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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I need to get past this shock!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - I've been in a serious relationship for 16 months now and everything has been perfect. We never argue, enjoy each others company. Have lived together since August and continually talk about our future together. This morning however, he popped out to ...

Although he's fun the heart says "no"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Today I went for my first date in a long time, the guy was great- good looking, funny, kind but acted like a big kid. As much I enjoy a laugh and a good time he seemed a little too childish for me. However when he asked if we could meet up again I ...

I cant move on, and she's gone back to her ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

31 March 2012 (M) - why do i still feel bad ? my ex dumped me for the second time about 8 months ago to go back to her ex. in a way i blame myself . i fell for her again very qiuckley, she never really let go of me , texting me , stringing me along , i was in...

What should I do? He said he did not want to be with me and now he rings me all the time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Hi all, this is my 1st time posting.... Was "strictly" friends with my ex for 8 yrs. We dated off and on from fall 2010 until this Jan. He told me he didn't wanna be in a relationship with me. How it was "easier to be with other women and they...

When I say no, girlfriend ends up taking what she wants anyways

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - So I recently went to sex store this week to buy toys for me and my girlfriend, we're lesbians. So I bought the vibrators, bullets, eggs, and dildos for us along with anal beads and lube. I told my girlfriend I'd like to use it on her during our ...

Should I feel guilty about taking a way out from working with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4655 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Okay, so I got roped into a group project with this girl, lets call her Sarah. It was originally a single person project. You see, Sarah and I were talking and she convinced me that we should ask if we can work together on it. I honestly didn't ...

Between porn and his fantasies it seems clear I don't do it for him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4640 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Hi I have a problem that is eating me up. I have been with my partner for over 7 years. He has used porn since the start whcih is something I had never even seen. Anyway I went along with it to please him!!!! pretended I liked it whcih I know was ...

He thinks its okay to toy with my emotions!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Why the need to hurt me? My ex and i broke up a few months back, it wasnt a good relationship, he had been hurtful and abusive to me, we also had kids which is why i choose to end it. He has continued to try and get back with me even though he still ...

I now regret taking him back after his fourth cheating episode!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - my partner of two years has technically cheated on me and i have taken him back for the fourth time and now i am regretting it what should i do?...

We've been together four years and I've always hoped he would change!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been with my bf for about 4 yrs. We've had our share of issues. I always hoped somehow he would change, but I don't believe he will. Sometimes its incredible he's sooo complimentive, charming, he will cook for me treat me great and o...

I just don't want to hurt anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Ok well I was.with my boyfriend for two years the first year was wonderful. Then he cheated on me hurt me bad but I loved him so much that I gave him anither chance then he started accusing me of cheating the whole time ive been fathful.he dosent ...

Was I wrong to discredit all the good we had in our relationship? Did I take it all for granted and basically throw a good thing away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Just wanting to know people's opinions.... I asked a question about this before, but there is new information now... My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. From the beginning, he has been very loving towards me, tel...

My boyfriend's dad is creating problems in our relationship and shows no signs of moving out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriends and I have been together 3 years in July. We got a house together almost 2 years ago and I love him very much BUT his dad moved in with us when he started going through a divorce almost a year ago. At first he refused- said he ...

Is this girl pregnant with my boyfriend's baby? I cant even ask him because he's locked up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time he's bad but I really love him and he loves me very much,I'm only16 and I need help?...I found out that he was texting other girls...one of their names was Gina,now this was about five months ...

Am I just wanting something I can't have or am I in the wrong relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Im a 24 year old with a little girl. I'm feeling extremely mixed up at the moment. I recently got back together with my little girls daddy (he is 42) who I've known for the last 8 years. In that time we've had an awful lot of problems, break up, ...

I don't feel he wants to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - i'm a bit confused about whats going on in my "relationship cycle" and also whats going on in my boyfriend's head! the background: we've been together for two years now, this is a long distance relationship right now.we had a great relation...

Boyfriend thinks of me as a breeding factory, if I can't have kids, he'd leave me!

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - I've been in a relationship for about 2.5 years with someone who is wonderful, caring, supportive, etc. We have been through a lot, and I sincerely saw him as the one. He already considered us married but it doesn't work that way for me. ...

