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writes:I feel like i'm in a catch 22 situation. My girlfriend recently has started to break things up with me, not because she does not love me, but because things are almost out of our hands.She is moving back to China after living here for a few years, not to cause offence but Asian parents are known to be more strict and even though she is independent from her mother she still goes along with what she wants and says. (Moving back to China)She is breaking up with me because we are from different worlds and claims we can't be together. She does not want to be selfish and make me give up my life for her or basically putting her under pressure with me there knowing I gave up everything. They were her words not mine.I know it is hurting her inside and finally last night she said we won't speak for four days and after then if we still can't let it go, we would try work something out. I'm not sure if she has other motives for these four days, but i'm sat here not knowing if we will ever speak again.Now that I have slept on it. I still refuse to accept that I can't be with her if I want to make certain sacrifices, but the one thing I know that I'm insane about is that China is very different and I have not fully thought through the prospect of living there.I'm not sure if i'm the one being selfish by not letting her go. Reply to this Question
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reader, janna03  +, writes (4 May 2011):
true love will prevail,race is not hindrance to love. i know its hard, but if u really love her, u wont give up easily..
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