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writes:I was dating a girl 11 months. I cheated on her with a girl it was my fault I went to her house but i left after a minute because I felt terrible. I told my girlfriend and its been over since.We hung out everyday we did everything together pretty much both families really close.Now she really doesnt trust me or want much to do with me.Should I keep trying to win her back or leave her alone and let her do what she wants?
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reader, heisman7 +, writes (31 December 2007):
heisman7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell now shes almost seeing my friends
im kinda choked because he promised he would be there for me and the day after hes trying to get her and told me hes perfect for her she kinda likes him a bit but still
what should i do about this
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reader, heisman7 +, writes (29 December 2007):
heisman7 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm sorry for not being clear but we did make out for a minutethen I couldnt leave so I did cheat
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reader, red1982  +, writes (28 December 2007):
I'm a bit confused about this - did you actually do anything with this other girl?If you have actually cheated on your ex girlfriend the best thing you can do is tell her that you still love her and how sorry you are. You could try writing your ex girlfriend a letter as it is probably easier then trying to say things face to face.She must be very hurt at the moment and doing her best to get over you. She probably does not want the relationship to be over either but if she feels that she cannot forgive you it would be best to let her go and learn from your mistake so that you do not do the same thing in the next relationship.
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reader, kenny +, writes (28 December 2007):
 You say that you cheated with this other girl, but when you went to her house you left after a minute because you felt bad, which i would not class as cheating. Does your ex know that this is all that happened, have you actually told her that you was only there for a minute?. Ultimately you was not unfaithful, so if you really like your ex i would keep trying to win her back.
Send her a big bunch of flowers, then book a table at a nice resturant or something, then take it from there.
Good luck
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