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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Am I setting myself up for a fall?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

31 December 2007 (M) - I'm in my early forties and started a relationship with a woman in her thirties studying in a nearby city; she's from abroad, and returned to her home country after we'd been seeing each other for several weeks. By arrangement, I went to stay with ...

I found hair in our bed that is NOT mine, my boyfriend won't explain, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I've been having some problems with my boyfriend lately. we've been together for quite a while now. He's been trying to make up what he did to me, and we've been seeing each other and trying to get our relationship back to normal. Just yesterday we ...

Problems with her ex bf--he keeps contacting her and I don't like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6207 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - I have been in my present relationship for a period of about 2 and half years. All is fine, we live together and in nearly all areas of our relationship we get on well, except one! Before we meet she had split with a guy 3 months previously who, she ...

Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Is it a bad idea to let any potential bf know that you have been in an abusive relationship? Could this make you more open to abusers? At what stage is it safe to let someone know that you were in an abusive relationship? ...

His mistress is pregnant and is threatening-- that my husband cannot see his child if he remains with me!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I found out about a year ago that my husband was having an affair. I was devestated. However we dealt with it and I forgave him. After he broke up with her, things were to my knowledge really good, and I felt like we were going to make it. However ...

Am I being paranoid thinking he had another girl over??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I don't know if i am being paranoid or not. My b/f of three years bought a new toliet seat cover and it was laying there for awhile. Meanwhile--in the three years that i have been with him--he has never really straighted up anything(like placing ...

I told my insecure gf to move on if she did not trust me. She did. What can I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - my girlfriend of 8 months recently broke up,due to me telling her if she did not trust me to move on. she is very insecure. she slept with a person 2 nights in a row and says he showed her the attention she was wanting. she will not talk to me for ...

I discovered my husband's infidelity, now he is very insecure, afraid I'd leave him. Why is he doing this? How can I help him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

29 December 2007 (?) - I caught my husband in an affair, I have forgiven him now he never wants to be alone, it is as if I had the affair. I feel as if he is afraid I am going to leave him, I told him I love him, but I will never love him the same or feel the same as ...

I love her very much but am scared we have been living a lie.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - My wife and I met 20 years ago and it was love at first sight. She and I had both had lots of lovers before and I had been married. On our first date she said something to me that I took with a pinch of salt and thought she was joking. "I am a ...

My wife and mother of my child admitted she has been cheating accusing the fact she's been feeling neglected. Now I doubt her fidelity during the 2 years she spent abroad. What can you advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - Hello everyone, I just came across this site some few days ago as part of my grieving for what has dramatically happened in my marriage of four years now. Looking at the questions and the invaluable advice that has been given to other people in ...

My bf thinks I'm cheating because I called another number by mistake instead of his.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for over a year, i am 16 and hes my first, anyway, he thinks im cheating on him and the other day, we was arguing on the phone while he was at work, so my mum took the phone away from me so i couldnt ring him, so a few ...

How do I choose between my boyfriend and staying with my parents who need my help and support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - hello, I love both of my parents, and I hate to see my mom work so hard for so little money. I want to help her by opening up a busisness; but I am currently on a long distance relationshp and I am kind of stuck in the middle. I want to help my ...

My long distance boyfriend is living like a single in a constant party when I'm not around. I feel it hard totrust him, am I too controlling or what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I am currently on a long distance relationship and what is upsetting me right now is that my bf is like living the single life when I am not around. He goes out with friend to bars to drink and have fun. I do not mind that he goes out but, there ...

We were supposed to go to the movies but they stood me up without even calling me, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Well, what can i say, This guy i work with, we planned to go to the movies,(it was supposed to be me, my cousin, this guy, and a girl that like him). So, the thing is they never showed up. Is this because they wanted to be alone, or is it because ...

She left me after 3 years and I don't understand what happened, what is she trying to do to me? Is it too late for us to fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6208 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - my xgirlfriend left me after 3 years.we never fight, we always got alone.well she left me befor hollween this year.I was going to ask her lets go out to eat and she said no and i was shocked i was going to be nice.well she said we got to talk well ...

All I do is flirt and talk sexy for harmless fun, yet he sees it as cheating. Am I mad to be with such a man?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I am horrified to find my fiance has been using aliases to make dates with me on chat sites. When he found my first profile i changed it. Somehow he found my other and strung me along. I am livid. How dare he! I feel invaded, he is pathetic. Sad ...

He told me he will have lunch with his ex and mentioned some bad things about her, why would he talk negatively about her to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

28 December 2007 (?) - I've been dating this guy for about a month. I know a month is not long at all, but we see each other pretty often, talk every day and he seems to be really into me. We are both 25. He went to visit his family in his hometown for the holidays and ...

