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*suzaSam2
writes:I met a guy a month before, he and me were a best friend and then we became lovers. we talked to each other, we hang out with each other, he told me he loves me more than anything in this world. now he is out of town he make me call everyday but before a week he stopped making me call, whenever i call him he gave his cell to his sister and tell her to tell me that he is not well, or he is having dinner, he went to play soccer etc. whenever she say like i this i felt like he standing near by her and giving her command to tell whatever he is commanding. i dont know what to do, last time he called me and told that he loves me and will do anything for me. i dont know what to do, did he found someone else or he dont what to keep relationship with me or he dont like me anything more? pls help me i cant leave without him
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reader, DsuzaSam2 +, writes (5 May 2011):
DsuzaSam2 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for ur response yesterday he called me and said the reason why he was not able to call me he missed me
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011): Well, if he can become "best friends" and lovers with you within 3 weeks, he can certainly do the same with someone else in another town.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (4 May 2011):
Your problem is a little confusing. For one thing, what makes you suspect that he’s in fact there and asking the sister to make excuses for him? What reason do you have to suspect that she isn’t being truthful and that, for example, he really isn’t well?The only thing I can suggest is that next time you call and a reason is given by the sister as to why he cannot speak with you, ask her if she will ask him to call you back when he’s free to talk. That’ll give you a better idea as to whether or not he’s ignoring you-he’ll either call back or he won’t. If after a few days or so he hasn’t returned the call try again, and perhaps a couple more times. But after a few times if he is unresponsive and fails to return your calls you may then have cause for concern. I hope it doesn’t come to that though-best of luck.
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