Is opening up realistically a bad move to do in a troubled relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4652 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - Alright, so i am gay but i doubt this matters since my question should apply for any relationship. I've had a lot of experiences of breaking up and i've found that it almost always start from when i'm opening up to the one i love. Either because h...

Over the past few months our sex life has declined, and he is spending more time taking care of himself.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years. I realize that over time, sex can dwindle a bit as relationships progresses, but I'm trying to keep the flame alive. He seems, overall, less enthusiastic. I find myself initiating sex most of ...

Why doesn't he love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - i have known this guy for like 2yrs, he is married but not really very happy into this relation of his. i "really" love him and even broke up with a boyfriend of 4years for him,because i dint want to cheat on him. he used to like my best friend in ...

I feel trapped in a faux relationship! She broke up with me but still expects me to fund her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - Hello people I wonder if you can help me I am in a big big dilemna in my life at the moment, 8 months ago while I was travelling around in north america, I hooked up with my 'girlfriend' who i stayed with for 3 1/2 months to cut a long story ...

Is this a game to keep me and three kids on a string, instead of us both moving on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Is this part of his emotional games? My ex and i have been broke up for 4 mts now. When we were in a retionship our sexlife was non exsistent, we would go months without any intimacy and when we did it was never intimate. We had a good xmas and new ...

Would you spent a lot on a birthday gift for your partner if you received nothing for yours?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Im curious to find out others opinions on this. Would you spent a considerable amount of money (over $400) on a birthday present for your boyfriend, if he did not get you anything for your birthday? (birthdays are few months apart). I know it isn't...

I agreed to an open relationship, he said we'd talk about it once I was back off holiday but still no word....should I mention it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Ok, so I've been seeing this guy for the last six weeks. 4 and half weeks ago, he said he could only be in a relationship with me, if he had the chance to have sex with other women otherwise he wouldn't be happy in the relationship. so I said I ...

We've been friends for years and now it looks like it might be something more, but there are a few things that worry me about him, plus I don't want to ruin our friendship! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Hello. For the first time in my life ive met somone who has all the basic things I want in a man. We've been close friends for 7years and he's been asking me out all 7years but I always laughed him off cos I never saw us together. Now years have ...

He texts his ex while we are kissing and cuddling! Should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - my boyfriend has been texting his ex-girlfriend lately while we're kissing, or cuddling and it's starting to bug me. we had a fight about it and he said that i could read thier conversations, but i didn't because i thought i was over reacting. h...

I always have to initiate conversation and contact with a friend, is our relationship worthwhile?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - I have been getting to know a friend better over the past few months, we have similar interests, we get along quite well and have a good time when we go out together. Considering that I have just resolved issues with my ex-girlfriend it isn't as if ...

Why does my ex continue to try and hurt me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Why does he continue to try and hurt me? My ex and I split up several months ago he have children. It was I who ended it as he had not been a good partner. In the relationship there was no trust, there had been lies, he is an abusive man physical...

How can I convince my long distance girlfriend to stay longer when she visits so I can spend quality time with her and hopefully get laid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - There's this girl who lives in Durban, appearantly she is kinda like my long distance girlfriend, she lives a far from where I am of which I leave in Johannesburg, she going to come in couple of days to company her friend to visit her boyfriend of ...

What are the boundaries of cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Ok so I feel like I should know this already but I don't. What are the true boundaries of cheating on ur bf/gf ??? Cause one of my friends thinks it's when u have sex with someone else, another thinks it's when u make out with someone else, so ...

My doctor acts weird around me, why is this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Ok, I have a physician (gyneocologist) that is overseeing my pregnancy. I have been a patient of his for about 7 years. He is about 56 yrs old. Well here is the issue, he seems so nervous around me. I watch him interact with other patients and ...

I just don't know what to think anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - Ok I had a child 3 years ago. Things didn't work out with his mother but shortly after we split up I fell madly in love with her cousin. Which is also my sons cousin. We have spent the last two years together and everything has been amazing. But we ...

My daughter hates me. I need advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Hi. I have an 11 year old daughter who absolutely despises me the moment. I realise hormones come into play but she contantly disrespecting me and her brother. My husband and i have been seperated for a few years and i am in another relationship of ...