He lied to me so I broke up but I still love him, how can I forget him and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6209 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hi all, i really need some advice i am so confused. 3 month ago my boyfriend sent a flattering messageto a girl(saying how no1 can be as beautiful as her). He sent it to me by mistake. We broke up. He said it was a girl in work, even told me where ...

One minute he didn't want me anymore, the next he's acting like we are a full on couple. I don't understand.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend recently split up with me mid-december, claiming that he could not handle our relationship and was jealous of my friendships with other men. He stayed in touch with me over the course of the last few weeks and only a week after ...

My boyfriend has been cheating and now possibly has 2 other children beside our son. I'm really tired and confused now, how do I work this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been on and off for alittle over 4 years. We've both cheated and forgave each other and I thought we moved on but a few months ago we moved out of town together and he cheated. Then I found out that he may have two ...

How can I get him to appreciate me and really understand how much I do care about him and how much he is hurting me deep down inside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My best guy friend and I are both 16.Have been friends for alittle over a year now.We're extremly close,and dont get me wrong,I love to spoil my friends.But everytime we go out I pay for the food,movies,everything! He always says how much he ...

Is he using me or is he serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hey guys! I really need some help here. So, I've known this guy for about 4 months and we're really good friends. We hang out together alot and Recently, I had a formal dance and he was my date. a week later, we started getting really physical...

I cheated on my girlfriend and now she doesn't want much to do with me, should I keep trying to win her back or leave her alone and let her do what she wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - I was dating a girl 11 months. I cheated on her with a girl it was my fault I went to her house but i left after a minute because I felt terrible. I told my girlfriend and its been over since. We hung out everyday we did everything together pretty m...

We have jealousy issues on both sides and fight constantly, what do I do about this??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - i really need help.. this might sound stupid or whatever but i just don't know how to deal with it.. so i go out with this kid.. i reallyreally like him. but there's jealousy issues on both sides. we fight constantly and shit and i just get mad ...

She says I ruined her Christmas and any chance I had and now I'm confused and don't know what to think or do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6209 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - Sorry if this is a bit long, it is a developing story that I have been posting to here about... Well, My girlfriend of several years told me she needed time and space. I gave her some, but tried to fight for her back. We were back for a short w...

My boyfriend drinks and can't stay away from other women from his past, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is 12 years younger than me, we have been living together for a year. One of the issues that I have with him is that he drinks every day. When he drinks, he says mean things to me and we fight. Another thing is that that since th...

I am I doing the right thing, should I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have had bad relationships - (REALLY BAD RELATIONSHIPS) and I have also have had a very troubled life but I met this awsome guy and I love him so much but I couldn't trust him for along time because I'm afraid he would do the same as all the ...

I've made her feel like I don't trust her. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6210 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - Hi hope i can get some other peoples perspective on this ,i have been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year most of the time things are brillant we spend a lot of time together have a lot of fun ,have a lot in common and love each others company, ...

I am hurt and confused because he told me he visited an ex who is in prison "for no reason."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I am in this relationship with this man I love so dearly. He just told me that he went to see an ex that is in prison. I asked why, and the only answer he gave was "No Reason". I am hurting and confused right now. What should I do?...

I'm experimenting with my sexuality and my bf was first ok with me dating other men as well, but now he has changed his mind! Is it wrong of him to change the rules halfway through, or am I just being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I'm bisexual and recently entered into a long distance relationship with a guy on the proviso that i be allowed to experiment with other guys because i have no sexual experience and am still in the middle of discovering who i am. At first he ag...

My boyfriend is going on a trip to Florida and didn't invite me to come. I'm thinking of maybe breaking up with him, but I'm scared to make a mistake then??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - my boyfriend is going away to florida for a week with his friend who is turning 21. They're going to stay at his other friend's apartment when they get there. We've been together for three months now and i do love him a lot but i don't think it's ...

Am I wrong in thinking there is more to this??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for five years. We recently moved in together after 2 years in a long distance relationship. I'll get straight to the point. I found some pictures of this girl in his phone and asked him who she was. He told me ...

I have good reason to think he cheated....how can I get over this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Hi, I have a dilema and need some advice. I have a strong suspicion that my hubby of 7 years cheated on me, I just don't know what type of cheating. 2 years ago I found a receipt for cell phone minutes. The problem is that he never had a cell pho...

I thought he was with his brother at football but he was really with his ex and I am in a world of hurt.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Please help! Im in a world of hurt. I was with my boyfriend for 6years,i broke up with him because he treated me bad.We split for a year and he dated someone else,but it didnt work. In the last 2 months we have got back together and things have ...

