My girlfriend of nearly 5 months has an ex who she finished with in Sep 10 who ...

Legitimate trust issue or commitment-phobic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I am almost 41 years old, never been married, never even close really. In the past, I tended to go from one girl to the next...break ups do litter my past probably more than others. All of my friends are married or have a marriage ofr two under ...

How can I find my father who my mother tried in every way to exclude from my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I am a female, 46 years old, married with own family. I have a very weird relationship with my birth mother who refuses to discuss anything about my father to whom she was married to. As far as I can remember as a young child my mother's ...

Is his attitude to spacing out the sex to keep passion alive normal? Or is he lying?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - umm my bf of a year doesnt have sex with me really often when i asked him about it he says that hes one of those guys who after a while the passion for sex with that girl fades and he doesnt want me to fade thats why he spaces it out. he shocked me ...

I only see him fleetingly. Will my solution to get closer to this cute guy work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - So, there's this cute boy that I get to see every day for like... five seconds. That's all. We are PERFECT strangers, and because I really don't have the time to talk to him (my bus gets in basically at the same time as I see him), it's probably ...

Crush or boyfriend? They are both best friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Ok so I need some help. I was dating this guy for almost two months then i broke up with him because i kinda have trust issues, since I was really young. Well we broke up for like three days then I went back to him because I really liked him still. ...

Is he using me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi, thank you for taking the time to read my question. I feel like there is a need for a background but I'll try to be brief. Thank you for helping me! My boyfriend is 21 yrs old and I am 23 (we're both from Latin America, attending colleg...

She never told me !! should I bring it up or leave it incase it hurts her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I have been with my wife 19 years. We have been married for 10 years. Recently, she reconnected with an old college friend of hers. This was a girl that I knew back in the day, too, as I met my wife in college and she was roommates with this ...

Were married, I don't want her meeting up with him !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - Back in April I caught my wife texting a friend of hers in ways I did not think were appropriate. They were arranging to meet for dinner and drinks without me knowing, for instance. I sat her down and asked her what the deal was. She told me that...

My GF has severe insecurity issues. How can I explain to her that her feelings are unwarranted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

28 June 2011 (M) - I think my girlfriend is insecure. To be fair here, I am a 39 separated guy. I have been separated for a while from my wife and it was by my choice and her and DO NOT want to work it out but there is a child between us. I am in the construction ...

Are all men like this? He says I make it too obvious we are dating when we are out togther. My parents don't like him either.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4900 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - hey. ok here goes. i have this bf for almost a year and i love him a lot, my parents do not want me to have anything to do with him cause he's from a different country to mine and they do not trust people from his country. They say they are all bad,...

Do I deserve the same second chance I gave her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 21 months. Back in November, I found out by looking in her laptop that she had been talking inappropriately to other guys. That hurt me a lot and I forgave and forgot so we could move on after she apologized. Now, ...

I don't trust her, how can I build up that trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

27 June 2011 (M) - Okay. I'm not going to get into specifics but my girlfriend basically ruined my trust in her. I guess technically she's my ex girlfriend. She showed up on my door step the other week saying she realized how horribly she treated me and she missed me ...

He brought his ex but not me !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Hiya, I have a problem that I'm not sure if it is a real problem or not!! My Fiancée and I have been dating for two years, living together for one year and getting married next year. He has just dropped it on me that he wants to go camping with...

How can I cope with my fear of losing my boyfriend? Its eating me up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Dear all, please help. I came out of a horrible year long relationship wih an abusive guy that used to disappear for weeks at a time and give me the silent treatment. I completly lost my confidence, and got depressed. Anyway,it;s now over and I have ...

My BF has cheated on me so much and half the time it was when he was intoxicated and at parties, that I just can't trust him to go without me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for a little over 2 years. I am 17 years old and he is just about to turn 21. We met when I was a freshman and he was a senior so obviously, the age difference didn't really matter to us to the extreme. ...

I cant trust men because of my past! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

27 June 2011 (?) - I need help I cant trust men at all...My real father would beat my mother and he cheated on my mom and left us,I always had BAD relationships with men and I was cheated on by a ex a yr ago when I was 17 and he lied to me a lot and bullied me. I ...

He's nothing like my ex, so how can I get over this fear of being controlled?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I was in a realtionship for a year and 4 months with a guy that was controlling and emotionally abusive. We broke up in March and I haven't regretted it once. Let's call him Joe. Joe would be mad at me if I was texting ANYONE that was a guy, ...

