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writes:Okay, so I have a BF that had lied to me about being a virgin, I found out that he wasn't a virgin by a friend of mines who knew him longer than I have. I asked him multiple times, yet he denied it.. afterwards we was in a good mood.. and I asked him again, He finally admitted that he wasn't a virgin. Of course I was mad and angry but somehow I just letted it go like "that". I later asked him how many times he did "it" with. He answered 2 with 2 different gurls. One was his ex. the other was a gurl that he didn't even know anything about. and when he told me this. he said he had sex with her just a week ago. We have been dating for 2 months now and he cheated on me..He said he'll NEVER do it again. It's obvious that it may seem like a lie, but I Trully do BELIEVE that this guy loves me..Not just by his words.but by everything he does. I feel like he loves me more than I love him, yet I still can't figure out why he decided to cheat on me. I asked many friends and they said that I should Dump him or I'll get Dumped..But they don't understand him like how I do..What Should I Do?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (4 May 2011):
 hi
he has shown you in 2 very big ways already how honest he is. why are you happy to settle for someone like this when there are so many other guys in the world ?
lying about being a virgin when he has been with 2 other girls (that he is admitting to!) is really low. so is cheating on you.
he may do this again.. or he might not. you obviously don't really trust him now or else you would be just getting on with your relationship instead of coming here to ask for advice about it.
so, sorry but i agree with your friends and the other aunts who say dump him. you deserve someone better!
xx
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reader, Foo' +, writes (4 May 2011):
Foo' is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAHha Thx! Fo the advice..I'm pretty sure..I'll get it outta my way..whether I ddump him...Or not...But I'm pretty sure I'll figure something out...Again, THX!!..
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 May 2011):
 Dump him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011): I can see where you are coming from, when I was 15/16 I was with a man (much older man) who constantly cheated on me, but I always said to friends and family "you don't know him like I do".... well think about it from outside the box, because that's really the only way you'll be able to come to a rational decision.... think of it like this..your friend was lied to, and then cheated on, what would your advice to her be? it'd be stop being stupid and leave him.... guys are not all the same, you deserve better and sooner or later you will realise that this guy is a loser who doesn't deserve you.You might think he does, might be insecure, feel like its awesome to have a boyfriend- be it because he's goodlooking or whatever appeal D*ckheads often have (i have been there!)..-HE has NO respect for you-you'll find someone who is suited and won't treat you like crap, but its your choice- you can learn it the hard way, or you can cop on and get rid of him before he does much more emotional damage, and trust me, he will... you might think he will only do it once, but you're mind will wander, maybe years from now, whatever. get rid of him.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (4 May 2011):
 He shows he loves you by cheating on you. That's really showing a lot of love! After 2 whole months you think you actually know him... Sorry, but that's hilarious and nieve. The truth is he cheated on you with a girl he doesn't even know, had sex with her, and you think he loves you?
I really hope you're smarter than this.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 May 2011):
Your friends are right. You should dump him before he uses you and gives you an STD or something. He's a liar and a cheat - that's all you need to really understand.
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