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anonymous
writes:So i really dont know what to do about my boyfriend. We have been dating for quite some time now but it seems whenever we hang out with friends he acts all tough. But when we're alone thats when his loving side comes out. But the thing is, he doesnt know how to act like a boyfriend. either that or he doesnt wanna act like a boyfriend because its a sign of weakness for him? People tell me to leave him because he isnt worth the time. Especially when his friends are around and he acts very rudely towards me. How do i get him to hold my hand? So far this simple task he not been able to be done because of his attitude. I ask him and he acts negatively about it. Is he not ready if he has had 8 girlfreinds before? I dont know what to say or what to do about it. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2011): Maybe he's embarrassed to act loving in public or maybe he's scared what his friends will say. But either way that's no excuse for him to have two personalities with you. Obviously he knows how to act if he's had 8 girlfriends but doesn't want to act right for some reason. Tell him how you feel and that it hurts you. If he doesn't change or doesn't realize how important it is to you then he's not worth your time and you should find someone who's not afraid to give you what you want when you need it. Hope I helped if it's not too late.
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