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Most girls worry about other girls trying on with their boyfriends. I worry about his friend!

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Question - (26 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey,

i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now, we're planning on going on holidays, moving in etc etc :)

but he has this friend. its a man friend. and he is very weird!

i look at the messages he says, and some of them are like really possesive :S ' why are you always with your girlfriend' and ' be on xbox at 12' 'why weren't you online when i said?' 'you spend too much time with your girlfriend when are u coming to see me?'

what the fuck right? thats exactly how i feel!!!

he is a very rich, and unlike him my boyfriend isn't. his friend always takes him too london and takes him fancy restaurants! and then the other month my boyfriend had told me he's been paying him back all the money his 'friend' the money that he spent on him. i am very annoyed about it cos i know he doesnt have to pay him back. its over £2000!!! its the money he spent willingly on him!! why does my boyfriend have to give it him back!?

and then last month they both did a run for charity and my boyfriend raised a lot of money for. his friends mum and sister were there and stayed in a hotel so his friend wanted him and my boyfriend to stay in another hotel :S wtf????? i was furious cos not only were they staying in another hotel which was double of the amount, it was just a double bed!!!!!!! what the actual fuck!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (he posted a video of the room on fb)

i know my boyfriend isnt gay. but his friend is just such a prick! and then after a couple of days he was texting me asking what my problem was and kept texting me even tho i wasnt replying.

im really worried for my boyfriend cos this 'friend' is really possessive about where he is, who his with :S for goodness sake im his gf surely i should be worried.

Most girls worry about other girls trying on with their boyfriends. i worry about his friend!!!!

what the heck can i do or say!!!????

sorry its really long :(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2011):

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he cant afford it himself i tell him not too go but his friend begs him to go and its not fair. my boyfriend is like his only friend lol.

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