Is this suspicious behaviour??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - My b/f of three years has a car..and over a month ago his sister used the car for a week or two or maybe a little over a week...soon after i see a small tiny bottle of the anti bacterial lotion on the floor in the back(in back of the passenger ...

My gf will travel with a group of friends, including her ex who is a womaniser. This situation pushes me to the brink of sanity. Do I ask her not to go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - Okay, heres my predicament and I just want some feed back from people to see if i'm being out of line. My girlfriend of a couple years has always maintained a friendship with her ex. Him and their group of friends have always been close for years. ...

Am I right to question his integrity??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I am seeing a guy who I go to university with. He is home for the holidays (Diff. Province entirely). We have been using web cam to stay in touch. I was taken by surprise when I saw that he was 'shaven'. My question pertains to why might he shave ...

My boyfriend lied to me and now I don't know what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - my boyfriend lied 2 me and i don't know what 2 do...

My girlfriend is a stripper and it is driving me crazy!! Is lap dancing to be considered cheating? I don't want to loose her, how do I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - heres my question im in love with a woman who ive been with for the last three years on and off, we are talking again. the problem is that she is a stripper. i have mixed feelings about the whole thing, she has quit for me in the past but this tim...

He told lots of people about my pregnancy and I feel very hurt about it. Am I right in thinking this was a betrayal and what can I do to get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6213 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - This time last year, I discovered I was pregnant. I am in my late 30s, my boyfriend is 10 years younger, we'd been together for 9 months at that point. I was horrified. I did a test at work and immediately told my boyfriend. He met me in a ba...

She's under the impression it's her idea to take things slow, when in fact it's mine! I noticed strange reactions, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - Is this girl crazy or what? So I met another girl online, but this one seems to be a little loopy. She doesnt really make sense to me. The first night we talked she was already to come over or the night. I wasnt sure If I really wanted a strang...

My bf has trust issues for years now and I don't think any proof is enough for him. Do I stay or leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years thinks that i have cheated on him, which i haven't. This has been going on for years now and i don't no what to do. I don't think he will ever believe me and there is no way for me to prove it. i love him so much, but i do...

Is my gf trying to tell me something by only initiating sex when she knows I'm likely to say no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6214 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - My girlfriend only ever seems to REALLY want sex on the day when it's most uncomfortable for me. I do pretty intense phsiotherapy once a week and afterwards I drive straight to pick my kids up from their schools. By the time I get home I'm really ...

I cheated and everytime we are apart I think about how horrible I have been to him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend when we first started going out 9 months ago. I told him though and he's forgiven me. Everythings perfect and i couldnt ask for anything more. But i often get upset and wonder why he's still going out with me. He assures me ...

Instead of waiting for my doubts to be confirmed I blurted out, now she is super defensive and I am paranoid. Ideas?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6196 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - recently- 6 months i have thought my wife has being playing away i have 9 pages of doubts what finnaly confirmed it for me was receiving some weird almost abusive, scary jokey texts from my so called friend then having their communication verifi...

Once hurt very badly by a man I loved, now I run a mile everytime I'm in a relationship getting serious because I'm terrified I'll hurt again. This way I'm hurting others as well. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6208 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - It's 3 A.M. and I have just got back out bed. There's something I can't get off my mind so I felt the need to ask my friends on 'dearcupid' for advice. It all started two years ago when I met a guy called Jay* we were seeing each other for ar...

My boyfriend watches porn and visits gentleman clubs. I don't know what to think about all this, and what are the gentlemen really doing in their clubs??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Questions, specially from all the guys out there. Do all men have to watch porn? Is it OK for a guy, who is in a relationship, to go to gentleman clubs. The thing is that I've been having problem with understanding why my bf watches porn or go to ...

My gf talks to her ex by phone several times a day and sees him on a weekly basis. She also maintains friendship with other ex'es. Is this acceptable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

21 December 2007 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 8 months and we get along very well. We both love each other and talk about moving in together. I am experiencing some problems with my girlfriend and her friendships with her ex boyfriends. She has had ...

My married bf has another gf with 2 kids! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - I have my boyfriend for three years, he's married but no children, for 3 years of relationship with him I'm happy and i can say that am willing to live with him for the rest of my life, i really love him but suddenly i found out that before we met ...

Her doctor advised her to distance herself for people for an introspection as she doesn't know what she wants. She left me twice, no explanations, no hopes. How to win her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6217 days ago

20 December 2007 (M) - Hi Guys and thank you for reading! I was with this girl for 1 year and a half. After 1 year she dumped me because she thought she did not love me anymore. I called her again and again, but nothing, she would not answer my calls. I let he...