A
female
age
30-35,
*xsecrets
writes:Hey guys!I really need some help here. So, I've known this guy for about 4 months and we're really good friends. We hang out together alot and Recently, I had a formal dance and he was my date. a week later, we started getting really physical with each other. I'm not sure if he likes me or if hes using me because he told me that he doesnt believe in friends with benfits but he hasn't shown me any signs that he likes me or anything. I'm starting to fall for him but i dont want myself to get hurt if hes not serious. what should i do? How can i find out if hes being serious or if hes just using me? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, vickix3 +, writes (4 January 2008):
 Talk to him about. Maybe it will be awkward but at least you'll get an answer. good luck
A
male
reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (28 December 2007):
 I suggest that you test the water first, by that i mean try flirtatious gestures. Using flirtatious techniques is a great way of finding out if someone like's us with without the embarassement of actually asking them. Eye contact is probably the strongest tool that you can use, try to maintain eye contact for as long as you can, then smile and look away. Use playful touches, like on the arm or the leg, or straigten his tie,( if he has one ). Be really interested in what he does, or is doing, and laugh at things he say's even if you do not find it particularly funny. Over the course of time you will know by the way he responds to you whether he likes you or not. If you feel things are being reciprocated then you can ask him out with a little more confidence.
Hope it goes well x
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): Simple. You HAVE to ask him. Maybe you feel a little awkward being the first who brings up the subject but Hey! you can't act as if things are not happening between you two.
...............................
|
