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*inkerbelle-
writes:ive been with my boyfriend for over a year, i am 16 and hes my first, anyway, he thinks im cheating on him and the other day, we was arguing on the phone while he was at work, so my mum took the phone away from me so i couldnt ring him, so a few hours later, i went to the phone box but i didnt know if his number was 0...53 or 0...52 and i got throught to one, which happened to be a boy so i said hello, and my boyfriend came walking up behind me and said "who you on the phone to" and i was standing there laughing because i thought i was on the phone to him, he grabbed the phone and a boy was talking on it.. now he thinks im cheating on him when im not. i would never do that.. what can i do now? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): hmmm interesting. i recently went through almost this exact moment with my boyfriend. I was calling him (or so i thought i was), another guy picked up the phone and then my boyfriend came up behind me and got mad because he thought i was talking to another man.
See there is this thing though...my boyfriend calmly discusses things until they get out of his control. So he asked me who i was talking to. I told him i was trying to call him, but forgot the number. Lucky for me he understood.
what i would try is sitting him down when you get a chance to talk to him, and calmly discuss the matter. Hopefully he will understand...if he loves you for real he should. If he doesn't then i think you should give him some time to think it through and decide what he wants to do about it.
Good luck!!!
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reader, Asmodeus +, writes (29 December 2007):
Explain to him what happened and if he still thinks you're cheating on him then you will have to rethink whether you still want to be with him or not if he can't trust you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): well if you been with him that long he should trust you.wow you dailed the wrong number i do it all the time.just take time out and talk to him let him look through your phone show him that your not cheating and he is the only boy you will love.
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reader, dc.ryan +, writes (29 December 2007):
 Hello,
You just need to explain what happened, show him the number you dialed and how similar it is to his. Just sit down with your boyfriend and talk to him about it, its all you can do - the fact is; he should trust you anyway.
Explain to him that you've felt upset because you don't feel trusted by him, and that it was mistake when dialing which got through to another guys cell phone.
Sounds difficult, but just express how you feel - and ask him to trust you; for one, you know perfectly well you haven't been cheating on him.
Ryan
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): its all about trust sweety and apparently your boyfriend doesnt trust you i think you should explain to him what happened and see what happens from there
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