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writes: My b/f of three years has a car..and over a month ago his sister used the car for a week or two or maybe a little over a week...soon after i see a small tiny bottle of the anti bacterial lotion on the floor in the back(in back of the passenger seat)..i saw this about a month ago and i dont think my b/f saw it until yesterday b/c he was helping me get stuff out of my side of the car and then he picked it up and said this must be yours? I said it wasnt, maybe its your sisters..its not mine..later i ask him and he said he doesnt know he didnt ask..and when he had to fill his tyre up with air he cleaned up the back seat floor(he has paper cups back there and tissues and he said now it must be with all that stuff)..he said he doesnt know who left..i was trying to be casual about it and he said well whoever it was shouldnt have left it there.Is this suspicious? If he had some girl in the car at a previous time he probably wouldnt ask if something was mine just in case? he would just discard it just in case it wasnt mine if he was guilty of something? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2007): I don't understand. What is suspicious about this? It is probably his sister's. Maybe she dropped it while she was using his car and didn't realize it or couldn't find it. This has happened to me many times. I will drop something in my car and either not realize it or not be able to find it, and then will discover it days or sometimes months later.
This situation in itself is not suspicious. However, if you have other reasons to suspect he is cheating on you, then you should address it with him.
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reader, superhoopschick  +, writes (25 December 2007):
 i would relax. some guys actually borrow their sisters stuff and use it. they also feel emabrassed about it and will act as if it is not theirs but they keep it cuz they use it. I knw this, because i caught my old bf using his sisters body lotion and my own brother using my stuff for his own needs. u can get suspicious of a girl being in his car with him if he smells like sex or u find condom wrappers or strong girl or stains from girls on his clothes.
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reader, candid  +, writes (25 December 2007):
Im not sure what you mean by anti bacterial lotion and the connotations of that.
I do think however, that at times people will throw a topic right back at you as a form of defence.
If it is his car, he is the only one person responsible of the substance within it. Whether it be an empty can of pop, gym shirt, tire rod... these are 'his'.
From a different perspective: If he lent his car to his sister, would he not mention the fact that she left such 'trash' in his car, possibly being upset. And secondly, I would find it hard to believe that if a family member respected you, that they would have sex with someone in a borrowed car.
So in essence, yes- Id say this is behaviour subject to suspicion.
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