I don't like being a laughing stock!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Dear cupid I am a petite person. yesterday my bf (of 2 years) told me one of our common friends was teasing abt me that how my how short i look when i drive, how tiny my arms feet look and how i look like an egg plant.... I asked him how he ...

Do you think I am Asexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Hello everybody. I am seeking some advise from you. I am a 21 years old female and recently i've been dealing with something that trully botheres me. I have been in relationships before, and i have taken my time, plus the guys were always very...

I want to spend my life with her, Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - where to begin.... i guess im really just looking for advice or even just to get things off my chest with an outside perspective. I guess i should tell you a bit about my situation. I met the woman of my dreams five years ago. we met on myspace.....

He's catholic and I'm pentecostal , I'm in love but scared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - Hello. I'm 22 - never dated before. For the first time really, I'm meeting a guy who has what I'm looking for but problem: I'm a staunch christian so growing up, i taught lots a thingss. He bets just for fun of it, ofcourse u know christia...

I want to put more effort into repairing our friendship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

29 March 2012 (M) - My bestfriend is a girl Cassidy, and my other friend Martha said you've been helpful on her friend problems so I'd be grateful if you can help me. Cass is 16 and I'm 17. We've been having problems because I don't put a lot of effort in and i ...

New committed guy in the pic but I am missing an ex who is obviously bad for me... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4656 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I’m sorry that this is of essay length but I’m really very unhappy and need advice desperately. I was involved in a very intense and passionate but turbulent relationship with a man whom I could never quite understand. He had three long relat...

Unexpected possible pregnancy, boyfriend doesn't want the child, I don't want to lose either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - hi im a 22 year old lady with a 21 year old boyfriend, we had sex and the condom broke so we think i might be pregnant, this will be my first child and im looking foward to having it but he is telling me that he is not ready! What do i do because I ...

My boyfriend will be in prison anywhere from 15 years to life. How do I handle it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is doing 15 to life he has no specific time for release I love himi just don't know how to handle it can u help? ...

Can I believe her that nothing happened but him putting his hand on her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

29 March 2012 (M) - okay.i am in a relation from 6 years with a girl in my neighbourhood.we were happy and our relationship was cute.she had to go to china for her m.b.b.s.one day we had a fight and we dint talk for two months.in this gap she talked to another guy who ...

Is there any way he'll want to be with me and try to work things out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for like three months and then he fly over to see me and we had vacation together for a month. we had the best time ever. we had fights sometime . well it's happened like almost everyday speaks about some silly little ...

I'm attracted to him but can't imagine having sex with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4653 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - Long question alert..... So basically I've always thought I was straight until I started getting close with one of my friends; I need to lay out the whole story so bear with me... -I'm from and attend university in Brighton, the most liberal ci...

B/f has time for everything but me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - So, I'm going out with this guy for over a year now. I love him and all. But off late, things have become very difficult. He just cannot seem to make time for me. Ok, so we had exams for a while and he didn't have time. I get that. But we have hol...

Is it ok to flirt with someone so young whilst doing business? Or am I just jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I was on my partners computer tonight sending email for him on his instructions as he is away when a message came up saying Sally was wanting to talk. I clicked on link and I saw there were messages dating back a few weeks. I was surprised by what I ...

I can't get out of this affair!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4654 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I need help. I am a maried woman and mother of 2 and had an affair with a man i met on the internet. About 6 months after the affair started my husband found out and i asked him to leave the house because at the time i thought i was in love ...

The three-way relationship seems to be slowly excluding me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4657 days ago

28 March 2012 (M) - Need advice on a three way relationship. I am a straight guy dating a now bi girl, another girl came into our life and we both took her into our relationship. Only she's more gay than bi so her and my gf spend a lot more time together than I do with ...

Instead of investing in us and our family b/f buys a flat! What's wrong with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - What is going on inhis head? Myex and Ibroke up several months back, we have 2 kids so we have to be civiland havecontact. to cut a long story short, I waited a long time for him to commit to me and our kids, when I thought is finally got the chan...

Why does my b/f treat me so badly now? He never spend money on me or does anything with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4658 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - i honestly don't know where to begin, this is going to be a long story but ill try and keep you interested, my friends aren't helpful, and i have a lot to say, i'm hurt, i'm depressed, it bothers me everyday and i can't find a way out, i just can't ...