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Should I stay or is it time to move on?

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Question - (4 May 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 May 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my gf and i had a threesome with another guy and i went out side my room for a few minutes and they kept going. i have forgiven her but there has been nothing but arguements recently. i have also met somone else.what should i do, should i stay with her or move on

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (4 May 2011):

Tisha-1 agony auntDefinitely move on. Try to do so gracefully.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (4 May 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntif you are fighting and angry about the threesome and you've met someone else... move on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011):

Move on, you weren't enough for her not want to shag another guy and she's not enough for you seeing as you've already met someone else.

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A male reader, Partyboy123 Canada +, writes (4 May 2011):

Partyboy123 agony auntHey,

Having a threesome in GENERAL is morally wrong, especially since you are dating... give your head a shake man, if she kept going, she must have thought you were ok with it.. if that were me, i wouldn't have even had the threesome... but since you did, and she obviously doesn't feel bad about it... you should get rid of her and move on, you tainted the relationship.

I fear now, she will think its okay to cheat, and she may think its ok... but seriously, don't have threesomes if you don't want to get hurt.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (4 May 2011):

dirtball agony auntI vote to move on. If you're already looking for someone else instead of working on the problems, that should indicate to you where you stand on this one.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011):

you have met someone else... yet you start this as the victim.... strange isnt it. would you feel this way if you hadnt met someone else? she deserves better. you couldnt suddenly meet someone else, to me it sounds like the threesom incident is just an excuse to break up and be with this other person...

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