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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy two weeks ago. On a night out we got dared to kiss, so we did. The next day I was in my hotel room and he came up to talk about it and we ended up having sex. Last night after lots of drink, he kissed me again.I really like him, and I liked him before all of the above happened, so it's not just sexual. Problem is, my best friend, is also my ex-boyfriend. He was my first and only boyfriend, and I can't explain how much I loved him. I still do, but I'm pretty sure it's not the same way as before. For some reason I just feel guilty whenever I'm around them both. They're friends. Not great friends, but they are. And I don't know what I feel guilty about, or who for, I just do. I always gravitate towards my best friend when I'm with them both, and then feel guilty towards the other guy, so I go over to him, and then I feel bad for leaving my best friend. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2011): Be realistic about the fact that when your best friend ex boyfriend gets a new girlfriend you'll be sidestepped! It may not happen now..but it might! Dont let someone new that you like be dragged down by someone from your past.. Hes in the past for a reason eh? Im talking from experience. You cant give someone new a proper chance when an ex is about. And how will this new guy become a boyfriend and your best friend if you're still bff with an ex? If you dont agree with me think about a reverse situation about u, the new guy and his best frd thats his ex glfd. I wouldnt like it..would u? Hope this helps..If not hope someone replies that does! Best of luck
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