BF claims he hasn't used his online dating account in over a year. Then how is it that it showed recent activity? Can there really be glitches like that? Could someone have used his account to log in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I have been exclusively seeing someone for about six months now. He treats me well, I see him everyday and talk on the phone with him everyday. We've said we both love each other and things seem to be going well. He told me that a long time...

Crazy Sexist Guy Keeps Calling Me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - This guy and I have been dating for like a few months so far. He has proven to be a person I don't feel I can trust. He seems like the player/liar type and when he doesn't get his way he tends to try to guilt trip you or make you feel like your the ...

My boyfriend's best friend is a girl, and I feel jealous when they hang out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's best friend is a girl. She's a good friend of mine and really nice and we're pretty close. I don't want to, but every time he hangs out with her (which is like everyday) I get jealous. Recently, I've been on a 9 day trip and every day ...

I'm worried that my boyfriend will meet another girl at university. How can I be more confident, and overcome the unease/trust issues that distance brings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm in an LDR and my boyfriend is going into first year university next year at a specialized school for people who share his talents and interests. We are very different, the whole "opposites attract" idea. I am worried he will find a girl...

Is there any hope for this relationship or is Gambling Addiction the real problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently broke up over some confusing circumstances. Background : We had been together just over a year, I am 28 he is almost 24. After first meeting we were together practically 24/7 and we were very happy. 7 Months into the ...

Are these red flags? Do you think he's hiding something from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - I could really use some advise and wise words about this guy I've been seeing. I met him online, we emailed back and forth for a week before meeting in person. I think everyone knows the dangers of online dating and the creeps out there, so I'...

He doesn't trust me and I don't know what to do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so I feel like I have a little dilemma here. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We have known who each other was for over 10 years now, but ran into each other again last year and started dating. We are both divorced, ...

She tells me she was seeing another guy for the week we were broken up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - my girlfriend keep breaking up with me and saying she cant do this anymore but then a week later she come back to me and then tells me she was seeing another guy for that week we were broken up i dont know what to do i lover but i dont think she ...

I just found out my ex cheated, but I'm still in love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

26 June 2011 (M) - me and my girlfriend were dating for 3 years. i found out that she liked and was talking to this kid she was going to college with. i freaked out and we broke up. 3 weeks later she started dating him. now were talking again after 8 months and ...

Chat lines, porn and web cams: healthy or disgusting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - hi guys i would just like all sorts of oppinions on chat lines and porn and even web cams , do u think that they r classed as cheating or in a healthy relationship wherre there is trust that these things can be accepted i would love to hear peoples ...

Most girls worry about other girls trying on with their boyfriends. I worry about his friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4901 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - hey, i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now, we're planning on going on holidays, moving in etc etc :) but he has this friend. its a man friend. and he is very weird! i look at the messages he says, and some of them are like really...

I've made a mess. How do I tell my best friend I had sex with her boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) - I have been dating this guy for two years. (Lets call him, Kyle.) And everything was perfect. He would send me flowers just because... not many guys do that! He also is very big on his religion and respects me. Kyle is sweet and amazing. All my ...

My jealous brother is try to break up my family. How can I stop him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4902 days ago

25 June 2011 (M) - my question is how can i keep my jealous brother away from me and my family. He is trying to break use apart? ...

What is wrong with me? Two months now. Will I ever get over my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - What is wrong with me? when will I get better? I loved my ex boyfriend so much. He was so nice and sweet. I was so happy with him. But he broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. Two months later he rang me saying he wants us to be f...

Is he lying? Am I over reacting? Or how could this problem happen with the phone?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

25 June 2011 (?) - Hey Everyone, I have a serious problem ....Ok myself and my fiance are in love and we live together hes a great man I never once had him cheat on me or anything. but today I found something that really upset me and he says he didn't do it, what ...

I need to know how important is it to guys that your Gf/wife is a virgin? And why?

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - I was just curious... Does it really matter to guys that the girl they want to marry or want to spent the rest of their lives with is a virgin or not??? I mean I don't see the reason why this has to be a big issue with couples.... For me all I ever ...

Why was she so nasty when there was no reason for her to be jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4903 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - Shortly after my bf and I had a huge fight and pretty much broken up one of his friends who is a girl came up to me. She thought she knew all about me and the situation. She started calling me ugly and other putdowns. She said she might as well ad...

Should I try to fix this or just move on? We both have trouble compromising.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

25 June 2011 (F) - My bf and I have been in this situation for few months and we are still fixing it. Well the problem is neither of us wants to give way and compromise. He has been rude to me lately and out of my anger in return I'm being stubborn and don't list...